Away with Romance

I think it is quite safe to say, we are over being at home all the time. I think even introverts would agree on that to some extent. Valentine’s Day is usually littered with fancy dinner dates and broken hearts club outings, but this year is obviously lending itself to more creative adventures. For all of you looking to get out of town on a romantic rendezvous or something different, here are some suggestions.

Primland Luxury Mountain Resort
Meadows of Dan, VA

If you’ve got the money to spend time with your honey, this is well worth it. Secluded with the Blue Ridge as your backdrop, this getaway is privately delicious. You can rent a treehouse, luxury cabin, or cottage. There’s plenty to do here as well. From horseback riding to an ATV adventure you and your partner will relive those honeymoon days.

---

Cabin in Fancy Gap, VA atop the Blue Ridge Mountains

Mountains, Lakes, Rivers, and Beaches Oh My!

One thing I’ve learned during Covid is that exploring Virginia has been the highlight of it all and cabin lodging is not only romantic, but also serene, more importantly it doesn’t have to be beaucoup expensive. Why not stay in someone else’s home for a change. There are so many beautiful lake houses and rustic cabins surrounded by nature and beautiful scenery, how could one not find the romance in that?! Check out Holiday Homes for availability.

---

Book a Personal Chef

Want a five course meal and restaurant feel? Book a personal chef for the occasion and you never have to worry about listening to Karen complain about her steak not being well done.

---

Book a Room at The Jefferson Hotel

Go crazy and stay in RVA at The Jefferson. Premier packages are available for you and your honey to lounge, dine, and bed in luxury.

Kick it at Dover Hall

This place is amazing and for a unique stay with the utmost in beautiful lodging and grounds book a room at Dover Hall and partake in their V-Day dining experience.

---

Cheap Date RVA

RVA is the best wingman! If. you are looking to treat your sweet, but need not to spend that entire stimulus check, start the day off with grabbing some local coffee and pastries, head to Tiffany & Co (yes, a la Holly and Paul) cue Moon River on the phone. After, head over to Forest Hill Park or Hollywood Cemetery for a nice stroll. If it’s too wintry outside, get over to the VMFA and peruse the art while playing hide and seek with your person. Dine for brunch at Amuse and enjoy the view and the mimosas! Time for a nap? Yes, head over to your RVA AirBNB equipped with indoor fireplace to light the mood up to romantic, play that game of chess or Scrabble you never have time for and don’t forget to order the chocolates from Chocolate by Kelly! Have dinner delivered or picked up and dine by candlelight. DO NOT use your phones during your mini dates unless you are taking photos! On Monday you’ll feel relaxed, loved, and cared for by your city.

Pass the Gravy, the Year is a Bit Dry

It’s about that time of year again where we thank our people and we express our gratitude for the things we have. I think it should be practiced everyday — saying thanks, but I know this holiday is reserved for such appreciations. I find it to be a day of mourning really, but I can also find the light of being with family…hm, yeah this year is looking a little slim in that department. I’m basically going to make a nice meal for my immediate family and give blessings to those who have given and sacrificed a lot so that we may eat, drink, and be merry.

---

There are many things we can be grateful for at Thanksgiving. As I will gaze upon a leafless table this year, missing my Aunts and cousins as we battle for the most backhanded compliments, and my fiancé struggles to translate the abundance of conversations in Spanish around him. “They are talking about me, aren’t they?” I will zone out and continue to imagine a Manhattan waiting for me down a long gravel road. I’ve never been one for holidays, or getting together with family for that matter. I end up exhausted, feeling bad for myself or pissed off. Thanksgiving in particular is not my favorite of American traditions, however I love a day off of work.

This year will be quite different, for when the time comes to give thanks, i will be grateful for an unlikely source — Covid. Now before you gasp in disapproval, or want to hand me to the loony bin, hear me out. Sometimes Aunt ‘Rona needs to come in and upset the table on its end so we look at the mess we need to clean up. I don’t think there is any denying that we have been given an emotional, financial, occupational, mental and historical mess this time year. We’ve been routinely sitting at the same table for so long that we pass the potatoes with assembly line precision, that the taste of turkey, cranberries, and yams seem to have no difference. Now, this American tradition we hold so dear has literally become — dangerous, I cannot miss the irony here.

