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We're Going to the Backyard and We're...Gonna Get Married
It’s #NationalWeddingMonth and what better way to save duckets by having your celebration…
“For me it was holding onto the magic of it all. What woman doesn’t want to sip her tea or coffee in the morning while gazing upon the spot she said “I Do”.”
Photo by: Jo Ann Breaux
Kai and Sam Parker tied the knot at their gorgeous historic farmhouse last year.
It’s February, which means love is in the air and it’s officially National Weddings Month. February does own the most weddings to a single day. The trajectory of matrimony has evolved in recent times. No longer are couples waiting to buy homes after they tie the knot and couples are being more cost conscious when thinking about the thousands of dollars spent on a one day event.
Think about it. Would you rather start your life together in debt or would you rather have a budgeted wedding day where you can maybe take a fantastic honeymoon or maybe save for a future endeavor? I love a backyard wedding. There’s so much you can do without the hassle of extra costs or stress from dealing with vendors to time restraints to transportation. Home is where the heart is in this scenario. As of 2022, the average cost of a wedding in the United States is $30,000, which includes the ceremony and reception and that’s only in some states. Depending on where you are, you could be looking at 40K+ for your big day. Imagine how much you could within your home for that much! I don’t—thank you very much.
Here are a few money saving ideas for your backyard wedding, but remember, it is about what you want in the end.
Local Author Ward Howarth and wife of 20 years, Amy had a beautiful and intimate wedding.
“It felt more personal, less formal. No rules, just more like us.”
Lights: You can’t go wrong with a dusky wedding. Ground lanterns to light up walkways or hanging jars with electric candles. And of course string lights will work nicely for the occasion.
Picnic: A great idea is having a picnic wedding in the backyard. Having blankets strewn about as you lay about for the happy couple.
Projectors: Using a projector to provide a slideshow backdrop can be sentimental and fun.
Trees: Trees are great for swings, hanging lights, photos, fabrics, and are great to hold a laundry line where guest can pin up the polaroids or sentimental notes.
Privacy Fences: These are great to hang family photos, lights, or use as a photo backdrop.
Food: Use a local caterer or make it a potluck, it doesn’t have to be from a Michelin star restaurant so make it easy.
“We were about to make a life together. We loved our house and it just felt like the natural thing to do. It is a memory that is etched into where we live and love.”
Have a look at these RVA backyard lovebirds!
Karen and Doug had an intimate ceremony in their backyard and then did it again in Poe’s.
Kristy and Keith Rader opted for the front yard underneath their pretty magnolia tree—how Southern of y’all.
Victoria and Joe Deroche did the casual thing with her children by their sides under the pergola.
Austen and Savannah vowed to have a great time with their fun backyard nuptials.
For more simple and budget friendly ideas:
Guilty by Association
Knowing the difference between an Homeowners Association and a Neighborhood Association…
Photo by: Photographer Frederik Trovatten
Years ago my mother bought a house in a neighborhood in the far West End of Richmond. My mother grew up in the jungle of Santiago, Panama. She knows how to stretch a dollar to the fullest. When she moved in, she would hang her laundry out back because a) it’s what she’s used to and b) it saved money. Neighbors did not take kindly to her resourcefulness nor did they like it if I parked in front of her house, nor did they want her doing anything to tarnish their impeccable image. She hated living there.
I recently had a client dealing with her 2 HOAs in addition to her Neighborhood Association. Yep, two different entities, 3 different fees, and double the disclosure package. So fun. I decided this would be the subject of this month’s piece—educating others on the differences. Here we go…
A Homeowners Association (HOA) and a neighborhood association are both community organizations, but they have distinct differences in their structure, purpose, and functions:
HOA (Homeowners Association): Primarily focused on managing and maintaining common areas and amenities within a residential community. HOAs often enforce community rules and architectural standards, collect dues, and address issues related to shared facilities. For example, there might be rules on what type of structures you can have on your property or if you can have a business out of your home.
Neighborhood Association: Generally has a broader focus on community engagement, social activities, and advocacy. While some neighborhood associations may also address common issues like beautification and safety, their scope is often more varied and may include organizing events, fostering a sense of community, and representing residents' interests to local authorities. For example, a neighborhood association can vote on a pet friendly environment or encourage others to help with buying playground equipment.
Membership and Dues:
HOA: Typically, residents within a specific housing development or community are mandatory members of the HOA, and they are required to pay regular dues to fund the association's activities. In Richmond, HOA fees run on average between $200-$300 a month. Depending on how lux the community will determine price usually. The more amenities, the higher the cost.
Neighborhood Association: Membership in a neighborhood association is often voluntary, and residents may choose to participate by paying dues or getting involved in community activities. Some neighborhood associations are good for maintaining the beautification of a community or helping to prevent criminal activity, although they can be a bit like Mrs. Kravitz where certain neighbors will cause headache to others.
Governance:
HOA: Governed by a set of covenants, conditions, and restrictions (CC&R) that outline rules and regulations for the community. The HOA is usually managed by a board of elected homeowners or the property management company for condos/townhomes.
Neighborhood Association: Governance structure varies, but neighborhood associations are often more informal and may not have the same level of regulatory authority as an HOA. Leadership may consist of volunteers or elected representatives.
Enforcement and Regulations:
HOA: Has the authority to enforce community rules and regulations through mechanisms like fines, architectural review processes, and, in some cases, legal action.
Neighborhood Association: Typically has a more limited regulatory role, focusing more on community engagement and collaboration rather than strict enforcement.
Scope of Activities:
HOA: Primarily concerned with managing property values, architectural standards, and common facilities within a specific development.
Neighborhood Association: Engages in a wider range of activities, including organizing social events, community outreach, and advocating for broader neighborhood interests.
If you choose to live in a community that has an HOA, make sure you understand all the bylaws and restrictions that come with your new home. If you are a homeowner that wants the freedom to do what thy will upon your property, you may not want to get into a home that has an HOA attached to it. It can affect things like the color of your home, where you park, noise restrictions, and so forth. Also note that when you sell your home or condo, you have to pay for the resale package which can be quite pricey.
My mother no longer lives in a restrictive community, but she does have a neighbor who thought it’d be a good idea to park a large RV and build a tiny house right up to her property line. Can’t win them all!
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Seeing Red
The color red can be tantalizing, energetic, and inviting and shades of it in your home can prove to be a stand out choice…
Ah the color red, when I think of it in cinematic terms, the red room in Twin Peaks comes to mind and The Shining’s geometric rug. Not the most positive use of the color, but I did find Amelie’s bedroom dreamy as well as the grandeur of Downton Abbey’s grand room to the bewitching vibe I was looking for. It’s that time of year where I spotlight the color of the year trends, but unfortunately this years choice has left a bland taste in my mouth. Sorry Pantone but Peach Fuzz doesn’t do it for me. The remainder of 2024 color trends of the year are leaving me with lukewarm feels as I don’t tend to favor too many of the cool tones they’ve chosen this year. This is the year to feel emboldened!
