
Home is more than four walls and roof. Home is a door opening to you, your family, your pets, your lifestyle, your neighborhood, your community, your city. It’s all encompassing on so many levels.
House of the Dragon
Designing in traditional style Chinese motifs…
Since we are entering the Year of the Dragon and I honor my Asian roots, I thought doing a piece on Asian inspired home decor would be inspiring. First off, although I do have an affinity for Chinoiserie in home styling and quite like it, it is technically not Asian, but European-created. Ah, yes the seduction of the exotic has always been a muse of sorts. I can definitely appreciate that style of wallpaper down a staircase or dragon themed decorative pillows. Truthfully, the motifs themselves are really quiet poetic, but there is a bit of difference when we are talking about the lens in which these two styles are seen through. The western viewpoint captures the romanticism of Chinese landscapes and art, while I feel the traditional Chinese aesthetics delves more into the philosophy and beliefs of the Chinese culture.
Chinese design incorporates the need for balance and tranquility within the home. It uses natural textures and minimalism to enhance the character of the home. You’ll see a lot of intricate woodwork and lacquered furniture. Bold colors like deep reds and blacks are common in traditional Chinese design denoting good luck and sophistication respectively. Chinese decor is warm, but also functional, reflective of the art of Feng Shui. This all accompanied by Chinese art and figurines placed about the home accurately—Budai is everywhere.
Some elements you’ll find in this aesthetic are porcelain vases, decorative screens, intricately adorned chests and cabinetry, and of course Oriental rugs. Fun Fact: Shoppers used to bring their dogs to determine if the rugs were genuine. If the dog detected blood, they would know it was the real deal. Oriental rugs are woven by hand, often incorporating the weavers blood.
Designing an Oriental style home can showcase a bold and inviting space, but one that is also with purpose and practicality. It signifies elegance and suggests strength, peace, and harmony. Adding softer touches with Chinese floral motifs like lotuses, cherry blossoms, and orchids adds to the balance of this aesthetic and can calm any dragon.
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Seeing Red
The color red can be tantalizing, energetic, and inviting and shades of it in your home can prove to be a stand out choice…
Ah the color red, when I think of it in cinematic terms, the red room in Twin Peaks comes to mind and The Shining’s geometric rug. Not the most positive use of the color, but I did find Amelie’s bedroom dreamy as well as the grandeur of Downton Abbey’s grand room to the bewitching vibe I was looking for. It’s that time of year where I spotlight the color of the year trends, but unfortunately this years choice has left a bland taste in my mouth. Sorry Pantone but Peach Fuzz doesn’t do it for me. The remainder of 2024 color trends of the year are leaving me with lukewarm feels as I don’t tend to favor too many of the cool tones they’ve chosen this year. This is the year to feel emboldened!
I have always gravitated towards the color red and is the only pop of color I give leeway to in my wardrobe, however, I don’t see it enough in interiors. Reds can invoke warmth and energy in a living space not to mention what it can do when creating a lush bedroom dreamscape. In Asian cultures, red symbolizes good fortune and happiness, perfect in celebrating the Year of the Dragon. It also draws an audience to a focal point within a space. You want to be where it is.
I’m talking about deep warm reds for interiors, for example my staircase wall will be full of drama this year as I coat it with Benjamin Moore’s Flamenco. You have to be careful with reds which makes it all the more exciting to coat you with my dear. It’s a strong color, not for the weak. It says “LOOK. AT. ME.” with danger, desire, and mystery. You have to be confident to use such pigment, but once you yield to it, you won’t regret it.
Entryways
Red in an entryway says, “Greetings, come inside, let me show you more.” It' is a perfect lead in exuding confidence and interest.
Living/Sitting Rooms
I’m a fan of an “conversational” space and how I love thee Victorian aesthetic. I am destined to owned a velvet chaise lounge. Nothing says, “Spill the very juice tea” like a vermillion velvet loveseat. Now, I’m talking a lot of vintage here, but red has its place in the modern decor world as well. Artwork in particular comes to mind, thinking Rothko and Rauschenberg prints or red accent furniture. Red also pairs well with natural materials making it an ease to mix and match with. Finding Oriental rugs dominated by the color is a nice option to tie a room together. Pairing shades of oranges, yellows, and blues with the strength of red can create a relaxing atmosphere.
The Kitchen
Finding pops of ruby in a kitchen through appliances and cabinet backgrounds will bring any kitchen to life. Making tapas was never so vibrant!
The Bedroom
This is a “duh” color for this room. Since red stimulates conversation and invokes passion, it’s a desired choice. You may not want to go too deep with red walls, but you will still feel flushed by adding velvet curtains and linens for a dramatic effect, how Moulin Rouge of you!
Photo by: Pars Sahin
Red courage
Working with reds in your home can be a hard choice. When we think of red, it gives us different connotations of meaning…alert, blood, sirens…vampires—it can be alarming or too kitschy in some instances, so choosing the right shade for you is important. Red can create a beautiful and lush space. We know that red is quite the popular color with exterior doors and why wouldn’t you want your home to stand out! Incidentally, red doors historically mean that your mortgage has been paid off, but I do believe today it’s more of an invitation than a brag. Don’t be afraid to use the shade, have fun with it, play with it, you won’t regret the results. Here are few more ideas to fire you up…
Livin' La Vida Verde
If you are looking to add some life into your spaces, but are prone to killing all things green…
I grew up with a mother whose green thumb would put Poison Ivy to shame. The woman can cultivate anything! You may think that plant is dead, but give it to my mom and she’ll whisper that thing right back to life and thensome. I, however, was not given such gifts. My plant magic consists of being able to keep a succulent alive half a year. I don’t know why, I just kill anything that hues green.
As I drooled over the past year’s dark cottage core/academia aesthetic styles, I pondered—can I too enjoy the benefits of plant life? I decided to do some research on helping me get started and if you too have a black thumb, maybe you will consider these leafy specimens.
Top 5 Favorite Plants for Your Home
The Snake Plant aka Mother-in-law’s tongue
I’ve seen these around before, but man, did this become a popular plant in recent times. This one will help remove toxins in the air and require a quite minimal maintenance program
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Kentia Palm
Requiring little to no water and light, the Kentia is perfect to add some height (12-18 inches) to your space. They live a long time and are great at purifying the air.