So while I’ll miss the three separate trips to families homes, the incessant need for my Aunt to comment on my weight, love life, or dress, or my step-father’s niece showcasing her recent “augmentation” at the dinner table, colorful as it all is, I’m thankful for the disorder Aunt Rona has made. As I will look down the table from my first sitting at its head, I would like to bow my head and be truly grateful for these truths:

Thank you, Covid, for time. Time to do more physical activity which had not been present in the last five years. Time to take walks and call my distanced dad and brother more frequently which I take for granted sometimes. Time to text my family overseas to send a little gif or meme and say hello. Time to educate myself in subjects I’ve always been interested in, but never found the time to read about. Time to explore my city and my state finding hidden gems everywhere. Time to save money for the home I’ve always wanted. Time to do my job better and be more creative. Time to bring my Aunt to her doctor’s appointments and get her groceries. Time for road trips and new adventures. Time to reconnect with long lost friends that I’ve loved from afar. Time to love my neighbors by helping them take care of their homes and our neighborhood. Time to purge and cleanse the past. And mostly, time to dream. Time to dream about my future and my quality of life.

Thank you, Covid for bringing lasagna to the table.

I truly believe that chaos comes before peace. There are so many things I can be grateful for including my clients I’ve had an opportunity to build relationships with, and while they get a seat at the table, there are others we should show our utmost appreciation for:

• Our exhausted healthcare workers. I have friends on the frontline and I do not think they have had to work harder in their lives. We must continue to give them praise for the work they are doing.

• Our educators. I think we’ve seen the challenge they’ve been given and their dedication to our children is apparent. They deserve a lot more than they’ve been given.

• Our neighbors. The kindness which has stemmed from this time is remarkable. From delivered goods to mowing lawns to walking pets, it has been nice to receive and give these acts in such a dark time.

So, thank you Covid, as I show respect and honor to those who were here before us and those who have contributed to the well being of others and this planet, let us not forget the true essence of home for the holidays. Let’s be grateful for those moments we take for granted and let’s take this time to work on our progression so that we may all sit together again in peace. Now pass the rolls, it’s cheat day, we have 4 seasons of The Crown to binge and let’s be truly thankful for the one thing I think we can all agree on — this year being almost over.

Quarantine Chronicles: Camper's Delight

It amazes me what happens when you are faced with a challenge. Some people rise up to it, while others let it defeat them. Most people take challenges and make them into opportunities. It’s prime time for creativity and maybe trying some new things.

---

When I was a kid we camped out of an RV in the woods or at Holly Beach which has been pretty much battered by hurricanes. I remember fishing with my dad off of piers in morning Louisiana heat while my mother got flustered with the amount of snakes she caught. She remedied it by feeding the alligators. My mom is no stranger to the wilderness as she basically grew up in the jungle and my dad on the bayous of Louisiana. I however prefer cabins and a proper latrine. Camping has otherwise been my least favorite vacation option for fear of creatures crawling in a tent I cannot get out of, a mask serial killer lurking in the woods, or creating my own Blair Witch scenario. Not a fan.

This weekend, with Covid still affecting the way we as a family spend time together prompted my Mister to book a campsite. As you can imagine, my anxiety kicked in, but I realized that memories like these will last a lifetime with a precocious seven year old. So, he signed up for HipCamp and away we went to — Dinwiddie, VA??

We left later than scheduled (per usual) and we arrived after a long gravel road where many trucks and what looked like a mini salvage yard. We were greeted by our hosts Kirstin and Dale, she with a glass of wine (my kind of gal) and he a tall thin man who made sure the coals on the fire were hot to warm us. We were not expecting the campsite to be as close to the main house as it was, but as with all things, don’t judge so quickly. Once we got all our things in order and could finally sit and relax, the Harvest Moon above us shining bright, you could begin to see the mist on the creek. Our hosts hung out with us for a minute and then retreated inside, leaving us to make some food and relax.

I do love nature. I love the sound of waves on the ocean, the crunching of leaves in the forest, and the serene beauty that can come from it. I forget to appreciate it and this weekend would prove to bring that awareness back to my senses. I also just enjoy the simpler things in life sometimes. As the little lady explored the grounds, I kept thinking how great it was that she could just be happy without a screen in her face. We were surprised at location, we had no idea a large property in Dinwiddie could bring us such an experience.