I have always gravitated towards the color red and is the only pop of color I give leeway to in my wardrobe, however, I don’t see it enough in interiors. Reds can invoke warmth and energy in a living space not to mention what it can do when creating a lush bedroom dreamscape. In Asian cultures, red symbolizes good fortune and happiness, perfect in celebrating the Year of the Dragon. It also draws an audience to a focal point within a space. You want to be where it is.
I’m talking about deep warm reds for interiors, for example my staircase wall will be full of drama this year as I coat it with Benjamin Moore’s Flamenco. You have to be careful with reds which makes it all the more exciting to coat you with my dear. It’s a strong color, not for the weak. It says “LOOK. AT. ME.” with danger, desire, and mystery. You have to be confident to use such pigment, but once you yield to it, you won’t regret it.
Entryways
Red in an entryway says, “Greetings, come inside, let me show you more.” It' is a perfect lead in exuding confidence and interest.
Living/Sitting Rooms
I’m a fan of an “conversational” space and how I love thee Victorian aesthetic. I am destined to owned a velvet chaise lounge. Nothing says, “Spill the very juice tea” like a vermillion velvet loveseat. Now, I’m talking a lot of vintage here, but red has its place in the modern decor world as well. Artwork in particular comes to mind, thinking Rothko and Rauschenberg prints or red accent furniture. Red also pairs well with natural materials making it an ease to mix and match with. Finding Oriental rugs dominated by the color is a nice option to tie a room together. Pairing shades of oranges, yellows, and blues with the strength of red can create a relaxing atmosphere.
The Kitchen
Finding pops of ruby in a kitchen through appliances and cabinet backgrounds will bring any kitchen to life. Making tapas was never so vibrant!
The Bedroom
This is a “duh” color for this room. Since red stimulates conversation and invokes passion, it’s a desired choice. You may not want to go too deep with red walls, but you will still feel flushed by adding velvet curtains and linens for a dramatic effect, how Moulin Rouge of you!
Photo by: Pars Sahin
Red courage
Working with reds in your home can be a hard choice. When we think of red, it gives us different connotations of meaning…alert, blood, sirens…vampires—it can be alarming or too kitschy in some instances, so choosing the right shade for you is important. Red can create a beautiful and lush space. We know that red is quite the popular color with exterior doors and why wouldn’t you want your home to stand out! Incidentally, red doors historically mean that your mortgage has been paid off, but I do believe today it’s more of an invitation than a brag. Don’t be afraid to use the shade, have fun with it, play with it, you won’t regret the results. Here are few more ideas to fire you up…
Soup's On!
It’s Soup Season and I’m here for it!
Oh January! We all just want to cuddle up by the fire and enjoy a good read or watch our stories. January is the month of the soup and while you are all cuddled up, perhaps you’ll need some nourishment. I found these soothing and simple recipes for some added warmth.
I’m featuring my top five soups, but I have collected a few on my Pinterest Board. Click on the pincode for more delicious soup recipes and feel free to share yours in the comments.
Italian Wedding Soup
It’s heart and full of good yums.
Photo Source: Good in the Simple
Sancocho
With Panamanian pride, I cherish this cozy comfort from my homeland. This soup is made in different Latin countries with different variations.
Photo Source: Iheartcilantro on AllRecipes.com
Lentil Soup
It’s super easy to make and is totally good for you, add Chorizo or veggie Chorizo for a little spice. Qué Rico!
Photo Source: Maricruz Avalos Flores
Pho
The Cure All! I love Pho when I’m not feeling well or if I just want something that I can feel in my soul!
Photo Source: Ananas J
French Onion
It might be the bread and the crispy cheese on top, but French Onion soup will be put me in a place of satiated comfort.
Photo Source: sheri silver
Honorable Mention: My Mama’s Chicken and Sausage Gumbo
This soup takes some tender loving care, but also not a soup in my definition, more like a stew. It’s all in the roux baby.
Photo Source: My Cousin Tiger Breaux
Photo Source: Nathan Dumlao
Soup Scene
Can’t be bothered making the stuff? No worries, we have some very good brothy finds in RVA proper.
Pho Luca is my Photastic find and of course Pho Tay Do.
French Onion Soup is très bonne at Chez Max.
Garnett’s always has great variety in their Soup du Jours.
Every soup I’ve ever had at Lulabelle’s Cafe has been spot on.
If you ever want just a really good Chicken Noodle Soup, Izzy’s is the spot!
And for our Ramen lovers…Grace Noodle is the highest rated.
Slurp It Up!
For More Soup Recipes, visit my Pinterest Board.
Gratitude Attitude
It’s time for being grateful and giving thanks, but also doling out acts of kindness in a bleak world…
We are at the time of year where we say thanks and graciously appreciate all that we have. I know it’s been rough. I think this year has tried to kill any spirit i have left. I feel a lot of us are struggling in ways we hadn’t seen before and they can be both scary and disorienting. The best thing to do to remedy these feeling is to do something good. I’m big believer in collective energy and I fear that is what the world is missing right now. That energy is also contagious, so if we all just tried to do something kind and good for others, perhaps we can shift this heavy dark weight?
Here’s a start:
VOLUNTEER: Find a local charity and take a day with you, your family, your friends, whoever and go help an organization out.
FUNDRAISE: Hold a donation drive for your favorite local charity. Every bit counts so make it fun and festive while helping these organizations stay afloat.
WRITE A LETTER: Whether you send a card or write a letter, you won’t believe what it feels like to see that in the mail amongst all the bills. I guarantee you, it will make someone’s day.
DELIVER A MEAL: Make some baked goods or a simple meal to bring to other’s doorsteps. It will be a delight for sure!
OFFER TO BABYSIT: My friend’s with kids are so exhausted. They barely have time to spend with each other or do anything for themselves. Frankly, I’m tired of seeing kids at breweries. Volunteer some time to babysit for your friends. They will appreciate the the cherished time spent on adulting.
DRIVE BY COMPLIMENTS: This is one of my favorite TikTok things. I love the people at stop lights or driving by slowly and giving others compliments. The smiles are so worth it! Positive Catcalling if you will!
TEACH: Do you have a friend who is constantly needing help with a skill that you possess? Take a day and have a teaching session. This not only goes a long way, but you are giving something of great value to someone else.
It doesn’t take much to be kind or to appreciate the things you have. Giving others the same will bring everyone to a better place.
This year I am raising money for the following charities, help me reach my goals!
Photo: Jesus Espinosa/Xinhua via ZUMA Press
Cruz Roja Mexicana: The Red Cross in Mexico to help those displaced during Hurricane Otis.