My Favorite RVA Plant Houses
Sneed’s: They are friendly and helpful and have great classes, oh and don’t forget Cricket the kitty!
Cole’s Plants: Love this locally owned shop and has a great variety of houseplants made for home decorating.
Green Vibes RVA Pop Ups: Love what this lady does. It really does feel like walking into someone’s home and picking out what speaks to you.
Lavender Fields: Not only is a nice drive there, but I love ending my purchases with some Lavender Honey Ice Cream or Tea. They have a good variety of things here and it’s a nice place to visit.
Devil’s Ivy aka Pothos Ivy
This climber of a plant has been a staple in my mother’s home for decades. You barely have to glance at her and she thrives. She’s fun to decorate with as well, especially if you have a screen for her to adorn.
The Peace Lily
Just as it suggests, this low maintenance beauty curbs anxiety. I like that it’s a flowering plant to compliment your home decor as well.
Succulents
Yes, I know they’ve been trendy for a while now, but honestly these are my favorites. They just provide such versatile looks with color, shape, and texture. You can do so much with them and they don’t require much in return. Consider the Aloe plant and its medicinal properties.
The Return of Velvet
The look, the feelt, the velvet! Create drama and luxury with velvet decor…
I have a thing for velvet. I find it to be a fabric of luxe and lush finishing and it’s popular again much to my pleasure. I like how velvet can create drama within a room. For instance, I just bought velvet curtains from Amazon and wowsa, what a difference it made in my otherwise plain living room. I think sometimes people take it for granted because they see it as a heavy fabric, but velvets come in all weights and shapes. I found these luscious finds that you could consider decorating with to bring any room to stun.
The Velvet Couch
You know the one that makes any Oscar Wilde prose delicious. I love the comfort of a velvet sectional, so plush and tranquil.
The Velvet Tuft Headboard
Bring luxury to your bedroom with gorgeous velvet headboards.
Velvet Decorative Pillows
These come in different shapes and sizes and create beautiful contrast amongst your furniture.
Velvet Vintage
You can never go wrong with a signature piece in velvet. Create drama with a velvet chaise in the bedroom or a antique velvet sofa for spilling the tea in the sitting room.
Velvet Dining Chairs
Bon Appetious! Dine in elegance with adding a little velvet to your dining area.
Velvet Drapes
What theatrics is this! Velvet curtains create gorgeous texture in any room. Get hideaway rods for a real dramatic effect.
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When you can’t necessarily renovate, you can definitely take advantage of a good deep clean and some simple room refreshes.
I look around my house and I want to cry sometimes because we are in that stage where we plan to renovate, but can’t right now so things are just left in disarray. Every Spring, hell every 6 months I really enjoy a good cleaning and refresh of my home. That means dusting everything from floor boards to ceiling fans and moving furniture to new places. It really does change the energy.
So this season, I’ve decided to stop whining about it and start room by room with a true renewal. Get the gloves out, initiate the elbow grease, and start envisioning a refreshed living space. Check out these simple and affordable tips for reinvigorating your home.
Kitchen
Fridge
Reorganize and clean your fridge out. Take everything out, wipe down everything, throw out old food and condiments and start anew. Don’t forget to put your baking soda in there to eliminate odors. Throw out freezer burned items and save space by using storage containers and bags.
Pantry
Take everything out. Wipe down shelves and sweep and clean floor space. Contain. Label. Organize by function. Voila! Save space and make it pretty!
CABINETS, FLOORING, BACKSPLASHES
A perfect way to refresh is to add some new color to your kitchen with newly painted cabinets, update them with new hardware. Replace countertops or do a good wipe down of the old ones. Add some decor like flowers, candles, and new containers for oils and culinary essentials. Add an water resistant rug or add additional shelving.
Bedrooms
Bedrooms are easy to update and refreshen. Move beds and furniture (yes, you finally found that lost sock) and thoroughly vacuum or dust/mop underneath. Decorate some repurposed furniture with wallpaper or paint. Paint an accent wall. Wash draperies. Get rid of clutter and organize drawers. Add a new area rug. Change up or frame some artwork. Change the lamps or light fixtures to add a whole new mood. And easiest of all, buy new bed linens and pillows. Replace curtains or buy some unique curtain holdbacks.
Bed Cleaning Tip: Sprinkle baking soda after vacuuming your mattress and let sit for 15-30 minutes before replacing linens.
Offices
Offices can get a refresh by organizing files and clutter. Adding a nice shelf can help with organizing materials or adding some nice decor. Add a plant and get some calmness to your workspace. Clean desks and wipe down monitors good. Clean keyboards, they get real nasty after a while. Get some drawer organizers to help with your drawer clutter. Add some candles to create a tranquil aromatic work environment.
The Rest of the House?
Time to find that lost $20 from 2018. Move all the furniture and thoroughly vacuum or sweep/mop the room. Dust off all shelves, remove books, wipe down floor boards and mouldings, and ceiling fans. Dust picture frames as well. Smell the clean! Replace candles, drape blankets, vacuum inside furniture. Refresh an area rug or paint a wall. Add the ceiling fan you’ve always wanted or create a built-in look with shelves.
Closets: Remove clothing and clean inside. Organize and purge clothing and shoes. I know, I still have hope for those jeans from college. Color coordinate or function coordinate clothing. Invest in some good hangers that won’t have your clothes end up on the floor. Use clear boxes for shoe organization or add hooks for belts and bags. Use dryer sheets to keep clothes smelling fresh.
Just a simple deep clean of your home will refresh and revitalize. Trust me you’ll feel so much better and more energized. Create the space you want to live in. There are so many things you can do to add unique touches and make it feel like a completely new space.
** Cleaning Tip: sprinkle baking soda to all your rugs before vacuuming. Use vinegar to get rid of odors. Invest in good cleaning products!
Love You to Pieces
Furnishings that hold history or is a conversation piece can bring your home warmth and nostalgia.
As I child, I remember particular details of my home growing up—the green leather couch, the orange ashtray that my dad flicked his ashes in, the black leather bar, and large oval table that sat so many birthdays and family holiday meals. I can still remember the fur-like multi-colored rug that laid in my brother’s room, but nothing so memorable as the amount of times I brushed my tiny hands across my parent’s red velvet bedspread on their intricately wood carved bed.