My Mister and I talked over the fire one night about our hosts. Who were these people who lived on 100+ acres with salvage items in their yard, lots of trucks, and had a good sized machete? How strange it must seem to have strangers stay on your property while you enjoy the modern conveniences of your home. Sometimes I feel like our minds have been tarnished by technology and the new media, it puts us on edge before we even assess a situation. There were a lot of firsts this weekend. It was our little lady and I’s first real camping trip, like in a tent and all! She also caught her first fish, rode in a canoe for the first time, and I think it was all our first times in Dinwiddie. And in all these “firsts”, the thing that made the most impression was sitting around by a fire with our hosts and talking. Just telling stories, swapping experiences, conversing about current events and what we all do for a living. It was a camp fire convene worth having. You realize in these moments that this type of connection is valid and the warmth it brings is more comforting than any fire. Even our gal was sharing her life with these strangers and it was a beautiful thing to witness, she has been so timid in recent pasts with people in general. She even asked Mr. Dale if she could go out with him as he set out to fish in the morning. She played in leaves, put her feet in the water, caught a grasshopper and spent time with lines in the creek with her dad.

It truly was just a peaceful and serene weekend that replaced our Covid cancelled nuptials. Kirstin and Dales hospitality was off the charts and we were happy to spend time with them on their beautiful property and 11 acre lake. Just perfect. So, for all of you feeling the pressure of unemployment, of unpredictability, of the news, the election, the virus, the murder hornets, the social unrest, the racism, the fires, the world…do yourself a favor, get you and / or your family and find yourself gazing at stars you usually can’t see, frolic through meadows, canoe in a lake, go fishing, listen to the pop and crackle of a fire, or look up as the trees begin to the release their foliage. You might even consider buying a piece of your own rustic getaway.

---

Interesting in your own waterfront have?

Contact me today and I can show you a number of waterfront homes including these!

$799,950

5 Beds | 5 Baths | 6,662 Sq Ft
2420 Charing Cross Loop | N. Chesterfield

Learn More

$420,000

3 Beds | 4 Baths | 2,682 Sq Ft
69 Shore Drive | Colonial Beach

Learn More

$629,900

3 Beds | 4 Baths | 4,729 Sq Ft
16228 Bundock Rd | King George

Learn More

Quarantine Chronicles: Ghosting on Halloween

Photo by: LadyJRVA

I don’t know about the rest of you parents, but i have a 7 year old who has been talking about her Halloween costume since June. Obviously this is going to be really difficult on the kids. I’m sure there will be plenty of Halloween block parties and people risking the virus taking their kids trick or treating, I mean they are wearing masks anyway. For all of us, who don’t want candy collectors and our kids to be exposed going to random houses, there are some ways to enjoy the holiday and give your kids a bootastic evening.

Have a Zoombie Party

Gather their friends and exchange some scary stories. Vote for best costumes. Get the kids to write a song and share.

Have your own Halloween Party

Gather those in your “bubble” and have a fun time with costumes and spooky drinks. Have a pizza making event or a candy scavenger hunt. Make some phantastic cookies! Don’t forget the scary movies!

Do a Drive By

If you are hosting children for Halloween, leave little pumpkins with candy and some hand sanitizer out so they can grab and go! Have a halloween caravan with fun decorated signs and streamers. They can hang their bags/pumpkins outside the car window and be greeted by some great costumed candy distributors.

Have a Socially Distanced Halloween Picnic

Throw some blankets out in a wooded area or open field with treats or do it in a backyard with a projection screen for some fun scary movies! Have a bonfire!

Have the Treats Delivered to You!

Get someone you know to dress up and deliver treats to the house. You can say a a spooky guests will be stopping by for a surprise.

Set Up a Spooktacular Table

Have a walk up table filled with little baggie or mini pumpkin treats with hand sanitizers available. make sure you mark some six foot lines in sidewalk chalk to keep things distanced.

Have a Teaching Moment

Take this time to teach your children other country’s Halloween traditions, ie  Día de Muertos or Samhain.

No matter what you decide this year, just make sure you are safe and protected. Be creative and take this moment to connect with your kids. Talk about what scary to them, read them stories, make decorations or food. There are so many ways to celebrate the holidays safely and heartily!

Bienvenidos a LatinoAmerica

Today embarks National Hispanic Heritage Month. With over 12,000 Latinos in RVA and 10% of Virginia’s population, there is no denying we play a role here. I am a proud Panamanian and although I have a variety of blood in these veins, Panama is my heritage, my birth, my family. I thought to celebrate this year, since the vibrant events of the city, such as the ¡Qué Pasa! Festival are cancelled, to educate with some fun facts about Latin American countries. Each day I’ll post a new country with some notables. Enjoy and take this month to support your Hispanic owned local businesses, here’s a few to get you started

• All of our Latin Restaurants of course

• Top Stone Design

• Old Dominion Insulation

• Latin Ballet of Virginia

• Jose Rubio at RVA Technologies

---

Do yourself a favor and look up these countries travelogues on YouTube, you’ll learn even more!

