My Cousin Vintage

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• Vintage Fabrics for pillows, curtains, etc.

• Taxidermy

• Fenton Hobnail Glass

• Bar Carts

• Hat Boxes

• Pie Safe

• Black & White Photos

• Bar Carts

• Postcards

• Vintage Ads/Magazine Cover Art

• Old Radios, Cameras, Typewriters, Gramophones

• Crochet

I like the sleekness of modern things. The design itself is quite attractive, but to me it lacks depth. It’s like your cousin who wears a Japanese designer whose cuts are as sharp as a chef’s knife, while you prefer the texture, richness and tradition of Chanel. Don’t get me wrong, I love modern design, but preferably not in my home. I’m more of a Refined Industrial gal, I love textures and richness in a room, but I also love traditional pieces that have a history. I’ve always had a love of vintage, even as a child I recall an affinity for homes that had a timeless appeal. Vintage is my go to when I want to start a conversation. The nice thing about vintage decor is that it can incorporate different eras. Some people will continue to love their mid-century credenzas while others will venture to find a Victorian style vanity. I sometimes think I was born in the wrong era.

It is predicted that 2021 will highlight vintage home decor and I couldn’t be more thrilled. Oh to find an oil rain lamp or 1950’s bar cart. We are seeing a revival of art deco styles with peacock plumage and gold trimmings, but because Covid has changed our living spaces, you’re going to find more neutral and earth tones as well as deep moody hues. You can compliment those styles with some really nifty finds around town. I was actually shocked at how many of these local shops there were to accommodate such tastes. What a nice discovery!

So, while we are still cozied up at home, perhaps 2021 will get you motivated to restyle your living and working spaces. A good refresh will change the entire mood of your abode which will lead to inspiration, freshness, and motivation. Items like old typewriters, vintage farm tools, art deco style mirrors, or antique trunks bring a cool nostalgia to any room.

If you are looking for more architectural pieces to add to your home, look no further than Caravati's Inc or Governor's Architectural Antiques. You’ll find unique, historic and detailed fixins from clawfoot tubs to newel posts to ironworks. I have found some beautiful ornate woodwork at these places, including beautiful mantles to transform any den/living room.

Sometimes you can find these things in thrift stores or estate sales, but here are a few vintage vendors here in Richmond to check out:

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68 Home Studio

BRICK ALLEY CO

MIDCENTRIC

SHEPPARD STREET ANTIQUES

VERVE HOME FURNISHINGS

THROUGH THE GARDEN GATE

Welcome to a New Dawn

No, this isn’t a Twilight reference, but rather one of hope and embarking on a new beginning. Will you join me?

We are finally at the end of this, excuse my French, #@&%$# of a year. Some people might think, ooo the clock just went past midnight, cue triumphant music. Sorry to say, but we aren’t out of this mess yet. What we are in is a new transition into something different. We have learned new things about how we live and probably who we are. I for one learned many a thing during this time. From what a slob I can be to improving communication to getting pretty creative with my meals. So, if anything, this time has provided growth and growth leads to progress leads to a better way of living, etc etc etc.

So what the hell does this have to do with buying and selling houses you ask? Forecasting a new year is difficult. Forecasting a new year during a pandemic, well it’s cloudy if anything. Home sales for 2020 will top the previous year with an 8.1% increase in median home sales.* It is predicted that the market will continue to be strong in 2021, and inventory will continue to be scarce, just as mortgage rates maintain their historic lows.

It’s a mixed bag of sorts, but one thing is for sure, needing a home is definitely in demand. Demographics are changing as some are extending families and finding new occupational paths, others are wanting different floor plans, and home improvement has seen a significant increase. Contractors can’t build houses fast enough to compensate for the lack of housing, and with increases in costs of production materials and lack of labor, there has been some constraints on new construction. As I said before, I think it’s a perfect time to be putting together that hopescape and making it happen.

To summarize, once the pandemic is over we can breathe again, literally, and open ourselves up to new possibilities. I don’t do resolutions when a new year arrives. It puts too much pressure and high expectations. The older we get, the more change becomes difficult, but what I like to do is take all the assets of the year before and apply them to improving the next year. Here are a few things I do plan on doing during 2021.

• More virtual tours. I’m planning on showing you all houses on my own, in different neighborhoods, so you can stay safe. I will be available for physical and private tours adhering to all the precautions, but I thought it might be fun to explore and show you all houses on my own accord. I’ll showcase two or three a week.

• Neighborhood Profiles. I’m finally getting this together for the website. Every month I’ll spotlight a different neighborhood in RVA and it will talk about the area from what’s near to architecture to history. I’ll be including photos and videos and interviews of actual neighbors from those areas.

• Putting the Sweet in Home. Stay tuned as I reach out to local businesses that incorporate all things home, including decorators, designers, builders, and landscapers.

• Lend An Ear Happy Hour: I’m planning on having a bi-weekly Q&A with a lender and myself to answer any questions you might have about buying a home and what lending options you might have.

I think I can handle this task list. I do want to continue to support local businesses and urge you to do so as well. I plan on doing what I can for my communities and neighborhood. It’s a good time to plan out some neighborhood clean ups, offer tutoring services, look after pets, and donate meals to healthcare providers and elderly neighbors. It’s a good time to work on your health regiment (a la Rebel Wilson), take more bubble baths, read more books, watch some documentaries, listen to more podcasts, play with your kids, play with your partners, have a road trip, plan for the future because you may never have this contemplation time again, well let’s hope we don’t have something like this jar our world again. This is temporary folks, the chaos will end and will be replaced by bigger and brighter things. So embrace the new year, burn the last one, and let’s move forward to better ways of living.

Quarantine Chronicles: Dream a Little Dream

I woke up today, staring at the ceiling, looking at the four walls which surround the most sacred of places — my bed. I walk downstairs and drag my slippered feet to the kitchen, opening the cabinet to get my mug for that first morning sip. My counter is cluttered, there is literally some sort of appliance or kitchen utensil covering the length of it. I cringe. Oh yeah, look up at the top of my fridge where I find my step-daughter’s pumpkin from Halloween overfilled with candy she may or may not indulge in. I open the freezer, that is stuffed to the gills with minimal items, my frozen container of pomegranate seeds comes sliding out, only to hit the floor in sudden death. This is where you just sit on the floor depressingly eating the fruity carcass, gently sobbing, “WHYYYYYY?” Why is my fridge not bigger? Why don’t I have enough counterspace to become America’s Next Top Chef? Why must I look at these drab walls? You know, questions to start off your typical Monday morning.

I’ve lived in the house for almost three years. This will be my 34th rental in my 47 years of existence. I’m embarrassed by the fact that I’m a practicing real estate agent, but have never owned my own home. As I peruse Pinterest boards, watch DIY home improvement videos from some guy named Todd and sigh at watching Galey Alix design dream roomscapes on her TikTok. Sigh. It can get depressing, especially right now with our current pandemic crisis. I keep thinking will I ever attain the dream of owning my own home and what is it exactly preventing from doing so?

Truth be told, it’s unfavorable living in someone else’s home, paying someone else’s mortgage and having to live with someone else’s interior. There are times when I want to take out a wall or have an extra room. There are times I want a bigger kitchen or a better landscaped backyard. The dream of home ownership weighs on me heavily. So, I’m doing what a lot of people are doing right now —making a plan.

Photo by Ekaterina Bolovtsova from Pexels

The Timeline

The first thing I’m going to do is figure out a feasible timeline to make my dream happen. For some it’ll be six months and for others it will take a whole year. Think about your credit, your job, your current situation. If you are already in a good place (yeah you, you adult!) then think about when you want to make that move and what is going to required of you. Are you renting? When’s that lease up? Are you owning? What improvements do you have to make to get the most value out of your home to buy a sweet new one?

The Wish List

This is my favorite part. The part where i get to have a list of criteria of all the desired features in a home I want. After living in so many locations from architecture to community, I know the exact things I don’t want in my living space (water pressure is everything!). So when you are making out your list make sure you are covering all details, not just room size and bathroom count. Think about your must haves and hell no’s:

• Will I be able to add any structural expansion to this home? If you needed to add an in-law suite or a working garage, do you have the room?