My parents had this amazing bed set that had such great detail. Weirdly it reminded me of an old church with it’s three steepled design. It was a serious bedroom set, heavy and walnut. I cannot tell you how many times I’d run to their room, jump to lay on the bed just to watch my mom grab a purse from her armoire or to watch her dress for the day. My mom had impeccable style and LOTS of clothes and shoes (there may be a genetic connection here). I don’t know if it was the warmth of all the red that surrounded that room, but that bed brought me much comfort during a turbulent childhood. I remember I’d lie head at the foot to stare at the large wooden headboard while talking to my brother, listening to the rain on the metal pan my mom threw up on the roof so she could remember her home. Her childhood home in Panama was a metal roof in the jungle, and the sound of rain on it would calm her.
Fast forward to adulthood and I’m left with these nostalgic feelings, but have come up empty when thinking about my own furnishings. The only feeling I have is for the black Victorian framed mirror I got from my father. He gave it to me in my early twenties and it is the one piece i have held onto with each move. It has brought many a room together and it has brought me aesthetic joy, but it does not fulfill the comfort I felt from that wooden bed frame of my parents.
You may have a favorite chair or a favorite table. A piece that has history or sentimental value can make a house—a home. I love a good signature conversation starter. I had a friend who had a vintage toy chest she used as a coffee table. It had remnants of the original illustration on it. There wasn’t anything fancy about it, but every time I would visit her, I found myself investigating it with new findings of a carving or faded color I had not noticed before. My ex-in-laws were REALLY into mid century modern and there were two consecutive years of replica Wassily chairs given to us, but there was no comfort in them. It was the first thing people commented on, and although they have stayed with me through divorce and moves, they are so not the chairs you want to rest your weary bones in.
So, I’m wondering where my next beloved piece of furniture will materialize. I really want a good chair. I like a good chair I can cuddle up in and watch my stories from. Maybe even a modern recliner, one with a pocket for the remotes. Can you tell I’m getting to Senior status? I’m not hating on a good wingback recliner!
What’s your beloved piece currently? Is it decorative or is it functional? Is it one that has seen many places or is this a new piece? What makes it special to you? Feel free to comment below.
Envisioning a Dream
I’m dreaming of a realized 2023 and am vision board ready!
Recently in one of our sales meetings, we discussed Vision Boards. This has been a foreign concept to me. Organizing one’s thoughts is a foreign concept to me. Incidentally, that evening I unconsciously watched “13 Going on 30”, and there it was again. You know that winning scene where Jennifer Garner materializes the BEST marketing presentation ever with her vision board campaign to win the day and save her beloved magazine? So, I got to thinking, it’s a new year, blank slate and all. Should I try? Hmm. Being a newish home owner, there are a slew of renovation dreams on the horizon, but of course I have other life aspirations I want to accomplish. Perhaps if I did take those elements of my dreams and make a visual wishlist of intended targets, they would eventually materialize and I can have my flash mob moment of successful realization?
I have a hard time practicing the laws of attraction. I like to wing it in the most chaotic of fashions, which like most things doesn’t last very long. I’m going to try something new and give this “vision board dream maker” a go. I think I have a lot of things on the horizon to make a reality. Maybe 2023 will be dreams realized and goals met, one inspirational quote at a time. What about yours? Feel free to share your own unrealized dreams. #VisionBoard23
Here a few of my 2023 Home Goals
There are a million, but this is manageable for now.
I want to start an Herb Garden (perhaps I won’t kill these)
Built-Ins around our fireplace
Adding a Pedestal Sink to the powder room
Creating an inviting and entertaining outdoor space
Set the Table
Gather round! Dining rooms are great spaces for conversation and breaking bread…
Do you have a dining room and do you use it?
“We have more of an eat in kitchen - no formal dining room. We have never needed one. What is supposed to be our dining room is an office.”
“Yes we do. It looks very pretty holding my mail. We use it in cold weather when our family comes over for dinner. Not as often as I’d like.”
“All the time. (Until someone in my house took it over as her COVID-era work from home space!)”
“Yes, to date, once every 3 years … rethinking to make more of a flex space.”
“E: Yes and never
C: Oh you mean our craft palace catch all?”
“We don’t have a dining room, but do have a dining table separated from the rest of the kitchen by an island. We eat there several times per week.”
In my research of friends, it seems the dining room does exist, but is rarely used for nothing more than a holiday or extended family gathering. I think a lot of my people have eat-in kitchens or a dining table which extends, and is near the kitchen. Formal dining rooms seem to be a bit dated for most people, but I personally love them. I prefer to keep stove and plate separated. I think it also depends on what mealtime means to me as a concept. Do families still eat together? Do people still invite friends over for dinners rather than just cookouts and potlucks?
Growing up, the dinner table meant eating all your vegetables, doing all your homework, and having “serious” talks. This was very different than the dinner table at my Uncle’s house which consisted of a cloud of smoke resting upon anywhere from 5-12 family members playing cards, drinking and laughing hysterically. A dinner table that was a peninsula for biscuits and boudin on a Sunday morning after church, a meetup of cousins for late night cereal encounters, and countless holiday gumbos, fried turkeys, collards, and jumbaylas. It is the place of fond memories and heritage that defined my childhood. I think a lot of people associate the dinner table with tradition, but what does this room mean for the modern family?
Our dining rooms have now become transitional due to the pandemic. Dining rooms became workspaces, homeschool desks, and craft work areas, giving way to home offices becoming one of the most sought after rooms in buying a home. It also forced families to be around each other all the time and without some sort of room division, I can only presume, a formal dining room with pocket or French doors—a makeshift escape.
I guess I’m calling for a dining room comeback! I enjoy entertaining and cooking for people and having a meal presented, but mostly I enjoy a room where I can actually practice the art of conversation while enjoying the intimacy of breaking bread with family and friends. You know, caring and sharing over fork and knife. Perhaps I’m just old fashioned, but I do love showing an older home that has a formal dining room. I agree with my lady, Home Stylist, Ginny Sawatzky— “I’ve seen many unused dining rooms and have lots of reimagined ideas for those spaces.”