Photo from Lata Travel

Paraguay

I love visiting countries off the beaten path and apparently Paraguay is one of them. Corazón de América (The Heart of America) is an undiscovered gem of dusty deserts and tropical delights. The Itaipu Dam provides almost all of Paraguay’s electricity.. Dueling is legal in Paraguay as long as you are a registered blood donor! Guarani is first language of Paraguay and is the only South American country to adhere to its linguistic origins, but Spanish is also an official language there. This country was a safe haven for Nazi’s at one point, just as Argentina and Brazil, and strangely it has a large Mennonite community. The first railway was developed here; during the 1800’s there were many European engineers planted in the landlocked country. Paraguay is also known for it’s lacework, harp music, and the traditional bottle dance (la botellera). They love sipping on their Mata tea and enjoying Chipa (cheese biscuits). The Iguacu Falls are breathtaking and are taller than Niagra Falls with 275 individual waterfall cascades. They have the cutest rodent ever, Capybara! It has been listed in the Guinness Book of World Records as the largest BBQ (30,000 attendees). The indigenous Aché peoples still inhabits Paraguay and have suffered many hardships from early Colonists and those wanting to destroy the rainforests. You can find pockets to Russian, German, and Japanese communities within Paraguay due to the migration of those fleeing during wartimes. Friedrich Nietzsche's sister, Elisabeth helped plan and create an Aryan community called Nueva Germania, but fortunately it failed miserably.

Cuba

It is on my list of destinations, and although all of my Cuban friends are close and dearly admired, I so long to be in the warm sun of this nation untouched by time. This well-read nation (99.8% literacy rate) has one of the best healthcare systems and houses the largest medical hospital in the world. You can indulge in ropa vieja , but you can’t get a Coca-Cola since it is banned. That’s not the only thing that was banned in Cuba, for 30 years Fidel Castro abolished the Christmas holiday as a recognized event, declaring Cuba an atheist state. Cuba is home to the smallest bird in the world and 400 islands and cays, how could you not enjoy this cigar famous nation in all its sand and sunshine. Santeria is widely practiced here and the African culture is sprinkled throughout its cuisine, music, and culture. This Communist nation was not allowed to buy computers or cell phones as of 2008! Can you imagine, but making $44 a month is worse I’d say, not even the free healthcare and education can make up for this. There are a lot of cool vintage cars though, and about 70K doctors! Although Obama opens up American travel to Cuba in 2016 and then a year later Trump shuts it back down, but I do hope to visit this beautiful culturally enriched country in my lifetime.

Uruguay

My uncle was a diplomat here and I’m familiar with their fútbol team (yeah Suárez!), but other than this I know little of this second smallest nation in South America. This livestock infested country and home to the world’s first FIFA World Cup, and boasts the lowest poverty in South America. Marijuana trade has been legal in the country since December 2013. The cost is approximately one dollar per gram. They don’t use numbers on their residences, but use names instead! Although Uruguay is made up mostly of rolling plains and low hills, there is still the Atlantic coast and is surprisingly completely out of the tropics. It is quite a non-religious country and boasts a 6 minute National Anthem and has a large Italian influence. It was also the first nation to legalize the home cultivation of marijuana and weirdly enough banned salt from restaurant tables and schools. Crazy! They also love their gays and their dogs, it is illegal to harm any canine in the country.

El Salvador

Not only is my sister-in-law from here, but it is also home to Lake Coatepeque, a large volcanic crater lake. El Salvador is quite cheap to travel within and is littered with small cute towns which can be found on la Ruta de las Flores (Road of Flowers). El Salvador is referred to as the Land of Volcanoes and the terrain ranges from beach to tropics to mountainous areas. A gorgeous country to explore and travel off the beaten path. Surfers love coming here and eating pupusas, the national dish. This super friendly county’s denizens are referred to as “ guanacos”.

Bolivia

Bolivia mesmerizes in land and water, this hat wearing country boasts the tallest heights and pink river dolphins! It is the highest country in S. America (12,383 ft above sea level) and has the largest salt flat in the world, Salar de Uyuni. Along with part of the Andes, salty landscapes, Bolivia also has the deepest and tallest lake (Lake Titicaca) in the world. Bolivia hosts a hotel, Palacio de Sal, completely made of salt! Known for the traditional sandwich, Chola, Bolivians also consider guinea pigs a delicacy and eat cured llama. Raquel Welch is Bolivian, ding ding. People dress like Zebras to help with traffic and children to cross the road there. Bolivia was part of the Incan Empire and the purchase of dead animals is common for citizens to use as offerings to Mother Nature or Pachamama. Cal Orko has over 5,000 individual dinosaur prints. Whoa. Lastly it is home to the most dangerous road in the world, Yungas Road or Death Road killing 200-300 people a year.