• How many ways can I rearrange my furniture? You’d be surprised how many renovated homes have one, maybe two ways to rearrange a room. Rearranging rooms, adding furniture, changing styles are all ways to refresh a home, especially if you are also spending a whole lot of time in it.

• Am I walking to Wawa and Kroger or am I enjoying the culinary delights of sitting at an outdoor cafe. Check your neighborhood experience. Some people like the views of stroller lined streets while others prefer the beauty of tree lined ones.

• Are you sick of mowing a large lawn? Maybe you want something more low maintenance, like maybe a strip of grass.

• No touching! Do you want bedrooms that kiss each other down a hallway or would you rather have them across from each other? Do you want to hide from your children or do you want to hear all that Fortnite chatter? A simple layout plan can change your whole living experience

• Do you want that washer and dryer upstairs or downstairs? I personally like to fold and watch my stories at the same time!

• Just how close am I to my neighbor? Do I want some distance there? Can you borrow sugar or would you prefer an ATV to get to your neighbor’s house?

Money, Money, Money.

If you are anything like me, money is always the one factor which deters me from my dreams. I find it hard to invest in myself and it hinders a lot of planning. To be perfectly honest, I’ve struggled most of my life financially for many reasons. It took me a really long time to find a career I could actually be successful at. It’s really strange that I can look at my bank account and see savings in there. Maybe you’ve been on that track too. Some of us didn’t have the trajectory of having a 401K and a white picket fence. So, what do you do when you want to buy a house, but don’t have the best finances?

Meet with a Lender or a Financial Planner: This will help you have a plan and one to stick with. They can tell you exactly what you need and how much to put away to get it. Sure, it might take a year, but if you are disciplined and follow the plan, it can happen for you. Usually, it’s as simple as putting away a little stash or paying off a debt.

Research: You’d be surprised how much help you can get when buying a home. There are grant programs and homeownership assistance programs you can qualify for. If you are a healthcare provider, teacher, or “hero” worker, you an also qualify for special loans in addition to first time homebuyer benefits.

Open a House Account: Go to the bank and open a bank account just for housing costs. Start collecting, not just for the house itself, but also for all the things you’ll want for that house, right down to the new dishes. It will give you a goal to focus on and if you just put a little away here and there, you’d be surprised how quickly buying a home can be a possibility. So skip DoorDash tonight, you don’t need yet another pair of yoga pants, put it in the kitty.

Look, but Don’t Touch

Even if you are not ready, looking at homes will give you incentive and inspiration, plus, it’s fun! It will give you a good idea of loves and undesirables. It will also give you a goal financially. Are you looking at $150K houses or $250K? I find that the amount of homes I look at bring me to certain conclusions like, “Hmm, seems the renovation work being done in this particular area isn’t very good” or “it’s the same kitchen over and over again!” You might decide that new construction is the way to go. Here are a few tips when you start out.

Go to open houses. Two reasons: You get ideas. You might see something that’s desirable in a home that you may not have seen before. You may have thought you wanted an open floor plan, but then you have discovered a formal dining room with pocket doors is quite lovely. This is a good way to test out all those things and get inspired without feeling pressure to buy. You can go in and be breezy with a “just looking” attitude. The second reason being if you don’t have a realtor, it’s a good way to interview and get a feel for some with casual conversation. I like to tell people finding a good fit is like finding a good date, if they are easy to talk to, approachable and most importantly knowledgeable, those are good options. Bring a notebook or something to take notes, video, take photos and grab business cards while you’re there so you can look back and add to your vision boards.

Bring a contractor or someone who knows construction with you if you can. This way you can learn what is good construction and what to watch out for when you are investing your money. Some realtors are good at pointing these things out, but some may not have enough experience regarding house builds or renovation features, such as quality, so sometimes these things get overlooked. They might also have insight on costs, especially if you are looking at an older home that’s in your price range but needs some work.

Look in unfamiliar neighborhoods. This doesn’t work for everyone if you are looking for a particular school district per se, but some of these districts are large and sometimes certain subdivisions get overlooked. I love exploring hidden neighborhoods because you never know what gems you can find in them. Take time to walk in them, talk to the neighbors, and see what’s around that could add to your living experience.

Get in the mindset that not every home is going to be a brand new or a complete renovation. Remember when people used to buy houses that other people use to live in? I think some people have gotten used to seeing renovated homes as the standard in homebuying. You could be missing out on homes that have a lot of character and ability to be worked with if you are only looking at reno homes. I showed a couple an old 70’s style ranch they thought would be hilarious to see. It turned out to be the exact floor plan they were looking for with some cool features that could be showcased with a little work. They were pleasantly surprised about the possibilities of a lower priced un-renovated home.

Are you excited now? I am! I can’t wait to put my plan in place. Sometimes it takes just a little hope and imagination to fulfill a dream, an investment, a change. And as always, let me know when you get started, I’m happy to guide your way!

Quarantine Chronicles: Camper's Delight

It amazes me what happens when you are faced with a challenge. Some people rise up to it, while others let it defeat them. Most people take challenges and make them into opportunities. It’s prime time for creativity and maybe trying some new things.

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When I was a kid we camped out of an RV in the woods or at Holly Beach which has been pretty much battered by hurricanes. I remember fishing with my dad off of piers in morning Louisiana heat while my mother got flustered with the amount of snakes she caught. She remedied it by feeding the alligators. My mom is no stranger to the wilderness as she basically grew up in the jungle and my dad on the bayous of Louisiana. I however prefer cabins and a proper latrine. Camping has otherwise been my least favorite vacation option for fear of creatures crawling in a tent I cannot get out of, a mask serial killer lurking in the woods, or creating my own Blair Witch scenario. Not a fan.

This weekend, with Covid still affecting the way we as a family spend time together prompted my Mister to book a campsite. As you can imagine, my anxiety kicked in, but I realized that memories like these will last a lifetime with a precocious seven year old. So, he signed up for HipCamp and away we went to — Dinwiddie, VA??

We left later than scheduled (per usual) and we arrived after a long gravel road where many trucks and what looked like a mini salvage yard. We were greeted by our hosts Kirstin and Dale, she with a glass of wine (my kind of gal) and he a tall thin man who made sure the coals on the fire were hot to warm us. We were not expecting the campsite to be as close to the main house as it was, but as with all things, don’t judge so quickly. Once we got all our things in order and could finally sit and relax, the Harvest Moon above us shining bright, you could begin to see the mist on the creek. Our hosts hung out with us for a minute and then retreated inside, leaving us to make some food and relax.

I do love nature. I love the sound of waves on the ocean, the crunching of leaves in the forest, and the serene beauty that can come from it. I forget to appreciate it and this weekend would prove to bring that awareness back to my senses. I also just enjoy the simpler things in life sometimes. As the little lady explored the grounds, I kept thinking how great it was that she could just be happy without a screen in her face. We were surprised at location, we had no idea a large property in Dinwiddie could bring us such an experience.

My Mister and I talked over the fire one night about our hosts. Who were these people who lived on 100+ acres with salvage items in their yard, lots of trucks, and had a good sized machete? How strange it must seem to have strangers stay on your property while you enjoy the modern conveniences of your home. Sometimes I feel like our minds have been tarnished by technology and the new media, it puts us on edge before we even assess a situation. There were a lot of firsts this weekend. It was our little lady and I’s first real camping trip, like in a tent and all! She also caught her first fish, rode in a canoe for the first time, and I think it was all our first times in Dinwiddie. And in all these “firsts”, the thing that made the most impression was sitting around by a fire with our hosts and talking. Just telling stories, swapping experiences, conversing about current events and what we all do for a living. It was a camp fire convene worth having. You realize in these moments that this type of connection is valid and the warmth it brings is more comforting than any fire. Even our gal was sharing her life with these strangers and it was a beautiful thing to witness, she has been so timid in recent pasts with people in general. She even asked Mr. Dale if she could go out with him as he set out to fish in the morning. She played in leaves, put her feet in the water, caught a grasshopper and spent time with lines in the creek with her dad.