Decorating a dining or eating area doesn’t have to be a utilitarian task, you can have a room that is fun, elegant, or artfully themed. Whether it’s playing around with wainscoting, adding coffered ceilings, or experimenting with paint colors or wallpaper, by all means—go fork and dine!
le dining room
French inspired dining rooms could go one of two ways—the grand and detailed style fit for the Sun King himself, or opt for the simpler and cozier French countryside where the whisper of Lavender and the open air preside.
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We’ll have a glam old time
I adore a glammed up room. I love the jewel tones and the lush textiles. Art deco decor mixed with that Hollywood feel makes for a great dining space with lots of dinner table good times.
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for forks sake
Vintage Industrial is a fave of mine. Bold, but not cold, you can create a dining space that introduces a sexy elegance fit for sophisticated candlelit dinners or a dining room that will endure years of kidability and has that “restaurant” vibe.
Source: Digs Digs
sitta for a spell
Sometimes a darker Scandi look can be compared to the Modern Industrial look. I like my Nordic flare to have some attitude. Minimal, but not without statement, this style conjures transformative vibes and beautiful design.
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Season of the Witch
You don’t have to be afraid of the dark when decorating a moody and edgier theme. Check out these ideas that will create an enticing and unique living space for you and your guests without all the toil and trouble.
As a Realtor®, I get real tired of cookie cutter staging and bright open floor planned rooms. Don’t get me wrong, I like this look, but y’all I get bored easily. Wtichcore, Fairytalecore, Dark Academia, Naturecore—whatever trendy name they come up with basically encompasses a more whimsical, darker aesthetic. I like to call it #MystiqueCore. These days you can admire “gothic” or “darker” themes without it entailing the donning of vampire teeth and cheesy coffin beds. Gothic decor has become more refined and more celebratory of the natural elements, adding plants and an apothecary vibe to the mix. Here's some prime examples of how to make your home a little more witchy and a little less kitschy.
The thing to know about this type of home aesthetic is that this is not for minimalists at heart. You’ll be creating a curated museum type feel that will include the one if not all of the following themes and elements:
Cottagecore/Fairytalecore
Moody Scandinavian
Alchemy
Astrology
Whimsical
Dark Academia
Victorian
Steampunk
We’re talking terrariums, birdcages, mirrors—lots and lots of mirrors, oval frames, vintage botanical art, antique bottles, and muted, dark colors. I’m not saying you have to paint your entire house black, but accent walls that fall into the earthy blue, black, blood red, or Slytherin green works very well. Bone accents like drawer pulls, hung dried flowers/herbs, velvet and lush fabrics, and leather are also ways to give this an elevated and elegant look. Check out some of these cool ideas when deciding to come to the dark side and remember, you are allowed to have themed rooms in your home, we prefer cohesive but good witch to bad can create a dramatic transition throughout your home.
Photo by: Jo Ann Breaux, The Corbeau Collective
Toil and Trouble
Don’t worry, your guests are safe. Dried herbs, plants, natural oils in an apothecary-like setting will create a healing environment for you and your guests. Plants also add a nice pop of color, creating natural contrasts and life within your rooms.
Photo by: Jo Ann Breaux, The Corbeau Collective
Bring out the Dead
Taxidermy is a big one when trying to design in this theme. I’m not talking about that Elk you caught in the Fall of ‘06. I am talking about taxidermy that includes nicely curated animal skeletons in terrariums, framed bats, or beautifully pinned insects. There is beauty in death and you can decorate any room elegantly using this type of decorative motif.
Photo by Tuva Mathilde Løland on Unsplash
The Fairest of them All
For the love of Goth, it’s a lot of ornate mirrors. You can find a lot of these in Estate or thrift stores. Paint them black or paint them gold, either way, you’ll be the fairest in your domain.
Photo by: Jo Ann Breaux, The Corbeau Collective
Light the Night
Candelabras, Sconces, chandeliers, and lots of candles will light your way through the darkness. Spray adhesive lace around your votive holders to give a more elegant feel. You can even go with your favorite coven-mates and make your own special candles!
Curio cabinets with oddities and scavenged finds is perfect for any presentation. Remember not to get too Halloweeny, but do add elements that are going to work nicely with your furnishings and trims. Having a wall of mirrors or artwork has to look intentional. Do shop Estate sales for beautifully affordable antiques. Do paint furnishings blacks and play around with textures—matte vs glossy. Do play with color. All black gets dull, add some reds, yellows, greens in the mix. Stay away from kitschy decor, save that for the actual holiday.
I love this theme that creates comfortable, lush, and dramatic living space. Not everyone loves the light and you can just as well find beauty and classic feels in the dark as well. Happy conjuring!
In the Dog House
It’s a doggy dog world out there, but I’m celebrating National Dog month sniffing out some great canine friendly home ideas.
Dog people are a distinct breed. They love their canine companions hard and I do believe that people with dogs consider them to be an actual member of the family. I’ve actually seen people treat their furbabies better than their partners! I love dogs, but I do not have one. So until my future “Rook” comes to live with us, I have to start thinking of how to incorporate its space in our home.
Dogs are also high maintenance and I plan on having a large dog. There are two things that I know I don’t want in my cohabitation — dog hair everywhere and a crate awaiting a stubbed toe. I think it is a smart idea to have a separate space for your furry friends, especially when you are training them. I say this, but as soon as I get a dog that beast is going to be my bedtime cuddle buddy!
Creating space for you and the kids is one thing, but creating space for your dogs can be challenging, especially if you have more than one or other animals. I have found some great DIY ideas that will accommodate this and also help keep your home clean.
Crate Space
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve stubbed my toe on a dog crate or how much it takes from the size of a room. There is a solution! Find a spot in the house that is quiet and comfortable for them while they spend time in doggy jail.
There’s No Place Like Home
Finding or creating a dog room in your home can be challenging. Space is key. Laundry and mudrooms are ideal spots for Spot, but being creative can be fun too. Here are some fantastic indoor dog rooms for your best buddy.
Time to Chow Chow Down
You can have these custom built into your islands or kitchen cabinetry or you can have a reserved space for them to chow down.
Red Rover Come on Over
You have dogs. Your friends have dogs. Your dogs want to play with those dogs. Having a nice outdoor space is great for dogs to be able to get their energy spent and give you some time to relax. Think about fencing you and your guests in and giving the dogs freedom to roam. Consider side yards and small designated spaces for them to enjoy the fresh air.