Panamá

It’s not just the canal that Panamá is known for, it is a wonderland of tropics, volcanoes, and exotic wildlife. There are untainted areas and pristine white and black sanded beaches, yet it has a majority of its population within the capital city. We’ve had one Miss Universe, a female President (1999) and Vice President (2014), musician Reuben Blades and boxer Roberto Duran both hale from Panamá, aaaand lastly Van Halen’s song is about a car not the country!

Pictured are Kuna Indians famous for making Mola

Photo by: Robert Harding

National Flower of Panamá: The Holy Ghost Orchid - See the Dove!

Traditional Panamanian Folk Dance

Venezuela

The women of Venezuela are world renown, 7 Miss World titles, to be exact, but other than their beautiful women, this country is known for much more than its pageantry. Unfortunately this paradise has been in turmoil in recent times, but Venezuela’s territory is the most protected in the world at over 50% conservation. It is terrible that a place so gorgeous is so dangerous, not just with unrest, but also one of the most dangerous places to drive. Like other Hispanic nations, Venezuela does not like a drunk voter, prohibiting the sale of alcohol 21 hours before an election. It has the highest waterfall, Angel Falls and the Orinoco (Yes Enya, yes) flows here into the Amazon basin. It is a Christmas tradition to roller skate to mass on Christmas day. Venezuela is quite electric in that it is home to Relampago del Catatumbo where there is an everlasting lightning storm. And lastly, you can decide which of the 900 flavors of ice cream you want at Coromoto Ice Cream Shop.

Costa Rica

The Sun rises and the Sun sets at the same time every day here on the rich coast of Costa Rica. You can expect to live a long and happy life in Costa Rica due to the amount of Calcium and Magnesium in the water, centurions are not uncommon here. A surfers haven, Costa Rica has been a holiday retreat for a lot of Americans, some who have bought property to enjoy the coastline and the vast rainforests. A land of orchids, CS boasts 1,400 different species of the flora and is one of the most eco friendly nations on the planet. Ticas (women) keep their maiden names for life and Ticos (men) have no problem openly whistling, staring or catcalling women. Once again, another nation of free education. Costa Rica has no standing army and is a fully democratic nation. There is no mail delivery there and they must get the mail themselves. This surfers’ haven hosts 801 miles of coastline, you wouldn’t find me anywhere else! Although I’ve never met a Tica or Tico from CS, it being one of the happiest nations, it’s no wonder that it's denizens remain there. There are 7 active volcanos and its land is adorned with over 100 volcanic formations. It is a gorgeously biodiverse country and although it used to be quite affordable, Americans have been the result of higher prices, but you can still find affordable things to do there.

Colombia

One of my besties is Colombian. I work with Ana Ines King of the Latin Ballet of Virginia and her sister, they are Colombian. I have two other clients, both are also Colombian. I guess you could say I know quite a few of them…and I love them! Maybe it’s because Panama & Colombia were joined at one time. These people LOVE to dance, making it the salsa capital of the world. Colombian, Shakira knows what’s shakin’. It is also a place where street art is encouraged and sponsored by the government. It is the world’s leading producer of Emeralds and although known for coffee, it is not native to the land. They are, however, the 3rd biggest exporter of it in the world. This Spanish drenched country’s natives were killed by disease brought by the Europeans and what was left embraced Spanish culture. Colombia is incredibly diverse in culture and region, class and age are among status symbols. Don’t forget to order your Bandeja Paisa, the national dish, which coincidentally can be found here in RVA at La Bodega!

Dominican Republic

In 2003, I went here on my honeymoon. I cried when I had to leave after my 8 day, 7 night Punta Cana bliss. DR is gorgeous, with the warmest people and the most beautiful terrain to explore. Dominicans are a baseball nation (Alex Rodriguez, Albert Pujols, and Sammy Sosa. to name a few), DR is also known for it’s golf courses. It is the most visited destination in the Caribbean and their Blue Flag beaches are breathtaking. If you are in the armed forces or the police, you are not allowed to vote. They export the most tobacco and they have the cigars to prove it! It is quite a religious nation, banning abortion and having the bible adorn it’s flag, I mean, it’s named after a patron saint after it was called Hispanola. It houses the oldest cathedral in the Americas (1540). They are the sweetest country making sugar their main industry as well as producing some fine rums and vanilla. And when you are not dancing Merengue you could be enjoying a Presidente their delicious coffee. You would have probably seen Jack Sparrow from time to time in DR, as it was the headquarters for pirates.