Jeremy and Kristen Turner: Friends of mine who lost everything in the Lahaina, Maui, Hawaii Fire. They are just trying to start over.
Latin Ballet of Virginia: I love this organization and what they do to give kids confidence in their identity and connects them with their culture. It is an organization close to my heart and who doesn’t love to dance!
Sashay RVA
National Square Dance Month has us swinging out partners…
Image Source: Ozark County Times
Do you remember those awkward moments in PE class when you had to learn to do si do and sashay? I grew up in a place where dancing was essential to your being, and whether you grabbed your grandma or your wife, you can be sure you’d be on the dance floor before the night is over. From what I know now, these days, Square Dancing is no longer taught in PE and I wondered how alive this tradition is these days. It seems like the tradition of people dancing together has become obsolete, unless you’re donning leather over at Fallout or waltzing the night away at some cotillion, the act of dancing cheek to cheek or hand to hand is hard to find.
So what is square dancing? Square dancing is a traditional American folk dance with European roots brought over by the settlers and then modified over time with the intermingling of different cultures. It consists of four couples fitting into the corners of a square. Usually square dancing is associated with country folk, but these traditional dances primary stem from Scottish/Irish, French and English origins. There are many types of square dances depending on what region you live in and in Virginia, Square Dance was designated as the official folk dance in 1991.
Square Dancing is made up of different “calls” from “callers”. Callers shout or sing out the instructions to the dancers to follow and often entertain the crowd. Here are a few calls you may or may not have heard of, but are most common:
Circle Left: All eight dancers join hands and walk in a left circle
Allemande Left: Everyone face their corner, take a left forearm with their corner and circles around until they are facing their partners again, Drop arms.
Do Si Do: Face your partner, step past each other passing right shoulders and without turning around step back to back then back up passing left shoulders until you are in front of your partner again.
Promenade: Couples in a skater's position, men on the ladies left side, and slightly behind her, take hands and walk together in a counterclockwise circle until you reach your home position. (Starting Position)
Swing: Couples in a ballroom dance position, circling in a clockwise direction a full 360 degrees or until facing the line of dance. Man twirls the lady under his arm to finish the swing.
Weave the Ring: Everyone face their partner and walk forward in a circle formation passing each other with alternating shoulders, starting with the right. Stop when you get to your partner.
Here’s a little video presentation from RVA Squares featuring Grant Hunnicut as the Caller.
I was actually surprised to find some Square Dance clubs here in RVA and now my interest is peaked. It may not be 7th grade PE, but looks and sounds like a good time. If you are interested in promenading into one of these groups, here are a few suggestions around town.
Livin' La Vida Verde
If you are looking to add some life into your spaces, but are prone to killing all things green…
I grew up with a mother whose green thumb would put Poison Ivy to shame. The woman can cultivate anything! You may think that plant is dead, but give it to my mom and she’ll whisper that thing right back to life and thensome. I, however, was not given such gifts. My plant magic consists of being able to keep a succulent alive half a year. I don’t know why, I just kill anything that hues green.
As I drooled over the past year’s dark cottage core/academia aesthetic styles, I pondered—can I too enjoy the benefits of plant life? I decided to do some research on helping me get started and if you too have a black thumb, maybe you will consider these leafy specimens.
Top 5 Favorite Plants for Your Home
The Snake Plant aka Mother-in-law’s tongue
I’ve seen these around before, but man, did this become a popular plant in recent times. This one will help remove toxins in the air and require a quite minimal maintenance program
Image Source: Plantz
Kentia Palm
Requiring little to no water and light, the Kentia is perfect to add some height (12-18 inches) to your space. They live a long time and are great at purifying the air.
My Favorite RVA Plant Houses
Sneed’s: They are friendly and helpful and have great classes, oh and don’t forget Cricket the kitty!
Cole’s Plants: Love this locally owned shop and has a great variety of houseplants made for home decorating.
Green Vibes RVA Pop Ups: Love what this lady does. It really does feel like walking into someone’s home and picking out what speaks to you.
Lavender Fields: Not only is a nice drive there, but I love ending my purchases with some Lavender Honey Ice Cream or Tea. They have a good variety of things here and it’s a nice place to visit.
Devil’s Ivy aka Pothos Ivy
This climber of a plant has been a staple in my mother’s home for decades. You barely have to glance at her and she thrives. She’s fun to decorate with as well, especially if you have a screen for her to adorn.
The Peace Lily
Just as it suggests, this low maintenance beauty curbs anxiety. I like that it’s a flowering plant to compliment your home decor as well.
Succulents
Yes, I know they’ve been trendy for a while now, but honestly these are my favorites. They just provide such versatile looks with color, shape, and texture. You can do so much with them and they don’t require much in return. Consider the Aloe plant and its medicinal properties.
Planning for the Worse
Here are some good tips to be ready for disaster…
I think a lot of us say we know what we’d do in certain circumstances, but if we’re all being honest here, when panic sets in, it’s hard to think straight. I for one am one of those people that likes to freeze. I’d be the first to die in any apocalyptic scenario due to my ability to disassociate myself from traumatic events. That being said, I think if I can give someone tips on how to be prepared then I feel I at least participated in the disaster relief program.
In all seriousness.—my friend, who lived in Lahaina, HI lost their home and everything in it in the wild fire that ravaged the island last month. It was tragic and she and her husband are still reeling from the loss. I cannot imagine what it was like for them to lose everything they owned, leaving them displaced and in a state of shocked. It makes you stop and think about how you’d prepare yourself for something like that or can you?
Disaster has no mercy nor does it have a timeline. Things just happen and unfortunately sometimes Mother Nature’s chancleta can be quite destructive. As we are in the midst of our Hurricane season and this month is about preparedness, I thought I’d give you some tips on some things we can do to help when disaster strikes.
Have a Plan
Make sure you and your family have a plan.
Do you know your phone numbers by heart?
Do you have a meet up location in case you get separated?
Do you know where the emergency supplies are?
Do you have a nearby place to crash in case you can’t go back home?
Do you know where the nearest hospital is?
This is when knowing your neighbors can be helpful.
Do you know where the evacuation routes are?
Don’t
If the government is actually following protocol for once in its life and thinks it is dangerous enough to issue an evacuation, take heed. Better to be safe than sorry.
Be an amateur storm chaser. Yes, I know it looks really cool to see the inside of a tornado, but do you want to die because you don’t want to disappoint your socials audience?
Divert from the plan. Practice the plan and keep it consistent.
Forget about planning for your pets.
Go swimming when it’s flooding, you know because electricity and water don’t mix.
Do
Invest in a waterproof bin that is easily accessible.
Have a tank of gas available that is also easily accessible.