Fetch Fido!
People that love their dogs, love buying toys for their dogs Dogs have a lot of accessories, from leashes to collars to, sometimes, fancy transport, I’m talking to you Yorkie fans out there. You want a great way to store those things? Have a look at these ideas.
So Groomy!
Grooming your furry loved one can get pricey, but you can convert a great area in your home for in-house grooming. Once again laundry and mudrooms are the best spots for creating this space.
Essential Dad Tips
Being a single dad can be overwhelming, but here are few tips that could help while you balance out the transition.
Dan and Morella Shebaylo at Forest Hill Park
Photo by: Jo Ann Breaux
A Few Single Dad Tips
Some dads are super hands on while others have let their significant others take that role. As a single dad, you no longer have them to handle the day to day. Being prepared for visitation will show them you got this, and ensure your kids have not one, but two great homes!
Learn to cook food that doesn’t come from a can
Don’t talk bad about your former partner in front of them
Always have a first aid kit, medications, ie. allergy, aspirin, tylenol on hand
Bandaids in bulk!
Always have a surplus of diapers if needed
Make sure a list of all emergency numbers are on the fridge or easily found (this is for you and the kids)
Make sure your fire alarms are working properly
Make sure they have clothes that fit them properly that include dress clothes and dress shoes
If you’ve got a teenage daughter make sure she has the essential feminine products as well as her favorite makeup
Make sure there is space for both you and your kids. Most single dads get apartments after the split, you want enough space where they can be comfortable and feel safe.
Get some games, books, puzzles, video games for the house
Always have some sort of plans on the weekends, this will save valuable time and also create some balance with their playtime vs yours
Remember, your house, your rules. You and your ex will have different ones so establish that with your kids so there’s no confusion.
Don’t introduce them to a new mate right away, give it a minute to see if you like them first (3-5 months is suggested)
Plenty of snacks!
Find kids their age in the neighborhood you’re living in or make playdates with schoolmates
Get a seasons pass to an amusement park, a museum, season tickets to ball games, swimming pools, etc.
Make sure they do their homework and that you are also a primary contact with the school. I’ve seen a lot of single dads miss their kid’s events because they weren’t informed
Co-Parent, civilly and patiently. For some this is difficult, but one solid conversation with your ex where you establish that you are going to be there as their father and that you should work together and communicate effectively in raising your kids.
Keep “daddy’s things” locked up
Don’t forget the bedtime stories
Spend time with them and have fun, that’s all they really want
I’m sure I’m missing some stuff here, but feel free to add some in the comments section!
At Home with Dad
Happy Father’s Day! Check out these cool tips and ideas for starting over again in a space you and your kids will enjoy.
This one is going out to all the single Dads out there. Starting over is never easy for anyone, but most single dads are also creating new living spaces to balance out being single again as well as accommodating those weekly visits with the kids. We’ve gotten pretty used to seeing inviting decor from women with a room for the dudes, ie. the basement game lounge or the garage tinker zone, but what are we seeing in their new solo environments?
Lucifer (Fox)
From musician to geeky to sporty, dads run the gambit. Guys tend to have more monochrome color schemes and sharper edges. Creating your dad space can be fun and you can still create an inviting space for your guests and your offspring. Here are a few ideas for those special dads:
Chordially Invited
Musician Dads, I know a ton of them. Guitar strings strewn about and maybe a buried drumstick in the couch, you can show your love of music while harmoniously classing it up.
Hanging musical instruments nicely on a wall (NOT ALL Walls)
Add some framed art by displaying your fave artists or instruments
Frame your band posters/flyers
Use non functioning instruments as shelving alternatives
Add a record listening station
Create a music room so you and the kids can have “rehearsal”
Use warm tones and relaxed furniture
Create microphone lamps
Mid-century modern seems to attract these types
Son of A Geek
You know them. They have 100 Star Wars figurines mounted on a wall or a life size replica of Iron Man’s suit. Remember neatly displayed versus vomitfest of collectables.
Curio Cabinets are great for Vader, Skywalker, and Solo to hang out
Maybe keep all the “toys” nicely shelved and displayed in one room but keep signature pieces out for conversation starters
Frame old comic books
A gaming area of course (uncluttered)
Use Lego for decor
Keep collectables neatly displayed
Get geeky wallpaper for the half bath (think Star Wars Toille)
Smart home equipped
Have fun with videogamed themed color palettes
Display old gaming systems
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My Dad is Old World
The intellectual father has more reserved, but stylish tastes. Think Harry Potter vibes…
Card Catalogs for Furnishings
A Reading Nook for those bedtime stories
Have an ongoing Chess area - intellectual and design savvy.
Rich leather and velvet furniture
Dark Academia looks
Taxidermy
Maps and Globe Decor
Candles and Lanterns
Antiques including apothecary bottles, medical equipment, an old microscope perhaps
Chemistry flasks as vases
Framed schemas and patents of engineering feats
Ephemera everywhere (typewriters, cameras, bike parts)
GOAL!
We cannot dismiss our favorite sports fans, but you don’t want your living space to be or smell like an old locker room. Sports dad should be able to display their love of the game with these winning ideas.
Find sports memorabilia that you can put in shadow boxes
Framed Jerseys
Barware is a great way to root for your team in a more subtle way (Wooden coasters, team engraved glasses, etc)
Hanging skateboards with cool art makes an eye catching display
Vintage sports equipment make for balanced decorating
Use your team’s colors throughout
Trophy cases
Create a “game” room for you and the kids to play and watch your favorite matches/games
A large flat screen TV
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Just Going to Powder My, Er Wig?
Check out these fresh powder room ideas…Your half-bath will never look the same!
Before the phrase “powder my nose” came into fashion, “powder my wig” was the historical origin. Powder rooms were for privately dowsing talcum on the wigs of the wealthy. Then it wasn’t until makeup became mainstream that more popular term came to use. Today, they are your guests respite from game day, your friend’s pause from Rosé sipping, or a quick once over before leaving the house.
The powder room. Small in size, conveniently located, and you’ll never have to show your guest the variety of toiletries you keep on your vanity or the pile of laundry on your bed. Half baths are not just real estate selling points or a convenient pit stop during your event, these little hidden accommodations can be the highlight of your home. Don’t flush that creativity, powder rooms are made to stand out!