Chile

Home to Easter Island, Chile boasts an incredible topography of mountains, islands, desert, and beach. The oldest mummies are found here and the largest swimming pool in the world! Chile is the fourth largest wine exporter (thank you) and the seventh largest producer of wine in the world. The country produces 90% of the world’s potatoes with 286 unique varieties. These people love their food and they love bread. Chile is the second highest bread consumers in the world There are 500 active volcanoes and the driest desert in the world. And the best fact about Chile — officially funded and recognized UFO research bureau!

Honduras

Despite Christopher Columbus’ “discovery” of Honduras, you can see many artifacts of the ancient Mayans here. Honduras is home to the second largest coral reef and is a haven for scuba divers. It has the oldest clock in the world (1100 AD) and is also host to the Hieroglyphic Stairway of Copán which features the largest single text in the world allegedly. Honduras is a savage country, beautiful in terrain yet can be quite dangerous to visit with the presence of The Mara Salvatrucha gang whose tattooed members can be found throughout Central America. Also known as the Banana Republic, you can also enjoy such meals as Yuca con chicharrón or Baleadas. The Talgua Caves or Caves of the Glowing Skulls are a hidden attraction and gets its name from the reflection of the human skulls found here. Don’t mess with soccer here, the country is fervent when it comes to the sport and even engaged in a 100 hour war with El Salvador over it. It is a beautiful country trying to overcome its recent reputation and its poverty, but the people of Honduras are warm and friendly.

Quarantine Chronicles: The Open Road

“Nothing behind me, everything ahead of me, as is ever so on the road.”

— Jack Kerouac

When I was a kid, my dad loved driving us around. He brought new gusto to the term “Sunday Drive”. We would just get in the car and go down old dirt roads, we’d drive alongside bayous and make our way through country flatlands. We weren’t really going anywhere, we just went to enjoy the drive.

When I’m feeling this way and I can’t take it anymore, I get in my car and I get lost. I am a sucker for backroad explorations. I love discovering places I’ve never seen or people I’ve never met. Not so easy to do in a quarantined state, but definitely not impossible to take the road less traveled. I have discovered some really beautiful drives in Virginia and since today is National Road Trip day and I’m sure most of us are feeling a little cagey, maybe it’s time to get behind the wheel and let the open road reveal some of Virginia’s beauty.

There have been so many times I’ve been on a trip somewhere and take notice of signage to different little towns or a road that pops out that I can’t help but wonder where it will lead. Here are a few of my favorite little day drives.

Blackwells Hollow Road in Albemarle County

This is a beautiful drive down Route 810 and there are a few cool back gravel roads to explore

Blackwells Hollow Road

Photo by: Bob Mical

Route 5

I love this route and it’s even better on a motorcycle, but this little trip to Charles City is scenic and peaceful. Drive by Osborne’s Landing and have a little walk along the James. How we miss the Lily Pad!

Go out Route 6 to Charlottesville

Add a little time to this jaunt to Charlottesville and enjoy wineries and rolling hills.

Wildlife Venturing

Take a drive to Great Dismal Swamp and enjoy the natural habitat home to many of Virginia’s birds and wildlife.

Skyline Drive

Route 33 to the Blue Ridge Mountains

Just a really gorgeous drive to the mountains!

Cape Charles

Take a trip to Cape Charles. This quaint bay town is sweet and boasts its own brewery and distillery. You can stop and take a nice walk down the bay or cruise their super cute town.

There’s plenty to see and drive through from taking the mountains in on Skyline Drive to exploring Virginia’s rolling hill countrysides. So get out and get to driving!

Quarantine Chronicles: Ma-Mama, Mama-Mo-Ma-Mum

Photo by: Mi Madre by LadyJRVA

This year Mother’s Day is going to be pretty weird. I’m fortunate to have my mom in town and I’m sure she’ll be making something delicious to eat while she and my Tia (aunt) criticize everything from what I’m wearing to whether I’m drinking enough water. Welcome to FWS (Foreign Woman Syndrome). My mom is the hardest person in the world to shop for. She LOVES clothes and shoes, but I don’t dare, and while flowers are nice, sometimes I want to get her something so left of center that it will be a nice surprise at least.