Have at least three weeks of non-perishable food and water stored, not like Doomsday stored, but you know in case you are stuck.
Include your children in the safety portion of the Plan. You don’t need them panicking while you are all trying to stay safe.
Make sure that you have important documents copied and saved in a safe place.
Get flood insurance if you are in a flood zone area.
Give your neighbors your contact information.
Spend the money on a generator
Know how to disconnect your utilities
Supplies
Remember, easily accessible, in a waterproof container, one on site and one off-site. Here are some things you may want to include:
First Aid Kit
Batteries
Battery Powered Radio
Wireless Charger that is Charged!
Blankets
A set of clothes for each member.
Diapers
Prescriptions
Feminine Products
Multi-Use Tool, ie. Leatherman
Strong Flashlight
Wireless Lanterns
Matches/Lighters
Scissors/Knife
Rope
Flare Gun
Cards
Pet Food
Water
Plastic Cutlery, Save when you get takeout
A list of emergency numbers
Or you can buy one that’s already built for you!
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The Return of Velvet
The look, the feelt, the velvet! Create drama and luxury with velvet decor…
I have a thing for velvet. I find it to be a fabric of luxe and lush finishing and it’s popular again much to my pleasure. I like how velvet can create drama within a room. For instance, I just bought velvet curtains from Amazon and wowsa, what a difference it made in my otherwise plain living room. I think sometimes people take it for granted because they see it as a heavy fabric, but velvets come in all weights and shapes. I found these luscious finds that you could consider decorating with to bring any room to stun.
The Velvet Couch
You know the one that makes any Oscar Wilde prose delicious. I love the comfort of a velvet sectional, so plush and tranquil.
The Velvet Tuft Headboard
Bring luxury to your bedroom with gorgeous velvet headboards.
Velvet Decorative Pillows
These come in different shapes and sizes and create beautiful contrast amongst your furniture.
Velvet Vintage
You can never go wrong with a signature piece in velvet. Create drama with a velvet chaise in the bedroom or a antique velvet sofa for spilling the tea in the sitting room.
Velvet Dining Chairs
Bon Appetious! Dine in elegance with adding a little velvet to your dining area.
Velvet Drapes
What theatrics is this! Velvet curtains create gorgeous texture in any room. Get hideaway rods for a real dramatic effect.
Off-Campus Capital
Investing in your child’s future through home purchasing…
August is National Back to School month, and as we watch the backs of our little ones entering what we hope will be an enriching learning experience, I want you to hold off on the mimosa for a sec and consider this. Have you thought about your child’s future once they hit the college scene? I don’t know about your college experience, but I do recall that come Sophomore year, those young adults are going to start seeking shelter off-campus.
You know how important investing in your child’s education is, but do you also know that actually investing for their future is setting them up for wealth and success? Ponder this—excluding tuition, consider the on-campus expenses you pay. Let’s use VCU as an example:
Those numbers are per year, so imagine little Jimmy going for his 4 year college degree and you’re out $80K. Imagine the expense if they been accepted to a private school!
Consider purchasing a home for your high school grad. It’s not that far-fetched. I’ve known a few parents who did this as a present for their kids’ graduation and it turned out to be a great investment for all involved. The benefits of becoming a landlord to your child and their roommates are plenty, but also what it will do for you all in the future financially is a great reward.
Start them off early and show them that the after-school job can do more for them than any video gaming system purchase. If I had that knowledge in my high school years, those part-time gigs could have relieved many years of renting headaches and saved me thousands of dollars.
The average rent for apartments (1 bed) in Richmond, VA is between $1,285 and $1,786 in 2023 with the average rent for a single family home being around $2,038.
Here are a few pros of buying for the next four years:
Decrease student debt by omitting on-campus room and board.
If there is a roommate/partner situation, mortgage payments will be reduced or paid for.
It could be a nice way to decrease student loan debt.
Student loans can help with rental and living expenses.
Build equity and income.
Once they graduate, you have a few options. They can take over the mortgage payments, become their own landlord, create a vacation rental, or sell it.
They’ll be happier living in their own independent space.
If you have other children going to school in the same area, the residence can be passed down from generation to generation.
It will teach them responsibility and money management.
Of course there are cons:
Maintenance will need to be handled, so you might have to pay extra when things go wrong. Make sure you have a handy network of on call professionals.
Safety. It won’t be like a secured campus. They will have to take more precautions.
Being a landlord can be difficult if your tenants are late or don’t pay their monthly rent.
If you are a student, sometimes there are age restrictions in applying for a mortgage and also debt-to-income ratio can be a challenge.
If you are interested in investing in your child’s future by purchasing a second home or having them purchase their first, contact me so we can get you started. it’s never too early and my lenders are on stand-by to answer any mortgage loan questions. Now feel free to sip those mimosas and wave goodbye to your future investors.
National Adopt a Cat: Meowtastic reasons for owning a cat
Why should you own a feline companion, here are a few reasons…
My first pet was a dog, A beautifully rambunctious German Shepard named Pepi. We had to get rid of her because our home and ourselves were too small for her energy. We opted for a second dog, a cute rottweiler mix named George. Both George and Pepi met untimely deaths. My mother decided we were no longer going to be a dog family, but an unexpected cat family. Our sweet orange tabby, Tommy, was my best friend and he began the tradition of my owning cats.
Yes, I know, there are cat people, there are dog people, and there are animal lovers. I am by nature a cat person, but love my dogs, horses, pigs, birds, and so forth. Funny enough we are more similar in makeup to cats than dogs due to our brain makeup. Since this month is National Cat Month, I thought I’d encourage you all with some fun facts about owning cats.
Less Stress and Anxiety
The number one benefit for owning cats is that they have been clinically proven to relieve stress and anxiety. They help release oxytocin in humans, therefore creating a more harmonious and tranquil enviornment.
BETTER CARDIOVASCULAR HEALTH
If you could reduce your risk of a heart attack by as much as 40% just by owning a cat, wouldn’t you? Studies have shown that owning a cat decreases heart problems.
Improved immune system function
Cats help strengthen your immune system and can potentially reduce the risk of certain allergies and autoimmune disorders by introducing associated microorganisms and bacteria. They may also reduce allergies if you grow up with them.
“Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.”
Top 3 Cat Breeds in the US
These are the top breeds trending in the cat world.
Ragdolls
The cute factor on these cats has been winning all the competitions in the last few years. They have a gentle temperament and just super chill cats.
Maine Coons
I love this exotic creature. Slightly bigger in size with such a majestic face, these cats make for great companions.
Scottish Fold
Famous for those rounded ears and big ole eyes, this feline is a curious and amiable character.
“You know how it is with cats: They don’t really have owners, they have staff.”
Cool Facts About Cats
Bet you didn’t know these feline fun facts.
House cats share 95.6% of their genetic makeup with tigers.