It truly was just a peaceful and serene weekend that replaced our Covid cancelled nuptials. Kirstin and Dales hospitality was off the charts and we were happy to spend time with them on their beautiful property and 11 acre lake. Just perfect. So, for all of you feeling the pressure of unemployment, of unpredictability, of the news, the election, the virus, the murder hornets, the social unrest, the racism, the fires, the world…do yourself a favor, get you and / or your family and find yourself gazing at stars you usually can’t see, frolic through meadows, canoe in a lake, go fishing, listen to the pop and crackle of a fire, or look up as the trees begin to the release their foliage. You might even consider buying a piece of your own rustic getaway.

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Quarantine Chronicles: 13 Tips for Seasonal Home Prep

Yes, I see that yard filling up with the leaves. I also see the gutters overflowing. October is the perfect time to start prepping your home for the colder months OR for a possible listing. Here are few things to do to make that happen and increase not only curb appeal, but also add value to your home!

1. Get those gutters cleaned and schedule any roof repair needed.

2. Get those last mowings done and start protecting your plants and gardens.

3. Go around and see what seals on your home need to be repaired or replaced. Include repairing any leaks that your home might have as well.

4. Replace any old insulation.

5. Get your fireplaces cleaned and make sure they are in working order. This includes your furnaces and heating units. Get covers for your AC units to aid them in lasting longer and not getting damaged through the winter months.

6. Plant some grass seed for any patches in your yard or where the swimming pool was this summer.

7. Build your deck or repair it, it’s a great time for this and will lead to some nice outdoor space during those crisp evenings.

8. Build your firepits and get some nice blankets for guests who come over.

9. Paint your front doors and add some nice Fall decor to the mix, your home will feel refreshed and pop on the street.

10. Clean out your closets! Whether you are purging or alternating into your winter wardrobe, time to organize!

11. Get wood for the fireplace and fire pits! Everyone is going to be scrambling since most of us will be holed up at home depending on Covid, so be prepared! Get your wood now!

12. Power wash the exterior of the house. This is a must if you plan on selling. it will brighten and make your home look like new!

13. Consider cleaning any carpets in the house. Sure, we’ve been quarantined and left in our homes a lot more, but this will increase as the weather gets colder. Humidity is dissipating and cooler temperatures will allow for windows can be opened making drying easier.

Quarantine Chronicles: Ghosting on Halloween

Photo by: LadyJRVA

I don’t know about the rest of you parents, but i have a 7 year old who has been talking about her Halloween costume since June. Obviously this is going to be really difficult on the kids. I’m sure there will be plenty of Halloween block parties and people risking the virus taking their kids trick or treating, I mean they are wearing masks anyway. For all of us, who don’t want candy collectors and our kids to be exposed going to random houses, there are some ways to enjoy the holiday and give your kids a bootastic evening.

Have a Zoombie Party

Gather their friends and exchange some scary stories. Vote for best costumes. Get the kids to write a song and share.

Have your own Halloween Party

Gather those in your “bubble” and have a fun time with costumes and spooky drinks. Have a pizza making event or a candy scavenger hunt. Make some phantastic cookies! Don’t forget the scary movies!

Do a Drive By

If you are hosting children for Halloween, leave little pumpkins with candy and some hand sanitizer out so they can grab and go! Have a halloween caravan with fun decorated signs and streamers. They can hang their bags/pumpkins outside the car window and be greeted by some great costumed candy distributors.

Have a Socially Distanced Halloween Picnic

Throw some blankets out in a wooded area or open field with treats or do it in a backyard with a projection screen for some fun scary movies! Have a bonfire!

Have the Treats Delivered to You!

Get someone you know to dress up and deliver treats to the house. You can say a a spooky guests will be stopping by for a surprise.

Set Up a Spooktacular Table

Have a walk up table filled with little baggie or mini pumpkin treats with hand sanitizers available. make sure you mark some six foot lines in sidewalk chalk to keep things distanced.

Have a Teaching Moment

Take this time to teach your children other country’s Halloween traditions, ie  Día de Muertos or Samhain.

No matter what you decide this year, just make sure you are safe and protected. Be creative and take this moment to connect with your kids. Talk about what scary to them, read them stories, make decorations or food. There are so many ways to celebrate the holidays safely and heartily!

Bienvenidos a LatinoAmerica

Today embarks National Hispanic Heritage Month. With over 12,000 Latinos in RVA and 10% of Virginia’s population, there is no denying we play a role here. I am a proud Panamanian and although I have a variety of blood in these veins, Panama is my heritage, my birth, my family. I thought to celebrate this year, since the vibrant events of the city, such as the ¡Qué Pasa! Festival are cancelled, to educate with some fun facts about Latin American countries. Each day I’ll post a new country with some notables. Enjoy and take this month to support your Hispanic owned local businesses, here’s a few to get you started

• All of our Latin Restaurants of course

• Top Stone Design

• Old Dominion Insulation

• Latin Ballet of Virginia

• Jose Rubio at RVA Technologies

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Do yourself a favor and look up these countries travelogues on YouTube, you’ll learn even more!

Photo from Lata Travel

Paraguay

I love visiting countries off the beaten path and apparently Paraguay is one of them. Corazón de América (The Heart of America) is an undiscovered gem of dusty deserts and tropical delights. The Itaipu Dam provides almost all of Paraguay’s electricity.. Dueling is legal in Paraguay as long as you are a registered blood donor! Guarani is first language of Paraguay and is the only South American country to adhere to its linguistic origins, but Spanish is also an official language there. This country was a safe haven for Nazi’s at one point, just as Argentina and Brazil, and strangely it has a large Mennonite community. The first railway was developed here; during the 1800’s there were many European engineers planted in the landlocked country. Paraguay is also known for it’s lacework, harp music, and the traditional bottle dance (la botellera). They love sipping on their Mata tea and enjoying Chipa (cheese biscuits). The Iguacu Falls are breathtaking and are taller than Niagra Falls with 275 individual waterfall cascades. They have the cutest rodent ever, Capybara! It has been listed in the Guinness Book of World Records as the largest BBQ (30,000 attendees). The indigenous Aché peoples still inhabits Paraguay and have suffered many hardships from early Colonists and those wanting to destroy the rainforests. You can find pockets to Russian, German, and Japanese communities within Paraguay due to the migration of those fleeing during wartimes. Friedrich Nietzsche's sister, Elisabeth helped plan and create an Aryan community called Nueva Germania, but fortunately it failed miserably.

Cuba

It is on my list of destinations, and although all of my Cuban friends are close and dearly admired, I so long to be in the warm sun of this nation untouched by time. This well-read nation (99.8% literacy rate) has one of the best healthcare systems and houses the largest medical hospital in the world. You can indulge in ropa vieja , but you can’t get a Coca-Cola since it is banned. That’s not the only thing that was banned in Cuba, for 30 years Fidel Castro abolished the Christmas holiday as a recognized event, declaring Cuba an atheist state. Cuba is home to the smallest bird in the world and 400 islands and cays, how could you not enjoy this cigar famous nation in all its sand and sunshine. Santeria is widely practiced here and the African culture is sprinkled throughout its cuisine, music, and culture. This Communist nation was not allowed to buy computers or cell phones as of 2008! Can you imagine, but making $44 a month is worse I’d say, not even the free healthcare and education can make up for this. There are a lot of cool vintage cars though, and about 70K doctors! Although Obama opens up American travel to Cuba in 2016 and then a year later Trump shuts it back down, but I do hope to visit this beautiful culturally enriched country in my lifetime.

Uruguay

My uncle was a diplomat here and I’m familiar with their fútbol team (yeah Suárez!), but other than this I know little of this second smallest nation in South America. This livestock infested country and home to the world’s first FIFA World Cup, and boasts the lowest poverty in South America. Marijuana trade has been legal in the country since December 2013. The cost is approximately one dollar per gram. They don’t use numbers on their residences, but use names instead! Although Uruguay is made up mostly of rolling plains and low hills, there is still the Atlantic coast and is surprisingly completely out of the tropics. It is quite a non-religious country and boasts a 6 minute National Anthem and has a large Italian influence. It was also the first nation to legalize the home cultivation of marijuana and weirdly enough banned salt from restaurant tables and schools. Crazy! They also love their gays and their dogs, it is illegal to harm any canine in the country.