It got me thinking about how this current time will affect this holiday. Some of you have moms in other states which I’m sure you’ve been Facetiming and texting the hell out of to make sure they are safe. For those in town, the traditional Mother’s Day brunch is obviously out, but there are ways to make up for this. I decided to give you all some ideas on how to celebrate this Mother’s Day in Coronastyle as well as support local business.

---

Eats

A socially distanced picnic or a nice virtual meal together can still be a nice way to say, “Thanks, Mom”. Even if you can’t be with mom on her day, you can have a meal delivered or picked up for her at some of our local Momtastic establishments.

Stella’s

I don’t need to tell everyone how these two mitéras not only create some of the most delicious and established meals in RVA, but would make any mom feel special.
Happy Mother’s Day to Ms. Stella Dikos and Katrina Giavos!

MamaJ’s

Featuring some of the tastiest soul food in town, you know your Mama will love this Mama!
Happy Mother’s Day to sweet Ms. Velma Johnson!

Nota Bene

A perfecto way to tell mom you love her, Italian style.
Happy Mother’s Day to stellar mom and owner,
Victoria Aracri Deroche!

Lulabelle’s Cafe

I’m never disappointed with Lulabelle’s and they will be providing a true Southern menu for you and your momma.
Happy Mother’s Day to the lovely owner Nicki Murphy!

---

Sweets

No Mother’s Day is complete without some sort of confectionary delight to remind ourselves just how sweet moms are!

Whisk

Mom will LOVE their macaroons and other baked goodies.
Happy Mother’s Day to owner Morgan Botwinick!

Michaela’s Bakery

Home of the Thalhimer's Six Layer Cake, Michaela’s is perfect for cakes and cookie orders. It smells so good walking in there!

Maggie’s Cupcake Cafe

This woman does it all! Cakes, Cupcakes, Pies…OH MY!
Happy Mother’s Day to owner, storyteller, and Veteran, Rebekah Lynn Pierce!

La Sabrosita Bakery 

To all my Latina Mami’s out there, this is the bakery for them! They make the most festive and beautiful cakes!

Feliz día de la madre, Argentina Ortega!

---

Gifts

FLOWERS

Old Time Feeling: Visit Kelsey on Instagram, pick up and delivery still available!

FOURTEEN ACRES: Beautiful in-season florals delivered right to your door.

FUN GIFTS

WORLD OF MIRTH: Some of the coolest mom gifts in town! Give her an unexpected surprise!
Happy Mother’s Day to Owner, Thea Brown

THE WOW FACTOR

CAMEO: Give her the gift of a personal celebrity message AND support a cause!

THE RVA TREATMENT

GIFTED RVA: Get her a gift that says “I love you MOM, and I love RVA”. Beautiful gift sets!

AFTER COVID GIFTS with GIFT CERTIFICATES to LOCAL BUSINESSES

• A haircut with one of our hairstylists

• A massage at a local spa

• A mani-pedi (and get one for yourself for a little mom-daughter time)What To Do

• Tickets to the theater, symphony or an upcoming concert

• Get her dancing lessons

• Get her cooking/baking classes

Other things to do

• Have a backyard picnic

• Take a trip together with virtual tours of museums, gardens, mansions, and national parks

• Take a virtual dance class together

• Make a wreath for her front door with mom day messages

• Take a walk together

Quarantine Chronicles: Fist City Fashion

You’re probably wondering, why the hell would she write about Fashion as a real estate agent? I have a few reasons:

1. Fashion as an art form can influence not just what you wear, but how you decorate a space. Do you seriously doubt that Boho fashion has not inspired mixed printed rugs and furniture in a home or that animal print has never seen its way into a living room (have you talked to Carole Baskin?).

2. It’s important to lift our community, no matter the industry. We celebrate our RVA!

3. I’ve been binging the hell out of Making the Cut and streaming Fashion Week Runway shows, truth!

My favorite toy growing up with Tomy Toys Fashion Plates. I spent hours mixing and matching plates with adding cool patterns to my creations. I had been doodling dress designs all my life. With a mother just as obsessed with fashion and design, it was no surprise that my path would lead me to…Real Estate! Sometimes you win some and sometimes your dreams turn into something entirely different.

So, while I get a boost to my creativity during this time, I thought it would be appropriate to give some of our very own, home-grown talent the spotlight. Maybe while we are all living this quiet life, it might inspire some of you to think of your own designs you’d want to have made for your personal collection.

Photo by LadyJRVA

Cate Latham of Van Herten Outerwear

What I love about Cate? Not only did she do costume design for Richmond Ballet, but she has also designed for GWAR and teaches at VCU where she graduated in Fashion Design. Her utilitarian chic brings simplicity, well constructed and comfortable pieces to the forefront and her leatherwork designs would give any tradesman legit respect. I adore Cate and her designs so much, she’s designing my wedding gown!