Adding Some Texture and Contrast
You can add some texture by installing wainscoting, battened, or bead board. You can do it easily, and pairing it with contrasting colored or wallpapered walls make for a great effect.
Get Dramatic
I like going into a powder room that has some effect. Whether it’s a moody color or fun wallpaper, your half bath can be a tiny retreat worth Covid handwashing time.
Sinks and Features
You don’t have to have traditional white all the time. From texture to color, you can adorn your powder room with cool patterns, modern features in various finishes, and choose from a variety of styles when it comes to sinks and / or toilets. Don’t flush your creativity away!
Take A Seat
Artwork can definitely bring some cool to your powder room. Entertain your guests with some fun potty mouthed humor or class it up with some vintage botanical artwork. Leave encouraging messages for your friends or show off your bathroom fixture schemas.
Let’s See Them Hands
In the age of Covid, we all want our guests to be hygienically aware, so whether you choose a one towel hang or a basket full, make sure you have plenty of absorbent ones on hand. Apparently, Turkish is the best. Hand towels are a prefect way to pop some color in there.
Urinate and Look Great!
Mirrors are great solutions to giving your powder room some illusioned space. They are also a great accessory, because let’s be honest, we use it half the time to freshen up before a good makeout session, a one last look before leaving for the office, or to make sure there’s nothing in our teeth after dinner. Let’s not forget about lighting, from sconces to pendants, lighting your half bath can bring out it’s style and leave you and your guests feeling their best!
Equip Your Half-Bath
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve been to a party and found myself in my host’s powder room and needed the following things: safety pin, mouthwash, tampon, a bandaid…having your powder room equipped for your guests is not just a nice gesture, but also will allow you to do more hosting with less interruption. Make sure they are on display. Some guests might find it invasive snooping in drawers and cabinets. Here are few things to consider when getting supplies:
An Unscented or pleasant scented lotion (Coconut, Lavender and Shea are the best choices)
An Antibacterial Soap (my favorite is Mrs. Meyer’s Clean Day Liquid Hand Soap)
Bandaids
Floss
Mouthwash with small cups
Tampons/Sanitary Napkins (guys this will win you points)
Brush/Comb
Reading Material (Some Examples)
Plenty of Toilet Paper
A container of Safety Pins
Tide To Go Stain Remover (All those wine spills)
Wet Wipes
Deodorant
Scissors
Odor Control (Poo-Pourri Toilet Spray is one of my faves)
Bobbi Pins
Lint Brush
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It's So Easy Being Green
As we approach warmer weather and the promise of Spring, March ushers in all things green.
My Viridescent Life
Green represents all that is harmony in life, nurturing and growing. Creating tranquil or rich homescapes is easily done with this viridescent hue.
Envy. Life. Eggs. Acres. Money. Gables. Packers. Emeralds. Trees. These are just a few words that conjure in my mind when I think of the color green. When I see the color green I feel calm, refreshed, and growth. The reason restaurants use a lot of green is to promote not just healthiness, but psychologically it puts people at ease, making them want to hangout for a while. Green is the color of money and is so not only because the ink was plentiful and durable at the time, but also because green was associated with stability.
Green is balanced and creates harmony. In your home, it can be inviting and creates a tranquil environment. So as the shamrocks bloom, the leprechauns dance, and the green beer gets guzzled by wannabe Irishmen everywhere this month, enliven your home with adding some touches of the viridescent shade. You can create an inviting ambience by painting some walls with Laurel Leaf by Better Homes & Gardens or Sherwin-Williams color of the year, Evergreen Fog. Want a more moody feel, get yourself some rich velvet greens to enhance your bedroom or lounge area.
The color green denotes nature that can nurture your soul. Try adding some touches of green to your home design, refresh the bath with a rustic shade of Sage or enliven your kitchen by painting those dull cabinets with a nice Moss green and contrast it with some nice neutrals. You can quite literally add a touch of green by adding some real growth with a well placed tall plant in the corner. I love using green in my design work and this year I’ve been seeing a lot of it in home decor and fashion and I love the freshness it can bring to a home.
- Ginny Sawatzky, GS Design
I personally am a huge fan of Hunter Green or darker greens. I like the intenseness of it and coupled with gold or black can definitely create a come hither vibe. I’m no green thumb, I leave that up to my mother, but I can handle hung succulent terrariums (yes, I will kill those too) for some subtle biosphere feels. With as much suffocated quarantined life as we can muster, it’s time to exhale don’t you think? Green is the perfect way to renew and refresh and replenish. It’s springtime, aren’t you ready to add life back into your home? Here are few ideas to inspire you this very verdant month.
Exteriors
While everyone is still on the charcoal greys and dark blues, get ahead of the curve and dare to be green!
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Walls
Accent walls with a hint of green can be calming, add a dark green shade and see the drama unfold.
Kitchens
Green eggs and Ham never tasted so good in your gorgeously viridescent kitchen.
Decor
Touches of green, from plants to green glass vases to accented pillows, you’ll find these along the way to Emerald city.
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Furniture
These signature pieces would make any living space inviting and you’ll be in the envy of all your guests.
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Plant Life
We couldn’t add touches of green without including the natural and tranquil nature of…well—nature. Enter the biosphere with these green adornments sure to help you breathe easier and say, “ahhhhhh”.
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Where the Magic Happens
Enjoy these bedroom ideas to inspire and arouse your sacred slumber chambers.
I love my bedroom. I spent a majority of my childhood sharing a bedroom with my younger brother, and although his sleepwalking adventures were fascinating and our bunk bed shenanigans were delightful, moving from a three bedroom childhood home to a two bedroom apartment deemed challenging. As I progressed into teendom and the wearing out of every Cure tape I had, my mother ended up on a couch while my brother settled into his own space. Twas hard times back then.
As an adult, I long for the day of having all matching furniture, an accent wall, and room for a chaise lounge and ensuite bathroom to call my own. Let’s not forget a walk-in closet that i can actually see my clothes and shoes in. Sigh, bedrooms are for dreaming right?
I think we can all agree that the intimacy a bedroom can provide is also the intimacy it can provoke. It is February people! But seriously, bedrooms should be a place of relaxation, fantasy, a place to be pensive and quiet, and provide you with your own private sanctuary. Here are some bedroom ideas for you to sleep on:
Textured Accent Walls
We’ve stared at four walls for quite some time now and the bedroom is no different. Creating a textured accent wall can add depth and really showcase that dreamy furniture of yours and it’s an easy DIY project! Make different patterns and be creative.