There is evidence that suggest that cats predated Ancient Egyptians by 4,000 years.
Isaac Newton invented the cat flap to stop his cat “Spithead” from opening the door to his darkroom and ruining light-sensitive experiments.
“A cat will be your friend, but never your slave.”
Adopt a Cat Today
If you are interested in Cat Adoptions, Check out these resources.
Making Room
Amanda Scudder is the Owner and a Certified Professional Organizer in Richmond, VA.
It was a very sunny morning when I met up with Amanda Scudder, Owner and Certified Professional Organizer of Sprucely, Home and Lifestyle Solutions. This one woman show drives this passion project to helping those organize their homes so they can have space for themselves and others, inside and out.
As Fat Rabbit morsels filled space in our bellies, I took some time to discover that organizing goes beyond purging one’s closet, but can become a healthy and liberating habit. I don’t know about you, but I cannot work in a cluttered space for too long. I also cannot deal with the overwhelming sensation of sentimental disposal. I tend to want to keep everything from wine corks to scribble filled napkins. It is the complete opposite of a close friend whose monthly firepit hang ends in the remnants of old love poems and greeting cards.
Amanda began her career with a Masters in Social Work and was all too familiar with implementing effective systems as part of her work. She is also a very kind and gentle person. So while she did her stint in Social Work, including working for United Way, she felt like something was unfulfilled in her. The Universe, my friends, is a powerful ally. It wasn’t until she randomly went to a retreat and met someone needing assistance with organizing her home, that the switch flipped. She had found the missing piece. Sprucely was born out of that passion after doing her time learning and getting certified at the Institute of Challenging Disorganization®.
Doing the unstuck is hard. Where do you start? How do start? Why do you need it? I know when I am doing a thorough clean and organizing things in my home, the energy shifts. I’m able to be more productive, my mood is lifted—of course til I mess it all up again! Many people have a hard time—putting things away, making space for what’s important, or parting with things that have meaningful significance. Amanda is able to facilitate and support those who are ready to take that leap, but she does so without creating resistance. She allows her clients space to be ready for such a task, but also gives them motivations to ponder.
Amanda is also quite certified in not only being a professional organizer, but is also one if not the only local Organizer that is a practicing CPO-CD (Certified Professional Organizer in Chronic Disorganization®). This required her to evaluate case studies, medical histories, and work with a mentor. She has also completed intensive studies in helping those with such disorders as ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, Hoarding Disorder, PTSD, TBI and those with individuals suffering from OCD. Her interest lies in the “why” rather than the “what”. A lot of her job is helping those maintain a healthy routine of ‘putting things back where they belong’.
As Realtors®, we help our clients facilitate moving in and moving out of houses, Amanda helps them in both those transitions giving them a real brand new start. She helps clients get rid of the clutter before a move and shows them how to create efficient and good organizational habits to begin their new homes. But it is what Amanda does with clients who are in a life transition that I find dear. She helps clients find a meaningful and resourceful place for those items they part with so that they are beneficial to someone else in need. For example, someone who adheres to lots of books that they don’t necessarily need, could contribute to a library or bookshare. She shows others that the significance in that item could be meaningful to someone else, therefore releasing them, but never pushes them.
I have a box in my home that I will never get rid of. My ‘history’ if you will, can be found easily and within reach, but I tend to have lots of clutter around me. I have lots of clutter in my life as well. I think about how it makes me feel to transform that clutter into an inviting space for me to create and be tranquil in, and it is a desire of mine. Both Amanda and I agree that there is not set “way” to organize—every individual is different with various challenges. Some people need auditory cues while others need the visual, there just isn’t a set method to it all. You have to do what works for you and in the time it works for you. Sometimes we just need a little help seeing the trees through the clutter, while some of us just want to create a roadmap to organizational bliss.
If you are feeling overwhelmed and don’t know where to start, Sprucely can help! If you’d like to have a consultation with Amanda to figure out how to make space in your life, click below and schedule and appointment.
Slimming Down RVA
Eating healthy in RVA was never so easy. We have everything from Vegan to Mediterranean cuisine readily available to help you get that Summer bod in check!
Photo by: Jo Ann Breaux | Kismet Modern Kitchen
Yes, it’s true, we have some amazing restaurants here and the number is growing. We also have Operation Summer Bod Health Journey initiating amongst our denizens. So although, I really want to indulge in our A-Class bakeries and hear the crunch of Southern fried chicken, I’m on the hunt for some healthier options.
Kismet modern Kitchen
This newly installed amazingness is nothing short of tantalizing flavors and fresh plates. Portion control may be a little harder here.
Little Nickel
Little Nickel has the biggest and some of the best salads. They are crisp and light and you can add healthy protein options.
Cava | Mezeh | Roots Natural Kitchen
I’m lumping these three together because although, different flavors same concept. If you want delicious, quick, healthy bowls, i love these spots who have various locations in RVA.
North End Juice Company
I cannot say enough good things about this little gem. Organic and whole foods splendidly made.
Fresca on Addison
This sweet place has been in RVA for quite sometime and has always been a great dining option for those looking for a tasty vegetarian or vegan dish.
Fighting Fish
You can’t go wrong with eating Japanese food. You won’t be disappointed with the sushi and dishes at Fighting Fish.
Jannat Indian Cuisine
I don’t know about you, but I get real tired of salads when I’m trying to be lose weight or be healthier. Indian food is one of the healthiest cuisines and probably the tastiest!
Market Report RVA
Here we go! Tri-city market reports are available.
Yes, I have seen the rise of the interest rates. Yes, I have acknowledged the low inventory of housing here in Richmond. And yes, I cannot be uber positive about you FHA’ers. This is a strange market, as there was a significant lull up until the beginning of the month and although that change has been in the financing realm, I’m starting to see the past frenzy of over askings and inflated prices happening again.
I am also starting to see the Inspection returning, which in my opinion and as a Buyer’s Specialist, is a comfort. More people are moving here whether it’s for the jobs, for diversity, affordability or just how cool we are. The mixed use constructions around the city are becoming a stamp on the growth we are seeing and I wonder, just how fast are we growing? Traffic at 3:44pm is telling a story!
So, here’s a look at the overall tri-city picture. I’m always happy to sit with you and explain these stats or talk to you about your plans and how this all affects your home selling or buying plans.
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When you can’t necessarily renovate, you can definitely take advantage of a good deep clean and some simple room refreshes.
I look around my house and I want to cry sometimes because we are in that stage where we plan to renovate, but can’t right now so things are just left in disarray. Every Spring, hell every 6 months I really enjoy a good cleaning and refresh of my home. That means dusting everything from floor boards to ceiling fans and moving furniture to new places. It really does change the energy.