El Salvador

Not only is my sister-in-law from here, but it is also home to Lake Coatepeque, a large volcanic crater lake. El Salvador is quite cheap to travel within and is littered with small cute towns which can be found on la Ruta de las Flores (Road of Flowers). El Salvador is referred to as the Land of Volcanoes and the terrain ranges from beach to tropics to mountainous areas. A gorgeous country to explore and travel off the beaten path. Surfers love coming here and eating pupusas, the national dish. This super friendly county’s denizens are referred to as “ guanacos”.

Bolivia

Bolivia mesmerizes in land and water, this hat wearing country boasts the tallest heights and pink river dolphins! It is the highest country in S. America (12,383 ft above sea level) and has the largest salt flat in the world, Salar de Uyuni. Along with part of the Andes, salty landscapes, Bolivia also has the deepest and tallest lake (Lake Titicaca) in the world. Bolivia hosts a hotel, Palacio de Sal, completely made of salt! Known for the traditional sandwich, Chola, Bolivians also consider guinea pigs a delicacy and eat cured llama. Raquel Welch is Bolivian, ding ding. People dress like Zebras to help with traffic and children to cross the road there. Bolivia was part of the Incan Empire and the purchase of dead animals is common for citizens to use as offerings to Mother Nature or Pachamama. Cal Orko has over 5,000 individual dinosaur prints. Whoa. Lastly it is home to the most dangerous road in the world, Yungas Road or Death Road killing 200-300 people a year.

Panamá

It’s not just the canal that Panamá is known for, it is a wonderland of tropics, volcanoes, and exotic wildlife. There are untainted areas and pristine white and black sanded beaches, yet it has a majority of its population within the capital city. We’ve had one Miss Universe, a female President (1999) and Vice President (2014), musician Reuben Blades and boxer Roberto Duran both hale from Panamá, aaaand lastly Van Halen’s song is about a car not the country!

Pictured are Kuna Indians famous for making Mola

Photo by: Robert Harding

National Flower of Panamá: The Holy Ghost Orchid - See the Dove!

Traditional Panamanian Folk Dance

Venezuela

The women of Venezuela are world renown, 7 Miss World titles, to be exact, but other than their beautiful women, this country is known for much more than its pageantry. Unfortunately this paradise has been in turmoil in recent times, but Venezuela’s territory is the most protected in the world at over 50% conservation. It is terrible that a place so gorgeous is so dangerous, not just with unrest, but also one of the most dangerous places to drive. Like other Hispanic nations, Venezuela does not like a drunk voter, prohibiting the sale of alcohol 21 hours before an election. It has the highest waterfall, Angel Falls and the Orinoco (Yes Enya, yes) flows here into the Amazon basin. It is a Christmas tradition to roller skate to mass on Christmas day. Venezuela is quite electric in that it is home to Relampago del Catatumbo where there is an everlasting lightning storm. And lastly, you can decide which of the 900 flavors of ice cream you want at Coromoto Ice Cream Shop.

Costa Rica

The Sun rises and the Sun sets at the same time every day here on the rich coast of Costa Rica. You can expect to live a long and happy life in Costa Rica due to the amount of Calcium and Magnesium in the water, centurions are not uncommon here. A surfers haven, Costa Rica has been a holiday retreat for a lot of Americans, some who have bought property to enjoy the coastline and the vast rainforests. A land of orchids, CS boasts 1,400 different species of the flora and is one of the most eco friendly nations on the planet. Ticas (women) keep their maiden names for life and Ticos (men) have no problem openly whistling, staring or catcalling women. Once again, another nation of free education. Costa Rica has no standing army and is a fully democratic nation. There is no mail delivery there and they must get the mail themselves. This surfers’ haven hosts 801 miles of coastline, you wouldn’t find me anywhere else! Although I’ve never met a Tica or Tico from CS, it being one of the happiest nations, it’s no wonder that it's denizens remain there. There are 7 active volcanos and its land is adorned with over 100 volcanic formations. It is a gorgeously biodiverse country and although it used to be quite affordable, Americans have been the result of higher prices, but you can still find affordable things to do there.

Colombia

One of my besties is Colombian. I work with Ana Ines King of the Latin Ballet of Virginia and her sister, they are Colombian. I have two other clients, both are also Colombian. I guess you could say I know quite a few of them…and I love them! Maybe it’s because Panama & Colombia were joined at one time. These people LOVE to dance, making it the salsa capital of the world. Colombian, Shakira knows what’s shakin’. It is also a place where street art is encouraged and sponsored by the government. It is the world’s leading producer of Emeralds and although known for coffee, it is not native to the land. They are, however, the 3rd biggest exporter of it in the world. This Spanish drenched country’s natives were killed by disease brought by the Europeans and what was left embraced Spanish culture. Colombia is incredibly diverse in culture and region, class and age are among status symbols. Don’t forget to order your Bandeja Paisa, the national dish, which coincidentally can be found here in RVA at La Bodega!

Dominican Republic

In 2003, I went here on my honeymoon. I cried when I had to leave after my 8 day, 7 night Punta Cana bliss. DR is gorgeous, with the warmest people and the most beautiful terrain to explore. Dominicans are a baseball nation (Alex Rodriguez, Albert Pujols, and Sammy Sosa. to name a few), DR is also known for it’s golf courses. It is the most visited destination in the Caribbean and their Blue Flag beaches are breathtaking. If you are in the armed forces or the police, you are not allowed to vote. They export the most tobacco and they have the cigars to prove it! It is quite a religious nation, banning abortion and having the bible adorn it’s flag, I mean, it’s named after a patron saint after it was called Hispanola. It houses the oldest cathedral in the Americas (1540). They are the sweetest country making sugar their main industry as well as producing some fine rums and vanilla. And when you are not dancing Merengue you could be enjoying a Presidente their delicious coffee. You would have probably seen Jack Sparrow from time to time in DR, as it was the headquarters for pirates.

Chile

Home to Easter Island, Chile boasts an incredible topography of mountains, islands, desert, and beach. The oldest mummies are found here and the largest swimming pool in the world! Chile is the fourth largest wine exporter (thank you) and the seventh largest producer of wine in the world. The country produces 90% of the world’s potatoes with 286 unique varieties. These people love their food and they love bread. Chile is the second highest bread consumers in the world There are 500 active volcanoes and the driest desert in the world. And the best fact about Chile — officially funded and recognized UFO research bureau!

Honduras

Despite Christopher Columbus’ “discovery” of Honduras, you can see many artifacts of the ancient Mayans here. Honduras is home to the second largest coral reef and is a haven for scuba divers. It has the oldest clock in the world (1100 AD) and is also host to the Hieroglyphic Stairway of Copán which features the largest single text in the world allegedly. Honduras is a savage country, beautiful in terrain yet can be quite dangerous to visit with the presence of The Mara Salvatrucha gang whose tattooed members can be found throughout Central America. Also known as the Banana Republic, you can also enjoy such meals as Yuca con chicharrón or Baleadas. The Talgua Caves or Caves of the Glowing Skulls are a hidden attraction and gets its name from the reflection of the human skulls found here. Don’t mess with soccer here, the country is fervent when it comes to the sport and even engaged in a 100 hour war with El Salvador over it. It is a beautiful country trying to overcome its recent reputation and its poverty, but the people of Honduras are warm and friendly.

Quarantine Chronicles: Class is in Session

Alright parents, you’ve got about a month to prepare for the colossal upheaval of your child’s schooling. After talking with some parents who are going through the horror of working from home and also home schooling, it was apparent to me that there should be some guidelines for those needing some guidance when it comes to virtual learning and setting up your home learning centers.