Pendant Lighting
Lighting in a bedroom is everything! I love the look of hanging pendant lights and the variety of styles and shapes is aplenty. My only qualm about this one is if you are anything like me and want to switch your bed elsewhere in six months, moving lighting around can be difficult. The look is stunning though!
Wallpaper Accented Walls
When you want to be able to change up your background, go with easily interchangeable wallpaper to create a dramatic effect.
Upholstered and Shapely Headboards
Bespoke headboards are making a comeback and in gorgeous colors and textures. Headboards in general are making their way back into the scene with cool shapes and bold patterns that make spotlighting your restful slumber unique and expressive. They are also easy to DIY your own creations.
Painted and Textured Furniture
Bring pops of color into the bedroom with muted, colorful or textured furniture. We are still seeing deep rich woods, but color adds some pizzazz to your space.
Time to get to work and bring some magical refresh skills to your boudoir. Find your bedroom style, whether it’s moody and dark or light and bright. Visit estate sales and upcycled shops to find unique pieces you can refinish and make your own. Check out some local artists, and give your bedroom walls a little oomph. RVA has so many great woodworkers, artisans, and designers to make for a very comfortable and sacred place. Nighty, nighty!
Hibernation Central: Organizing Your Winter Gear
Winter can get messy and not all of us have the luxury of a mudroom, but here are some great DIY ideas for storing and organizing your cold weather wearables.
We are at the pivotal moment in season where we can pick up our winter coat and say, “Yes, yes I will be wearing you today.” Well, it’s hard to say since I was donning shorts and a t-shirt a mere week ago. Richmond is climate schizophrenic like that. Not all of us have been blessed with mudrooms to neatly don our Boho chic pillows, scripted names, and Toms. For years I’ve had winter coats strewn throughout the house, scarves hung from doors and on chairs, and snow tracked paths to the kitchen from wet boots. Not having a lot of space where these things can be kept organized, can make your house look like a Winter stripfest. I collected a few DIY winter projects for you to help easily store and organize your seasonally appropriate accoutrements. Hibernation has become our new winter sport it seems and what better way to pass the time than to put a project on your plate!
Baskets and Ladders
Putting a bird on it is no longer on trend the way that utilizing a ladder now reigns as trendiest home decor must. This idea does not disappoint. Take yourself to your local Dollar Tree and grab some baskets. Paint them for added effect and here you will have a place for gloves, scarves, legwarmers, and hats. It’s a great way to utilize small entryways and to put underneath shelving. Go on, put a ladder up.
Hanging Shoe Rack
I gotta take credit here. I’ve been doing this for a long time. I converted my hanging shoe rack to store my hats, gloves and scarves easily. I also put my sunglasses, mini-umbrellas, and bad hair day ties here.
Paint Cans and Hooks
Here’s one for all you crafty folks out there. Paint cans make a great way to store your winter wearables and it’s an easy DIY project. Fasten paint cans to a mounted board, add some hooks underneath, voila! Insta storage!
Clothes Pins
So simple and easy as getting some wire or gluing clothes pins on a hanging board and bam, you’ve got a cute and hassle free way of hanging your winter accessories.
Pebble Boot Tray
Who wants their boots to sit in a puddle of cold water? The point is to dry them out. Adding pebbles or marbles to your tray helps keep your boots dry and is an easy way to store them.
You can skip these ideas all together and take that boring entry way closet and make your own mini mudroom.
A More Serene Scene: 2022 Paint Color Trends
Create a fresh start with 2022 color trends…
Ready to add some color to the new year? I know I am. One of the things I’m most excited about in 2022 is that I finally get to paint these beige walls! Painting your home is without a doubt expressing your home style to the world and whether it’s fun and festive or moody and monochrome, paint can create your room’s aura. Believe it or not there is a psychology to the colors you choose.
You want to lower someone’s blood pressure or to create a soothing space, go with blues and if you want to increase activity and creativity go with orange. Obviously having a fire engine red foyer is going to hit different than a nice fresh light green. Speaking of greens…looks like the greens have it in 2022. 2022 looks like a serene and tranquil scene with earth tones to complement. Here are the new color trends for the new year. Get those brushes out and create a renewed and personal space!
Interior Color Trends for 2022
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Harvesting the Porch Hang
As the weather gets crispier, our porches become less frequented, but here are a few tips to enjoy it even during the colder months.
I grew up in the deep southern suburban residences of Louisiana. As a child, I recall my walks home from school and to Miss Sweeney’s candy shop up the road. Every day there was a Mister or a Miss “So & So” on their front porch primed and ready for countless waves, ‘hey shas’, or an invite for iced tea or lemonade. That’s just how it is there. A home without a porch in the South is like Ted Lasso without a ‘stache or the Arctic without glaciers, it just doesn’t feel the same.
Wrap arounds and full frontal country porches are never overlooked on my personal home searches. It gives me an added bonus of being social without having to go out out. It allows me to say hello and chat with my neighbors in the fresh air. Lastly, let’s not forget how badly most of us want to shout our personal style and seasonal decor creations off the front stoop. All you Cottagecore people, kudos to you and the time it’s taking to get that perfect Farmhouse Fall look. I’m literally thinking on how much pumpkin and gourd sales have gone up in the last 10 years.
Although I spend a majority of my eves and morns on the front porch all year round, I have grown to love the Fall hang the best. I take this outdoor nook hangage seriously, and with lots of comfort, saying hello to passerby as the whiskey leaves my lips, knees pressed up to my chest, fuzzy blanket wrapped around me — ah, my favorite time of year has arrived.
There are some things that are required for this type of porch hang. Sure, mums and pumpkins all damn day long, but I’m talking about the other things. For instance, a good porch for hanging out on in the Fall is going to have good seating, warm lighting and a place to put your blankets. I suggest having some sort of table as well, because there needs to be some nosh. So, of course I gathered some ideas on how to make your porch more inviting.