So this season, I’ve decided to stop whining about it and start room by room with a true renewal. Get the gloves out, initiate the elbow grease, and start envisioning a refreshed living space. Check out these simple and affordable tips for reinvigorating your home.
Kitchen
Fridge
Reorganize and clean your fridge out. Take everything out, wipe down everything, throw out old food and condiments and start anew. Don’t forget to put your baking soda in there to eliminate odors. Throw out freezer burned items and save space by using storage containers and bags.
Pantry
Take everything out. Wipe down shelves and sweep and clean floor space. Contain. Label. Organize by function. Voila! Save space and make it pretty!
CABINETS, FLOORING, BACKSPLASHES
A perfect way to refresh is to add some new color to your kitchen with newly painted cabinets, update them with new hardware. Replace countertops or do a good wipe down of the old ones. Add some decor like flowers, candles, and new containers for oils and culinary essentials. Add an water resistant rug or add additional shelving.
Bedrooms
Bedrooms are easy to update and refreshen. Move beds and furniture (yes, you finally found that lost sock) and thoroughly vacuum or dust/mop underneath. Decorate some repurposed furniture with wallpaper or paint. Paint an accent wall. Wash draperies. Get rid of clutter and organize drawers. Add a new area rug. Change up or frame some artwork. Change the lamps or light fixtures to add a whole new mood. And easiest of all, buy new bed linens and pillows. Replace curtains or buy some unique curtain holdbacks.
Bed Cleaning Tip: Sprinkle baking soda after vacuuming your mattress and let sit for 15-30 minutes before replacing linens.
Offices
Offices can get a refresh by organizing files and clutter. Adding a nice shelf can help with organizing materials or adding some nice decor. Add a plant and get some calmness to your workspace. Clean desks and wipe down monitors good. Clean keyboards, they get real nasty after a while. Get some drawer organizers to help with your drawer clutter. Add some candles to create a tranquil aromatic work environment.
The Rest of the House?
Time to find that lost $20 from 2018. Move all the furniture and thoroughly vacuum or sweep/mop the room. Dust off all shelves, remove books, wipe down floor boards and mouldings, and ceiling fans. Dust picture frames as well. Smell the clean! Replace candles, drape blankets, vacuum inside furniture. Refresh an area rug or paint a wall. Add the ceiling fan you’ve always wanted or create a built-in look with shelves.
Closets: Remove clothing and clean inside. Organize and purge clothing and shoes. I know, I still have hope for those jeans from college. Color coordinate or function coordinate clothing. Invest in some good hangers that won’t have your clothes end up on the floor. Use clear boxes for shoe organization or add hooks for belts and bags. Use dryer sheets to keep clothes smelling fresh.
Just a simple deep clean of your home will refresh and revitalize. Trust me you’ll feel so much better and more energized. Create the space you want to live in. There are so many things you can do to add unique touches and make it feel like a completely new space.
** Cleaning Tip: sprinkle baking soda to all your rugs before vacuuming. Use vinegar to get rid of odors. Invest in good cleaning products!
Trekking Solo
Solo traveling can be fun, rewarding, and an exploration to a new place and yourself.
The month of February can be brutal for some. Some us who don’t wish to celebrate a Hallmark inspired holiday, glorifying how unloved we feel. So, from someone who has been through that, I would like to suggest falling in love—with a trip. I find traveling to be the remedy for heartbreak, like, go fall in love with a place not a person. The rewards will be better than any candlelit dinner or chocolates, I promise.
What I like about solo travel is that it opens you up to possibilities rather than adhere you to someone else’s itinerary or mood swings. Whether you choose to commune with nature or go for a foreign jaunt, traveling alone is liberating, rewarding, and gives you time to get to know yourself. Are you ready?
Pick a Destination. Make it fun, put all your bucket list destinations in a hat (mind you, just put those that fit your current budget), and choose!
Timing. Pick your date. Do you have to take time off of work? How long do you want to go for? Make sure you don’t have anything planned during that time like an upcoming wedding or shower.
Plan. Now that you have a destination, consider it’s locality. What are your necessities? How will you travel? Do you need inoculations or passports?
Book. Book your transportation, your lodgings, your restaurants, and any museums/events you plan on doing. This will save you standing in line or missing out on a wishlist item. AirBnB’s have been the best lodging experience I’ve had traveling unless you know someone where you are going. This allows you to get to know a neighborhood, meet someone local, and save money on food and lodging.
Research. Create a Google map and pin all the places you would like to see on your trip, even those you may not get to. Moods change. Make sure you see how walkable it is from your lodging or what the transportation options are (taxis, Ubers, trains, busses)
See Off-the-Beaten Path Stuff. Don’t be a tourist, check out some unconventional things and gain a new experience. Listen to the locals, talk with them, they always have cool suggestions.
Learn the Language. If you are traveling abroad learn a few phrases before going. DuoLingo is great for this. Things like, “Do you speak English?”, “Where is the bathroom?” “I’m lost, can you help me?”, and how to order food and drink are big ones. Most places, you will find English speakers, but ALWAYS be considerate to other people’s culture and language, that includes within the states (yes, Southerners and Yanks do things differently). We now have apps that can help you like Google translate.
Dressing. The biggest advice for packing is don’t pack too much. You’ll wear less than half the clothes you bring. Don’t forget these:
Mix-and-match ensembles will make your luggage lighter and give you the ability to buy something there if you wish.
A dress up look with shoes or a day-to-night look. Can’t tell you how many times I’ve been out all day and then I get invited to a dinner with no time to go back and dress.
Dudes, bring a dinner jacket (nothing says American like shorts and flip flops)
Don’t forget the bathing suit for hotel pools, rivers/lakes, and hot tubs.
Weather appropriate clothes.
A comfortable bag you can walk around with. I suggest cross body bags to deter any places with pickpockets.
Get Lost. If you are traveling in a city, take a day off and get lost. Sometimes not having a plan will help you discover real beauty or stumble across a treasure. DO NOT plan too many things in a day, give time for rests or just chilling.
Journal. Write about your travels, what you see, what you ate, who you met. I promise it is the most rewarding thing to go back years ahead and read about your experience. It is unique to you and others will be able to share in that experience.
Ladies. If you do travel solo, always be aware of your surroundings and know where you are. Once again do research. There is a great blog for you solo lady travelers called I Am AiLeen. Tell someone where you are going in case you are going a la “off grid”.
Check Your Vehicle. If you are traveling by car, make sure to get a checkup before you leave. Check the oil, tire pressure, bring a gas container, check your windshield wipers, and brakes.
Eat. Be adventurous. I hated olives until I went to Spain. Pickled herring is also not as bad as it sounds. Try all the local famous foodstuffs.