1. Make sure there are no distractions. Young learners need consistency and structure. Make sure the space you put them in is free from distractions like TVs, iPads, Video Games, etc.

2. Create a space for them. Include things like a good table/desk to do their activities at. Organize all their school materials using shelves or cubbies so they can find them easily. Make sure they know to put things back where they found them so it stays nice and neat and teaches them to take responsibility for their own materials.

3. Schedule. Make sure they have a consistent schedule every day so they know when to work and when to take a break. Get them a special clock or set up an alarm to ensure they are moving through the day with full activities.

4. Download materials for them. There are some wonderful websites where you can download and print material to further their curriculums.

5. Do not interact with them while they are in “school”. Don’t disrupt the schedule. Keep them focused on their work so you can do yours.

6. Eat lunch with them. This will help you stay connected and create a nice little family break with them, you can ask them about their day and what they are learning so they feel like there is some separation from home and school.

7. Make sure they go outside. Give them a recess time for them to play outside, it’s important for them to get some energy out so they can concentrate when they come back to learning.

8. Make sure your teens are staying on track instead of social media’ing their way through the semester. Take away cell phones while class is in session, and although, they don’t require a specific work station, you might want to check up on them from time to time to make sure they are actually working. They will soon understand what your life has been like!

Some of you might not have the space or money to create a learning center in your home. Here are some easy fixes to ensure your student is getting the space, quiet and materials they need.

• Check Facebook/Craigslist/Next Door for desks , chairs, tables, and rugs.

• Make sure it is separate from you.

• Decorate the space with Maps, Science Facts, People in History, etc.

• Make sure there’s enough space for them to do arts and crafts.

• Be prepared for this space to get a bit messy!

• Make sure you find some sort of storage unit for their materials.

Check out your county websites for more resources and information regarding distance learning. Check out my Pinterest page for other ideas!

How to Choose Your New Neighborhood

You have it all set. You want a 4 bedroom, 2.5 bath home that’s close to 2,000 square feet. And then your agent asks, “Any particular area you are looking to move to?” Where you say, “We only want houses in “xxx” neighborhood.” There are a lot of things to consider when buying a house and depending on your demographic, this will determine part of your wishlist. For many people it’s about the school district, which sometimes will make you sacrifice that Victorian home you wanted in the artsy district of town. People choose neighborhoods because it’s considered a “hot spot” or a “sought after location”, (ahem, yes, I’m talking to you Church Hill), but sometimes the view is limited. I know how important community is and I try my best to not just match up a house, but also a neighborhood best suited for my clients, even when they didn’t even consider a particular area to begin with. So here are some things I advise clients to think about while looking for a new home.

1. Who are you? Seems silly to ask, but consider it. Are you an introvert or an extrovert? Do you enjoy people “popping by” or are you more “I like to have to drive to my neighbor’s house next door”. Some people love being in close proximity to their neighbors, it makes them feel safe and you love to distribute baked goods.

2. Is it Walkable? Do you enjoy walking out your front door and finding your personalized beer mug a few blocks away? Do you want to be able to walk to the grocery store? Do you want to have a few restaurants near your house? Walkability is very important to people, while others don’t mind trekking 20-45 minutes to their favorite hangouts.

3. How active is the community? You might not want a home owners association, but you may want to be an active part of the community you are going to live in. Many neighborhoods have civic, neighborhood watches and small business associations where you can be informed on what’s coming and going in the area. These are the people who organize clean ups and facilitate fundraisers for the nearby schools and charities.

4. Architecture. I won’t show Queen Anne and Victorian people houses in Wyndham or Stratford Hills. Sometimes architecture plays a big role in where people want to live, you might love a neighborhood full of ranch homes, but your love is to live in a three story rowhouse.

5. Development. Are you going to be ok with them putting up a Walmart a few years down the road? Find out about the Master Plan for a development before deciding if it’s the place for you in the next 5-10 years.

6. Schools. It’s a no brainer when having kids. You probably want to live in a hip and cool area, but you aren’t willing to sacrifice your kids going to a highly rated public school.

7. Commute. In your head you might say this isn’t a big deal, that you are fine adding 20 more minutes to your commute time, but think about it and how you’re going to feel after a few months of it and what your after work life is like. Ask yourself if there are alternative transportation options as well.

8. Value. Will this house increase in value over the next few years? What are the houses doing in the neighborhood? Are they selling quickly or are they sitting for a long time? Are there a lot of foreclosure and rentals? Are the neighbors improving their properties or does it look like homes aren’t being taken care of.

9. Crime. If your desire is to live in the city, be prepared to hear gun shots from time to time or to have your car broken into at some point. If this scares you off then maybe consider a more suburban area. Are you a single lady who walks her dog at night? Do you want to feel confident sending your kid to Johnny’s house by himself?

10. Noise. Are you a late sleeper who loves it when Mr. Jones cranks that mower up at 8:30am or does the din of ambulances and backyard parties your white noise to sleepytime?

So, just how do know if these places are right for you. Your Realtor should be familiar with your city or town you live in. If you are hiring a good Realtor, they will know how to match who you are to what you want in a community and they will know that some of you aren’t afraid of new experiences.

I always give my clients this homework when exploring neighborhoods:

• Take a daily walk in the neighborhood they desire. Stroll the streets at night and during the day. See if the neighbors are wavers and greeters vs evaders.

• Talk to Neighbors. Ask them how long they’ve lived in the area and what they love and don’t love about it.

• Look in backyards if you have kids. Check for jungle gyms, pools, and bikes for potential playmates for your children.

• Pay attention to lawn care and paint on homes, is it run down or is it clean and well kept.

• Check the distance of things. Do you enjoy walking to get a cup of coffee in the morning or where is the hospital/vet located? Are there parks nearby? What are the dining options?

• Don’t pigeonhole yourself to one neighborhood. I once had clients adamant about living in a certain area, but they didn’t realize that the style of home they desired could be found elsewhere in the city and was actually more affordable. They appreciated my knowledge, but also LOVE their neighbors and community.

• Police, Fire Stations, and Hospitals. People like to feel they are safe and can get help quickly, so check to see where these are located.

• Culture. This is huge these days. What kind of lifestyle living are you looking for? Neighborhoods do tend to reflect their dwellers. How diverse is it? What is the average age of the residents? Are you surrounded by serene parklike features or do you prefer a hip and cool area with neighbors who have block parties?

• HOA. Do you enjoy rules and restrictions. It’s also an added cost to your home ownership, so consider the amenities vs the cost.

There are many things to consider when finding the neighborhood that’s going to foster the walls which surround you. Home is so much more than that. It’s feeling welcomed. It’s feeling like you are part of where you live. It’s also feeling safe and good about coming home every night. It’s about room to breathe and room to shop. It’s about award winning education and summer bike riding in the streets. Talk with your realtor about their matchmaking skills and follow the tips above. Good luck and happy hunting!

Quarantine Chronicles: Daddy’s Domain

I like the significance of father. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think you need a father to be a great father, but I can truthfully say, I’m glad my dad was in my life because he surely didn’t have to be. I think if my dad had his own space, he would have been able to enjoy more things he was interested in.

The definition of what men should and shouldn’t be is a point of contingency to some. You’ve got dads who play chess and drink single malt Scotch. You’ve got garage dad who likes to tinker all day and drive real fast at night. You’ve got sports dad whose only dream is to watch Monday night football every single day of the week while he eats chicken wings and sips on Bud Light. In today’s world, you also have dad’s who enjoy crafting a good centerpiece. The point is, every dad has interests and every dad likes his alone time (just as every woman does!). So, I thought it’d be fun to show some cool ideas for dad rooms, which in turn made me want a dad room, I tend to have more masculine desires in decor. I freakin’ love whiskey, playing poker and watching soccer! Anyway, check these out:

The Cigar/Smoke Room

I want this one for myself. I truly love smoking and smelling cigars. I also love whiskey. My man brain wish is to have a room like this downstairs in my fantasy home, but you can’t only get to it through a secret door. Jeremy Siers is this dude I just started following and he’s a dad and honestly, he’s pretty rad. He built this custom cigar room in his home all you smoke lovers will enjoy.