Lighting
Lighting is everything especially in an outdoor setting. Give it a little mood swing into the season by adding your traditional string lights to railings and ceilings or give a touch of character with lighted birdcages or floor lanterns. Put some in your front trees for added effect or add a table lantern for those late night reads. Also, consider putting some soft lighting under your stairs that will make it easier for you and your guests to find their way home.
Seating
You can go traditional and have a nice chair set out there with the warm colors of fall (reds, oranges, yellows) or you can really get comfortable with a day bed swing adorned with warm knitted blankets and pillows or if you have a smaller porch, single swings and blanket draped rocking chairs are cozy. Adding an outdoor rug with large seating pillows can give you a loungey outdoor effect as well. Invest in some seat warmers! Just make sure it’s comfortable.
Added Touches
An old trunk is ideal for storing and protecting your blankets in addition to using it as a table. Add a ladder to place blankets on for a decorative look. A small fire pit or small heater will bring some nice warmth to your portico. Get some nice fall themed curtains to add some insulation and create a dramatic effect.
Don’t forget to make your favorite warm cocktails and beverages to complete your Fall/Winter porch hangs! Purchase a small bluetooth speaker or break out the acoustic to provide some great holiday or seasonal tunes to mix.
The significance of the porch in American culture runs deep:
Sugar and spice and everything daughter
September 25th marks #NationalDaughtersDay and what better way to celebrate than give them some room!
written by: Jo Ann L. Breaux
My step-daughter has been watching fashion shows with me since she was 3 years old. The question, “Jo, can we watch more Chanel?” never made me so proud. She’s 8 now, and her sense of fashion and style have grown into finding identity in her room. Her dad built her a loft bed this past Christmas adorning her very own initial in it. She has her very own reading nook underneath and a place for her dolls. Every daughter’s bedroom is a special place. It’s where she gets to relax, to get dressed up, to imagine and play, to cry over heartbreaks, and to hold her keepsakes. It’s her sanctuary.
These days decor has changed for little girls, pink is no longer a dominant color and nor is the princess palace themed room. Don’t get me wrong, there are still a LOT of princesses out there, but there are a lot more options when it comes to the progression of nursery to teen hideout. I personally am a huge fan of the dark academia themed rooms, but hey all ladies are not the same. My girl’s room has gone from My Little Pony to Mermaids to her current obsession with stars and Harry Potter (I too wanted Gary Oldman to look over me while I slept). It will be interesting to see where her bedroom goes from here, but I’m praying for posters of her music idols and fashion themed decor. There are a ton of YouTube videos for DIY projects to recreate their sleeping quarters and finding cool second furniture and decor is a fun thing you can do with her.
So, in celebration of #NationalDaughtersDay (September 25th), here are some cool ideas to decorate your daughters’ bedrooms.
Wallpaper
I’m really digging wallpaper in general, but these are perfect for creating drama and fun in her room. Tapestries are excellent options due to how easily interchangeable they are. (click photos more info)
Paint Colors
We all know pink can be a dominant girl color, but adding contrast with it can create a less mundane princess pad or try something different with these paint trends.
Decor
No daughter’s bedroom would be complete without those little personal touches. From rugs to bed canopies to cool mirrors and wall art, creating a space that’s all her own will give her the confidence, privacy, and ability for her to be creative.
What a Girl Needs
Every daughter’s room should have these essentials. These will give her utility, identity, and self-care needs to make her space her very own haven from the outside world. Don’t forget to add a record player/good speakers for her listening pleasure.
I think having daughters is a bit more of a challenge than sons. The best gift you can give your daughter is support and understanding. If she’s confident and knows herself, she will do great things in the world. Cherish your daughters, they are special creatures and spend time with them. Need some ideas?
Pinkies Up
Jefferson (make your reservation NOW)
Make Me Pretty
Spa-Tacular (6+ years)
Renewal (grown daughters need love too!)
Take your pre-teen to learn how to apply and do her makeup right by booking an appointment at Ulta or visit one of the counters at the mall
Go Girl!
Get your Katniss on with an Archery Lesson
We all want ponies! Take her on a ride at Greenwood Stables
Take a hike! Virginia is full of amazing hiking trails. Pocahontas is always near and dear.
Take her fishing!
Go Rollerskating or take a bike ride on the Capital Trail
A Date to Create
Make Dinner by taking an online cooking class (all ages)
Get a Reading with a local Tarot Reader or for a more mature and highly fun reading check out Madame Adam (18+ activity)
Take a Shine Dance Fitness Class at Dogtown (all ages)
Take them to the VMFA but give them clues to find things in art
Have some fun with plants and visit PlantHouse (21+ activity)
Rock Out
Get tickets now to see The Killers
Take her record shopping, talk about your favorite songs growing up
Design your very own band shirts
Write a song together
Girls Just Want to Have Fun
Here’s some prime advice, sometimes daughters just want to talk. This is a prime opportunity for you to listen. Make it a teachable moment and one that is encouraging. Talk to her about school, boys, dating, girls, bullies, dreams. Take some time out of your busy lives to visit with your grown up daughters. Take her out to lunch or a movie. Enjoy your day together and vibe on all that love!
Read the Room
It’s National Book Lover’s Month and what better way to celebrate than checking out these local authors…
Written by: Jo Ann L. Breaux
When I was a child, my parent’s had a beautiful hutch desk made for me and within a few weeks, I had my own set of Childcraft Encyclopedias along with a set of World Books. I sat at that desk for hours reading. I learned so much sitting at that desk and it lead to an early onset bookworm condition. My mom had to basically beg me to go outside.
I outgrew that desk, but I created a new home in my town’s library. I devoured books. Today, I’m still a voracious reader and my love for books has not subsided. It is National Book Lover’s month and what better way to celebrate than to show you some beautiful home libraries and reading nooks. Don’t forget to support your local bookstores and check out these local authors! (click for info)
I used to think anyone with a home library was bougie and there’d be a lot of dark wood and dusty old furniture in a grand room. Today, having a home library is on my home dreamscape wishlist. The thing about home libraries is that you can find them in the tiniest of spaces and a nook is a perfect reading spot. You can put one in a dormer space or a walk-in closet or you can fit one on that large landing you never know what to do with. The most important thing is finding a comfortable, tranquil spot to peruse all the written verbiage you can want and have access to all your favorites. Built-ins make the perfect setting for creating your book oasis and now you can find all kinds of unique ways to store your stories.