Do a Tour. I am not a fan of guided tours, but one which is customized to your interests or a smaller group is the way to go. You’ll learn a lot more from it. If you happen to go to Paris, I highly suggest paying the money to go on a tour with Art Journey, this isn’t your parent’s guided tour.
Go on a Date. Yeah, I said it. Get on that dating app and find someone who can give you a first hand tour of where you are, no-strings-attached. Be up front about it, have fun with it. You might make new friends!
Lastly, here are some essential items to bring on your trip:
Umbrella or Raincoat
Always bring a Jacket!
A First Aid Kit
Comfortable and Supportive Shoes
Medications (although they are cheaper outside the US)
Adapters if traveling outside the country
Wireless phone charger
The hardest thing for a lot of people is to do things by themselves, especially after a breakup. Traveling will allow you to do this easily because you are distracted by the sites and sounds of something new. Your date with a new destination will be your honeymoon for one and frankly, sometimes the best dates are about exploring a new canvas. Happy Travels!
Love You to Pieces
Furnishings that hold history or is a conversation piece can bring your home warmth and nostalgia.
As I child, I remember particular details of my home growing up—the green leather couch, the orange ashtray that my dad flicked his ashes in, the black leather bar, and large oval table that sat so many birthdays and family holiday meals. I can still remember the fur-like multi-colored rug that laid in my brother’s room, but nothing so memorable as the amount of times I brushed my tiny hands across my parent’s red velvet bedspread on their intricately wood carved bed.
My parents had this amazing bed set that had such great detail. Weirdly it reminded me of an old church with it’s three steepled design. It was a serious bedroom set, heavy and walnut. I cannot tell you how many times I’d run to their room, jump to lay on the bed just to watch my mom grab a purse from her armoire or to watch her dress for the day. My mom had impeccable style and LOTS of clothes and shoes (there may be a genetic connection here). I don’t know if it was the warmth of all the red that surrounded that room, but that bed brought me much comfort during a turbulent childhood. I remember I’d lie head at the foot to stare at the large wooden headboard while talking to my brother, listening to the rain on the metal pan my mom threw up on the roof so she could remember her home. Her childhood home in Panama was a metal roof in the jungle, and the sound of rain on it would calm her.
Fast forward to adulthood and I’m left with these nostalgic feelings, but have come up empty when thinking about my own furnishings. The only feeling I have is for the black Victorian framed mirror I got from my father. He gave it to me in my early twenties and it is the one piece i have held onto with each move. It has brought many a room together and it has brought me aesthetic joy, but it does not fulfill the comfort I felt from that wooden bed frame of my parents.
You may have a favorite chair or a favorite table. A piece that has history or sentimental value can make a house—a home. I love a good signature conversation starter. I had a friend who had a vintage toy chest she used as a coffee table. It had remnants of the original illustration on it. There wasn’t anything fancy about it, but every time I would visit her, I found myself investigating it with new findings of a carving or faded color I had not noticed before. My ex-in-laws were REALLY into mid century modern and there were two consecutive years of replica Wassily chairs given to us, but there was no comfort in them. It was the first thing people commented on, and although they have stayed with me through divorce and moves, they are so not the chairs you want to rest your weary bones in.
So, I’m wondering where my next beloved piece of furniture will materialize. I really want a good chair. I like a good chair I can cuddle up in and watch my stories from. Maybe even a modern recliner, one with a pocket for the remotes. Can you tell I’m getting to Senior status? I’m not hating on a good wingback recliner!
What’s your beloved piece currently? Is it decorative or is it functional? Is it one that has seen many places or is this a new piece? What makes it special to you? Feel free to comment below.
Establishing Trust
Being prepared for upcoming battles and establishing future plans.
I’m going to get a little personal here, but I think it’s good information for all those going through the same thing. Recently, a family member was diagnosed with dementia. This person is totally of sound mind right now, but we’ve run into some snags along this process. One being, they have only one child, and that child, as horrific as it may be, has decided that they want no part in their parent’s short or long term care leaving that responsibility to other members of the family.
This person is now dealing with a serious challenge(s) and it got me to thinking about how it will all resolve upon the worsening of their condition. They have no plan in place for one thing. This person is well into their 70s and with the assumption that their spawn would take care of them, is now left to their own devices. No will. No long term care plan. No real money to get them the help they might need once their faculties decline. So, now I think about my own parents, and myself for that matter. My parents are completely prepared for their final curtain calls, much to my guilt as their child. As I approach mid-century existence, it prompted me to yet again, read the fine print of adulthood, the next phase. I mean, who doesn’t want to take care of their moms and pops when they can’t do it themselves any longer? Isn’t it our responsibility as their children to take the reins on this and how many of us can feasibly do this? I save this for another discussion, back to it…
My family member is combatting the end of their independence which can be devastating, not to mention the denial aspect of the sickness to begin with. They sit on a 1500+ sq ft home on a double corner lot in a very desired school district. No power of attorney identified and no desire to leave their home. They are starting to have a hard time remembering where things are—ie. the deed to the house. The responsibility for their medical has been established, but what of their assets? It’s a legit concern and one I think about for not only my parents, but myself. It’s not always going to be us they choose.
Estate planning was never on my radar, but I have an Attorney friend who specializes in this type of law, and I was able to get some good tips about some simple ways to do this. Incidentally, when I thought about “estate”, it leads me to think of someone who has many assets or a wealthy state of being, but I’ve learned that this is not really the case most times. It’s about being prepared for the unexpected. The best thing to do is plan ahead and find a local attorney who can guide you through the process with ease to save you time, money, and familial emotional upheaval.
Here are the key points:
Establish a Living Trust. Wills aren’t always effective plans when distributing assets. It’s recommended to do a Living Trust, which basically means the beneficiaries you name in your living trust receive the trust property when you die and you can manage it while you are still living without the process of probate.
What is this probate you speak of? Probate is the official proving and recording of the will as the authentic and valid last will and testament of the deceased. It is time consuming, can be costly, and messy.
Establish a Fiduciary. This person can be a trusted family member. They will manage your assets and financials when you cannot. Make sure you put everything from the phone bill to your insurance on the list. Listing your assets and assigning them is also a good way to be prepared.
Establish Beneficiaries. These will be the individuals or the estate itself that will benefit from your assets. Be specific and everything from insurance policies to the dog should be assigned.
Establish Power of Attorney. This one is important, especially if you become unexpectedly incapacitated mentally. They will help you manage your financial and medical decisions when you cannot, but will also save a family member from an arduous process. If something unexpected happens to you and you, what are your wishes for your property? Sell, rent, pass along to a family member, etc.
Hire an Attorney who will guide you. Attorneys that specialize in this realm will help you save time and money. They will also help you establish your estate in a more private atmosphere.
For more information, feel free to check out some FREE information on Mr. Nance’s website, he has some good tips to follow.