The Tinker Room

I’ve got a man who builds stuff and is a natural tinkerer, unfortunately he knows nothing about cars! I think guys who like to tinker long for a workshop/garage of some sort. Besides the right quality tools, I think the key to a good workshop is organization, so shelving and storing is important. A workbench is crucial, make sure it’s a good size and height to work comfortably at. Lighting is also beneficiary, especially for gear heads and a good wireless speaker to keep you motivated. Here’s some great examples:

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Sound it Out

Not only do I live with a builder, but also a musician. Musicians absolutely need their own space, for the love of god, take that riff somewhere else! You may be tired of the microphone-filled drawers which have taken over your household (because he just hasn’t found the right sound yet) or when you’re office becomes your shared paradiddle and flam station and you keep knocking into the high hat trying to get to your bottle of wine? These man rooms are great for outdoor areas or basement space so when he and the other “living the dream” boys come over for a jam session, you can send them on their way. PS there are a ton of videos on turning your basement, garage or attic into a home music studio.

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Sports/Gaming Bar

Yes ladies, I know some of you are very anti-sports and know when you’re being asked to make your famous seven layer dip, it’s game day. So while he’s hootin’ and hollering at the tv, you can enjoy folding laundry, baking a cake, doing craft stuff, working, calling your bestie, or giving yourself a spa treatment in peace! Make sure there’s a fridge in there so you’ll never have to replenish those White Claws, I mean Bud Bottles. Seriously though, a good sports/rec getaway has a bar area, snacks, a good fridge and don’t forget a gigantic flat screen and comfy seats. If he loves to play as much as he loves to watch, he’ll want to indulge in some gameplay, enjoy some pinball or cue it up.

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So as I was going through all these Daddy Dens, i decided I wanted my own proving that just like moms, dads need their self-love space. Whether they are working on restoring a 1967 R60/2 BMW motorcycle, perfecting their Radiohead cover songs, or watching the big game, these are breeding grounds of bonding moments for your children. So, happy Father’s Day to you dads out there teaching your kids how to change tires, play a guitar solo, play chess, bust a move or play Mineecraft, you’re doing an excellent job!

For more ideas for Dad rooms, visit my Pinterest Page!

Quarantine Chronicles: Summer Rising

Welcome to Summer everyone! It’s definitely not the best intro into it and personally I am finding more peace at home despite the chaos on the outside. I mowed the lawn yesterday. I have quite a sizable treeless yard. I sat back on my small porch, looked out to my domain, and thought —now what? I have this outdoor space that is basically empty and since my pool is officially closed for Summer, what the hell am I gonna do to get my solar vitamin D?

Since most pools, including mine, are either going out of business or closed for the year, I am thinking real hard in investing in some sort of aqua relief. There’s also way too much green back here! So, maybe I’ll plant some vivid marigolds and zinnias. I also have a porch just dying for some pretty sun blocking drapes. It truly doesn’t have to take too much time or money to spruce up your backyard.

We are all trying to manage our money wisely at this time, but we also want to be able to enjoy the upcoming Summer months. It will also give you yet another project to work on whilst being homebound.

DIY DECKS/PATIOS

I don’t have a deck, but I’m seriously considering making this. It’s amazing what a little elevation can bring to a yard and even add resale value to it. It is also a perfect space to create something warm and relaxing.

Build This at Home Depot

I kind of love this. It’s simple, yet enticing.

Pallet Decks

Probably the most easily constructed and inexpensive instadeck!

Pea Gravel

You don’t have to spend a ton of money to have a nice clean space to lounge in. Pea gravel is inexpensive and virtually a simple install.

You can always buy inexpensive Stone Pavers for an easy install under $500.

OUTDOOR SEATING: TIRES

I’m amazed at how easy it is to utilize recycled tires. So many options! From planters to chairs to traditional tree swings, tires can create colorful and comfortable backyard options.

Whether I’m basking, sipping, or lounging, outdoor seating is a must for ultimate backyard hanging. Not only is it affordable to make, but they are easy to move around a yard, you can stack them for height, and you can make some pretty spectacular interchangeable cushions from chic to casual.

COLOR

Adding color to a backyard is easy. You’ll want to stay out there longer if you have some nice vibrant colors to enhance your outdoor time. Add a rug for some texture. Paint some planters. Paint some of your fence and/or pavers. Add a beautiful fabric to your pergola or canopy. You’ll be surprised at the effect.

Rugs

Add a nice outdoor rug to your patio or deck for added texture and color. Wayfair has tons to choose from and lots of discounts!

Decorative Pillows

A very simple way to spruce up your patio furniture is to simply add some lively decorative pillows. World Market has some nice deals and patterns.

Stencilling Pavers

This is a very cool and refreshing idea. You can add stenciled patterns to otherwise ordinary pavers. You can find some very nice ones on Etsy.

Colorful Drapes

Colorful and patterned drapes/curtains on any pergola or porch will not only give you privacy and shade you from the sun, but will brighten your backyard for sure!

SCREENS

I love this idea for added privacy and shade. From recycled window shutters to pallets to organic bamboo, these screens will add that extra oomph to your rear end.

Cool and Modern

Add plants or paint for dramatic effect.

Recycled

This idea is fantastic. Find an architectural salvage yard and get you some old shutters. Bring them back to life with a little paint and voila!

Decorative

Choose decorative metal, wood, vinyl screens.

LIGHTS

Just because the sun goes down, doesn’t mean the outdoor hang is over. Lighting is just as important as any other outdoor decor. Check these cool ideas to lighten up the mood.

LightTape or LED Lighting

Have LightTape or LED lighting installed to light up deck and patio stairs, fences, and railings.

String Lights

I don’t think this trend will ever die. I love walking into a backyard and seeing it lit up by the soft glow of the strands across the yard or patio. Why put the umbrella down? Just add some small lanterns or string lights to it.

Firebowls

We love a good fire pit, but how about something a bit more demure for setting our outdoor dining on fire? Here’s a video on how easy it is to make one, or you can get lazy and buy one from Frontgate

For more outdoor and summer yard ideas, visit my Pinterest page!

Quarantine Chronicles: The Open Road

“Nothing behind me, everything ahead of me, as is ever so on the road.”

— Jack Kerouac

When I was a kid, my dad loved driving us around. He brought new gusto to the term “Sunday Drive”. We would just get in the car and go down old dirt roads, we’d drive alongside bayous and make our way through country flatlands. We weren’t really going anywhere, we just went to enjoy the drive.

When I’m feeling this way and I can’t take it anymore, I get in my car and I get lost. I am a sucker for backroad explorations. I love discovering places I’ve never seen or people I’ve never met. Not so easy to do in a quarantined state, but definitely not impossible to take the road less traveled. I have discovered some really beautiful drives in Virginia and since today is National Road Trip day and I’m sure most of us are feeling a little cagey, maybe it’s time to get behind the wheel and let the open road reveal some of Virginia’s beauty.

There have been so many times I’ve been on a trip somewhere and take notice of signage to different little towns or a road that pops out that I can’t help but wonder where it will lead. Here are a few of my favorite little day drives.

Blackwells Hollow Road in Albemarle County

This is a beautiful drive down Route 810 and there are a few cool back gravel roads to explore

Blackwells Hollow Road

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Route 5

I love this route and it’s even better on a motorcycle, but this little trip to Charles City is scenic and peaceful. Drive by Osborne’s Landing and have a little walk along the James. How we miss the Lily Pad!

Go out Route 6 to Charlottesville

Add a little time to this jaunt to Charlottesville and enjoy wineries and rolling hills.

Wildlife Venturing

Take a drive to Great Dismal Swamp and enjoy the natural habitat home to many of Virginia’s birds and wildlife.

Skyline Drive

Route 33 to the Blue Ridge Mountains

Just a really gorgeous drive to the mountains!

Cape Charles

Take a trip to Cape Charles. This quaint bay town is sweet and boasts its own brewery and distillery. You can stop and take a nice walk down the bay or cruise their super cute town.