2023, RIC, and Me
A new beginning of RVA love…
Photo by: Jo Ann Breaux, Mural Walk | Downtown RVA
Welcome to 2023 y’all! I’m not a big resolution gal, but I am a “let’s improve on this” one. One of the things I’ve noticed is that people are not getting out. I think because Covid left us where we are, some of us are having a harder time, or perhaps an easier time enjoying the comforts of our homes. I get it, I definitely haven’t been as motivated to go out and when i do, I find myself in quite awkward verbal exchanges. I’ve never had that problem before. So, basically things have changed.
I’ve been thinking about that and how I want to improve my business, but also improve my relationship. No, not with my partner, but my relationship with my lover—RVA. The thing I’ve loved most about Covid, (can I say that?), is that I delved into exploring different areas around VA and I’ve decided I want to do more of that, but also do things around Richmond I’ve never done before. That’s the thing, isn’t it? I’ve known some people who’ve lived their entire lives in Richmond and don’t come Downtown or to the Fan even. So, I thought I’d share some RVAcentric things I want to do that I haven’t done in my 32 years in our lovely city. What will you do?
The Observation Deck
It’s temporarily closed but hopefully will reopen soon. I’d always heard about it but never been.
Virginia Museum of History and Culture
Yes, I know, insane I’ve never been here
Picnic at VMFA
I sometimes forget what a beautiful set this is for picnicking and journaling
The Veil and Nokoribi
My friends at Longoven and The Veil have created this amazing space for their new venture and I cannot wait to experience it!
Wheel Time at Clayground
I’ve never made anything pottery like in my life, so I want to create something in this medium!
Visit the ICA
I drive by it all the time, but never thought to actually go inside.
Some Bike Tour of RVA
Seems dumb for someone who has lived her to do a “tour” but I happen to think that this is a great opportunity to learn more about where I live and a great way to see the city on bike, in addition to photo ops.
I’ll probably be adding more to this list but I thought it would be a fun goal to look forward to in 2023. What are your plans?
Wait, What Day is it?
Has procrastination gift giving got you down? Stressed about the upcoming shopping marathon? Don’t worry, I’ve got a few things that will put some ease into your last minute shopping ideas and support RVA!
It gets harder and harder each year to make those last minute holiday gift ideas happen. I decided to share some of my local favorites to consider for your gift giving ideas that are unique, thoughtful and most of all support our local RVA businesses. Have a peek…
Coffee, Tea, and Libations
The most important part of waking up is some high octane coffee in your cup. Everyone drinks, but not everyone partakes or wants to partake in adult beverages so check these out.
Local Coffee Gift Boxes from Color Wheel Coffee or Blanchards. Both also have subscription services to consider as a nice stress free gift idea. Some people would rather drink tea while spilling the Tea and a really nice “group” gift to get is some time in the T-Caf tea room. If you are looking for something to satisfy those who decided 2023 will be a sobering experience, you can put a nice gift basket with elixirs, bitters, and flavorful N/A beer choices from Ceremony or Point 5.
Baked Goods
RVA has so many good bakeries, but I will say I have discovered some fantastic new local delectables. Who doesn’t love a sweet treat every once in a while? My favorites are all self-starter, female owned businesses who launched their brick and mortars after success during Covid. I cannot say enough about Ellyn Hopper’s Fat Rabbit. She’s innovative and creates absolutely delectable goods. Veteran, Author, and Women’s Advocate, Rebekah Lynn Pierce owns Maggie’s Cupcake Cafe. She makes the most yummy goodies that will remind you of grandma’s house on Sundays. Her pies are on point! She delivers the goods and does it with a smile! Lastly, hair stylist turned baker and badass Mom, Chastity Hise along with husband, Russell opened Pies and Cakes bringing the sweet and the savory. Who doesn’t love cake and pizza! All these are worth the order and who couldn’t use a little help during special occasions? It’s a sweet gift to give friends, co-workers, and clients!
Hair Joy
Look, getting your hair done is always a fun thing. Who doesn’t love going to get pampered and then looking fantastic after? You can’t go wrong with a gift certificate to their favorite barber or hair salon. I suggest the ladies over at Rooted Hair Company, Miss Kai Block is my favorite colorist in town! A fun cut for them from Carrie at Gorilla Hair Garage is a great way to give them a fresh look, she does great kid cuts too! Guys, going to the barber can be a good time for you too, get them a nice cut and shave from Barber Of Hell’s Bottom or Mike Blendz’s.
Sassy Sauce
Now I am privileged to know some amazing chefs in town and also people who just know good flavor when they taste and make it. A really great stocking stuffer or a gift that keeps on giving are my sauce guys, Justin Cropper of Espoleta RVA and SoSS owner Tommy Tyrell know how to bring the flavor with their signature hot sauces. They have both worked real hard to bring their condimental creations to the masses.
Artful Sentiments
RVA has the MOST talented artists. Why not give them something unique and special, made just for them? Katie McBride is one of my favorites and she does RVAcentric pieces. Alix Petrie’s pieces are fun to get lost in and will look good in any home. You can find some of her artwork now at Eric Schindler Gallery. Get them some session time with Mia Artz Photography. What a great gift to give to those wanting to capture a moment in time and for a real wow experience, check out Melody Smith Portrait Gift Vouchers. I cannot tell you how amazing they will feel or opt for a couples portrait and create an heirloom piece for your home and family. And lastly, Dave Moore has always been a favorite of mine and his dreamlike art will look fantastic in any office or home space.
Experiences
I love giving experiences to my giftees. From cooking lessons to jumping out of planes, gifts that create memories are always great. Consider giving them some time at the wheel at Clayground Studio, they can make their own gifts or just enjoy a fun time creating and learning. Music lessons from a menagerie of musicians in the city, including Bravo Music Academy. Dance lessons are always fun too! Gift Certificates are always available at most locations. The Salsa Guy can teach anyone how to shake those hips! Maybe look into the AirBnB experiences or if they are on the cosmic side of things, a natal chart or tarot reading is affordable and fun. Season tickets to The Richmond Kickers is a great way for them to hang out with the locals and cheer their team to victory! Concert tickets are always fun to get as well!
Not Sure?
Yes, sometimes it’s tough, but sometimes the simplest things are the best gifts. I love a GC for my favorite grocery store. Give them some luck by getting them a FREE Rewards Card to Rosie’s Gaming and a $20 credit. Check out local gift shops like Alma’s RVA and Brookland Park Flowers and Gifts or Mongrel in Carytown.
Obviously these are just a few suggestions for last minute gifts. The most important thing is that while thinking about giving gifts, think about gifting RVA with your support for the local businesses in our beautiful city. I’ve seen so many “CLOSED” signs around town, it breaks my heart. So, let’s support our own and help these small business stay around a lot longer. Good shopping to you and happy holidays!