There’s plenty to see and drive through from taking the mountains in on Skyline Drive to exploring Virginia’s rolling hill countrysides. So get out and get to driving!

Quarantine Chronicles: Make Room for Mommy

I’m sure during this time you mothers out there are just needing a space to call your own. Well, this is the time to start dreaming! I chose these very cool mom spaces where you can retreat, no matter your lifestyle. The way men need their sports rooms, man caves, and music studios, we women need our zen dens, libation havens, and creativity quarters.

Just like men, women have a variety of interests when it comes to how they want to spend their time. I think the whole point in finding your mom lair is to separate from all things work, unless work is how you relax? Additionally, a place just for you. These sanctuaries can be a room in your house, a detached shed or greenhouse, a gazebo a or you can even convert your garage into your own private Momville.

My dream space would include the following:

• Journals

• A mini fridge

• Crossword and Jigsaw Puzzles

• Some artwork of my choosing

• A lock on the door

• Books to read

• A record player station

• My favorite whiskey and wine

• A nice comfortable place to lay or sit

• Great mood lighting

Some things to consider in having your mom haven are shelves, a built-in desk, nice lighting and maybe a window, some plants, cushions and a lot of them, and electricity. Moms deserve some peace and quiet sometimes and making space for that is part of self-care, and let’s be frank —sanity. The most important part is to have all those things that bring you comfort and peace in a small getaway.

Check out these cool spaces for inspiration!

Quarantine Chronicles: Ma-Mama, Mama-Mo-Ma-Mum

Photo by: Mi Madre by LadyJRVA

This year Mother’s Day is going to be pretty weird. I’m fortunate to have my mom in town and I’m sure she’ll be making something delicious to eat while she and my Tia (aunt) criticize everything from what I’m wearing to whether I’m drinking enough water. Welcome to FWS (Foreign Woman Syndrome). My mom is the hardest person in the world to shop for. She LOVES clothes and shoes, but I don’t dare, and while flowers are nice, sometimes I want to get her something so left of center that it will be a nice surprise at least.

It got me thinking about how this current time will affect this holiday. Some of you have moms in other states which I’m sure you’ve been Facetiming and texting the hell out of to make sure they are safe. For those in town, the traditional Mother’s Day brunch is obviously out, but there are ways to make up for this. I decided to give you all some ideas on how to celebrate this Mother’s Day in Coronastyle as well as support local business.

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Eats

A socially distanced picnic or a nice virtual meal together can still be a nice way to say, “Thanks, Mom”. Even if you can’t be with mom on her day, you can have a meal delivered or picked up for her at some of our local Momtastic establishments.

Stella’s

I don’t need to tell everyone how these two mitéras not only create some of the most delicious and established meals in RVA, but would make any mom feel special.
Happy Mother’s Day to Ms. Stella Dikos and Katrina Giavos!

MamaJ’s

Featuring some of the tastiest soul food in town, you know your Mama will love this Mama!
Happy Mother’s Day to sweet Ms. Velma Johnson!

Nota Bene

A perfecto way to tell mom you love her, Italian style.
Happy Mother’s Day to stellar mom and owner,
Victoria Aracri Deroche!

Lulabelle’s Cafe

I’m never disappointed with Lulabelle’s and they will be providing a true Southern menu for you and your momma.
Happy Mother’s Day to the lovely owner Nicki Murphy!

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Sweets

No Mother’s Day is complete without some sort of confectionary delight to remind ourselves just how sweet moms are!

Whisk

Mom will LOVE their macaroons and other baked goodies.
Happy Mother’s Day to owner Morgan Botwinick!

Michaela’s Bakery

Home of the Thalhimer's Six Layer Cake, Michaela’s is perfect for cakes and cookie orders. It smells so good walking in there!

Maggie’s Cupcake Cafe

This woman does it all! Cakes, Cupcakes, Pies…OH MY!
Happy Mother’s Day to owner, storyteller, and Veteran, Rebekah Lynn Pierce!

La Sabrosita Bakery 

To all my Latina Mami’s out there, this is the bakery for them! They make the most festive and beautiful cakes!

Feliz día de la madre, Argentina Ortega!

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Gifts

FLOWERS

Old Time Feeling: Visit Kelsey on Instagram, pick up and delivery still available!

FOURTEEN ACRES: Beautiful in-season florals delivered right to your door.

FUN GIFTS

WORLD OF MIRTH: Some of the coolest mom gifts in town! Give her an unexpected surprise!
Happy Mother’s Day to Owner, Thea Brown

THE WOW FACTOR

CAMEO: Give her the gift of a personal celebrity message AND support a cause!

THE RVA TREATMENT

GIFTED RVA: Get her a gift that says “I love you MOM, and I love RVA”. Beautiful gift sets!

AFTER COVID GIFTS with GIFT CERTIFICATES to LOCAL BUSINESSES

• A haircut with one of our hairstylists

• A massage at a local spa

• A mani-pedi (and get one for yourself for a little mom-daughter time)What To Do

• Tickets to the theater, symphony or an upcoming concert

• Get her dancing lessons

• Get her cooking/baking classes

Other things to do

• Have a backyard picnic

• Take a trip together with virtual tours of museums, gardens, mansions, and national parks

• Take a virtual dance class together

• Make a wreath for her front door with mom day messages

• Take a walk together

Quarantine Chronicles: Come What May

Yesterday was glorious! The sun. The heat. It might seem like everything was normal again—but, it’s not. I was talking with my neighbor and I asked him what all that banging around back there (points to his backyard) was all about. He said, he figured he had all this time right now and was talking to some fellow colleagues and they all started gardens. So, he decided to give it a go by building some raised beds and acquiring a spreadsheet with instructions. Apparently if you search for ‘garden spreadsheet’, a ton of different people have these available. Who knew? I can tell you, I didn’t.

I kill everything. From flowers to succulents, you give me a plant of any kind, I guarantee you, I will murder the hell out of it. I did not inherit this from my mom or my family. My mom is a magical horticulturist. I’ve seen her take the deadest plant and bring it back to life. I’ve seen her cultivate Japanese maples like it was her job. It’s pretty amazing. While my mom was making hybrid-colored roses growing up, she and my dad also maintained a vegetable garden. If there is anything this little pandemic has taught us is to utilize time wisely and who needs the grocery store when organic is freshly picked from your backyard.

For some of you, this may be a new adventure. I thought I’d help out, since I can only grow what’s in my wine glass, by providing some veggies and flowers that are perfect for planting at this time. So, get to growing!

Flowers Ready for the Picking

Hydrangeas

One of my top blooms that make any home radiate beauty and elegance, the Japanese native bloom is legend. According to a Japanese legend, the hydrangea became associated with heartfelt emotion, gratitude for understanding, and apology after a Japanese emperor gave them to the family of the girl he loved to make up for neglecting her in favor of business and show how much he cared about her.

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Cosmos

These pretty flowers are fragrant and vibrant. Not only are they ornamental, but its attributes consist of peacefulness, wholeness, and modesty.

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Zinnias

The zinnia flower has several meanings including thoughts of friends, endurance, daily remembrance, goodness and lasting affection.

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Sunflowers

Tall and any statement to your home, Sunflowers symbolize adoration, loyalty and longevity.

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How Does Your Garden Grow

Marigolds

The marigold is also called the “herb of the sun”, representing passion and even creativity.

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Carrots

Carrots are perfect for snacking during the heat and the better to see you with my dear.

Peppers

What’s a happenin’ hot stuff? Time to get your peppers for pickin’.

Tomatoes

You say Tomato, I say, how much salsa, tomato sandwiches, and spaghetti sauce will you make during this time?

Cabbage

You’re gonna need something to top that BBQ you plan on grilling or a nice summer Asian slaw will be a nice accompaniment to your outdoor dining.

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Herbs

This is a great time to plant herbs like Basil, Lavender, Rosemary, and Oregano. Perfect to enhance your cooking and your libations!

Quarantine Chronicles: Fist City Fashion

You’re probably wondering, why the hell would she write about Fashion as a real estate agent? I have a few reasons:

1. Fashion as an art form can influence not just what you wear, but how you decorate a space. Do you seriously doubt that Boho fashion has not inspired mixed printed rugs and furniture in a home or that animal print has never seen its way into a living room (have you talked to Carole Baskin?).

2. It’s important to lift our community, no matter the industry. We celebrate our RVA!

3. I’ve been binging the hell out of Making the Cut and streaming Fashion Week Runway shows, truth!

My favorite toy growing up with Tomy Toys Fashion Plates. I spent hours mixing and matching plates with adding cool patterns to my creations. I had been doodling dress designs all my life. With a mother just as obsessed with fashion and design, it was no surprise that my path would lead me to…Real Estate! Sometimes you win some and sometimes your dreams turn into something entirely different.

So, while I get a boost to my creativity during this time, I thought it would be appropriate to give some of our very own, home-grown talent the spotlight. Maybe while we are all living this quiet life, it might inspire some of you to think of your own designs you’d want to have made for your personal collection.

Photo by LadyJRVA

Cate Latham of Van Herten Outerwear

What I love about Cate? Not only did she do costume design for Richmond Ballet, but she has also designed for GWAR and teaches at VCU where she graduated in Fashion Design. Her utilitarian chic brings simplicity, well constructed and comfortable pieces to the forefront and her leatherwork designs would give any tradesman legit respect. I adore Cate and her designs so much, she’s designing my wedding gown!

Ron and Lisa Rider of Rider Boot Co.

Wallets, Boots, and Bags, Oh My! What Ron and Lisa Rider create is magical. Exquisite constructions and design work, Lisa has created a bag series of late that is fashionably gorgeous. I cannot say enough about this husband-wife duo. Their custom boot designs are equally hot and I can’t wait to add some to my wardrobe. While you’re internet shopping during this time, defnitely check out their unique wares.

Michael Ames of X Of Pentacles

Michael and I share an unknown bond of tragedy, but we both rose to the occasion out of the ashes. Michael’s brand, X of Pentacles is the ONLY brand in Virginia to offer REAL Bespoke suiting, and one of the few in the entire USA. His scarf and pocket square designs are fun, vibrant and cool. They make me want to revive Rizzo’s style for the 21st century. Beautiful Italian, vintage tailored suits custom-made for that guy who wants to show off a little something different.

Mateo Ascencio Silvan of M.A.S.

This kid. I mean, with his Latino flair and the fact that his initials literally mean more in Spanish, how can you not know he was meant for great things. Still in high school at George Wythe, this young designer has me appreciating not only my culture, but loving his entire take-on-the-world spirit. His designs are fun, vibrant, and I’m looking forward to his future endeavors. If only I had one of him to design my prom dress,

Mortgage Loans in the Time of Corona

I listened to this podcast today and thought it was relevant to the times. Some of you may not know how the whole mortgage system works and what is the responsibility of the Federal government regarding the payments. We are all feeling the slow grip of unemployment and how we are going to pay our rents and mortgages. I thought this podcast from Planet Money would provide some insight.

What's the Herb?

Today is WORLD HOMEOPATHY DAY and as someone who believes the indigenous peoples of this world knew how to utilize the land more than anyone, I’m a big believer in this stuff. I’m a frequent acupuncture patient, tincture doser, and Chinese medicine taker. Sounds hippie dippy perhaps, but I’ve been involved with homeopathy remedies since I was in the womb. My mom lived in the jungle a majority of her life and natural remedies were a regular part of that habitat. Especially in weird times like these, when getting to the drug store may not be so easy, it’s a good thing to have some of these natural herbs in stock. With all the time we’re given right now, you might want to even start your own natural apothecary.

Here are a few herbs and natural remedies you can make yourself!

• Echinacea: Immune Booster
  It’s probably one of the most common medicinal herbs and is used to remedy an oncoming cold.

• Chamomile: Rest Easy
  Chamomile is common in teas, but is used as a natural sleep aid as well as to ease digestion, promote urination and relieve colic, which makes it great for children’s use.

• Yarrow: An Herbal Bandaid
  Yarrow can be crushed and applied to a wound or minor cut to stop bleeding

• Lemon Balm: An All-Around Tasty and Effective Herb
  Lemon balm is used to reduce fevers and treat colds by inducing sweating; calm the digestive tract; relieve spasms related to cramps and headaches; and overcome insomnia

• Peppermint: Soothing Remedy
  Invasive yes, but soothing to digestive issues, Peppermint is easy to cultivate and tastes delicious

Some other natural, but every day ingredients would include: Ginger, Ginseng, Garlic, and Basil

So if you want a great stay at home project, start stocking up on these natural herbs and experiment with some recipes. Mother Earth always gives us what we need so utilize and learn more about homeopathy remedies.

Check out these local resources for buying and education:

Lavender Fields Farm | Good Health Herbs | The Herb Closet | Chinese Acupuncture and Herbs | Traditional Chinese Health Center

Visit my Pinterest Board to get more ideas on how to stay healthy in the most natural way!

Well, Color Me Quarantined

Written by: Jo Ann L. Breaux

If you are adhering to the Stay At Home mandate, then you, like many others are taking advantage of this time to do home improvements. Time to bring some color while the world is in a dim place. I’m calling it the “Quarantine Period”, A New Dark Age. Time to put that partner to work on the many projects that have been put off because there’s been a lack of time. Let’s start by brightening up our homes! Whether it’s going to be put on the market after all this, or it’s just to improve your current surroundings, here are some of my picks for color trends happening in 2020!

GLORIOUS GREEN

I have a rediscovered love for green. I recently showed a client a home with Victorian fireplaces surrounded by Emerald Green tiles. It was quite beautiful. I always associated green with institutions or peas for some reason, but I’m seeing a hint of it in recent renovations and I have to say, it’s a welcome hue to the grays that have been so popular in the last few years. You’re sure to create some envy with these shades.

Check out my Pinterest Board for other ideas!

Current Mood by Clare

I love a lusher green. Current Mood looks great with creams, golds, coppers, and über light pinks.

Back to Nature by Behr

I like this green in the kitchen, but it works everywhere and gives a nice calm and collected feel.

Secret Moss by Valspar

I love this green for an organic neutral and works well with pops of color.

Ain’t Nothin’ But the Blues

It’s always been a dream of mine to have a deep blue dining room. Blues create coolness and the moodier the better. There’s a reason Midnight Blue was always missing from my Crayola box. Your rooms will sing serene, mysterious, and command attention.

Blue Danube by Benjamin Moore

Blue Danube is the perfect hue to drama up your entryway or bring a sophisticated statement to your dining area.

Naval by Sherwin-Williams

Naval is the perfect color to add mystery and richness to your interiors and bring out golds, yellows, and reds.

Valspar’s ‘Utterly Blue’

Light blues are going to be trendy this year as well. Cauliflower blue, pale blue, and powder blues will be adorning walls in 2020.

Moody, Lush, and Coy.

As we see Mid Century “I’m cool and own an Eames chair” Modern take a seat, I do believe we will be seeing more Art Deco and 1920’s accents in interiors as well as deeper colors that create mood and mystique. You’ll see the starkness of blacks and whites making bold minimalistic statements as well. Millennial pink is still dominating with trends in brass fixtures, I’m seeing some trends in Oceanic serenity and ‘come to my caravan’ romance. I hope these will inspire you to take on your quarantined home improvement project and add some color to those all too familiar walls.

LadyJRVA presents...Reading with a Realtor

Amidst our current situation, I would like to take an opportunity to provide something to break up the monotony. I think reading is so very important and this was in the plans since last year. Instead of physically meeting up, I will attempt this online, live on Facebook.

Every Wednesday at 4:30pm EST, I will do Reading with a Realtor. Please note, I am open to all suggestions for books to be read, but initially I’m going to gear this towards children 12 and below. I will also post them to my website here and Facebook, so if you miss the live version, you can queue it up here. I hope, at the very least it will be entertaining for them to watch me read.

Since today is National Tolkien Day, I will be reading “Roverandom” in honor of the beloved author. Feel free to make suggestions below for future readings.