Ron and Lisa Rider of Rider Boot Co.

Wallets, Boots, and Bags, Oh My! What Ron and Lisa Rider create is magical. Exquisite constructions and design work, Lisa has created a bag series of late that is fashionably gorgeous. I cannot say enough about this husband-wife duo. Their custom boot designs are equally hot and I can’t wait to add some to my wardrobe. While you’re internet shopping during this time, defnitely check out their unique wares.

Michael Ames of X Of Pentacles

Michael and I share an unknown bond of tragedy, but we both rose to the occasion out of the ashes. Michael’s brand, X of Pentacles is the ONLY brand in Virginia to offer REAL Bespoke suiting, and one of the few in the entire USA. His scarf and pocket square designs are fun, vibrant and cool. They make me want to revive Rizzo’s style for the 21st century. Beautiful Italian, vintage tailored suits custom-made for that guy who wants to show off a little something different.

Mateo Ascencio Silvan of M.A.S.

This kid. I mean, with his Latino flair and the fact that his initials literally mean more in Spanish, how can you not know he was meant for great things. Still in high school at George Wythe, this young designer has me appreciating not only my culture, but loving his entire take-on-the-world spirit. His designs are fun, vibrant, and I’m looking forward to his future endeavors. If only I had one of him to design my prom dress,

Support RVA Restaurants

Special Announcement

I’ve been a part of the restaurant industry in RVA for a majority of my life. Even now, as a real estate agent, I still work at Cafe Rustika as a server/bartender. Our food and beverage industry has done amazing things for the progression of our city. It has given us amazing food, places to congregate with friends and family, a setting to meet with clients, places to wallow in our every day worries, bartenders and waitstaff who have worked long hours and have fine tuned their service abilities and knowledge, and most importantly has put us on the map as a desirable city to live, work and visit, creating jobs and commerce here.

There was a time, I was so thankful I worked in a restaurant because it was the only meal I got that day. I have had restaurants bring new friends into my life and as well as given me lifelong acquaintances. I have a large amount of friends who own restaurants here in RVA which include Lulabelle’s Cafe, Don’t Look Back, Nota Bene, ZZQ, Urban Hang Suite, Nomad’s, Kuba Kuba, Longoven, Cask Cafe, Gus’, Rosie’s, Penny Lane Pub, all of Kendra Murden’s Restaurants (Roosevelt, Laura Lee’s, Garnett’s Cafe), Cobra Cabana and Metzger/Brenner Pass to name a few. The point is, I always believe in RVA, in our communities, and honestly, in my friends. I know it is a difficult time for them and their investments, their livelihoods, and their contributions to our great city.

So, although some of us are struggling right now, I ask that those who can spare what they can to please contribute to the Richmond Restaurant Relief Fund. We all do what we can, if you don’t want to help these folks out and you’d rather donate your funds, time or items elsewhere, I encourage you to do so. We don’t really know how long this is going to last just yet, and I’d like to know that our ability to unite and help others with kindness and compassion is still present in RVA.

If anyone else would like to add an additional medium for donations, please feel free to reach out to me by texting (804.571.1727) or emailing me: joann@ladyjrva.com. As we all break bread, let’s give some too.

A Very Wise Choice

Written by: Jo Ann Breaux | Photos by: Jo Ann Breaux

Without knowing what the new year was to bring—a new adorned ring finger for one—it was serendipitous that I would be talking to business owner Noelle Parent. She is the owner of two distinct local businesses here in Richmond. the bridal consignment shop, Blue Sage Bridal and Gifted RVA, which sells beautifully customizable gift sets consisting of locally made products. Her shop sits prettily on E. Main Street and a welcome addition to the downtown area. Downtown has always been this weird desolate place after 5pm. I feel Broad Street in particular is just stale. Boy that bus track was such a good idea! Even in the 80s there was more ambling crowds, think 6th Street Market. I do love seeing businesses like Noelle’s beginning to adorn the streets in and around the area. Now that Comfort is gone, Broad street fortunately still has gems like Steady Sounds, Black Iris Gallery, Charm School, and Little Nomad, but that strip along Upper Franklin and Main, business seems scarce. It just always seems like limbo, it looks like things are changing down there, but you can’t quite tell yet. Noelle herself is surprised at the foot traffic she gets and although she is by appointment only, it is a still nice to have passerby’s peep in . Can you remember the last time, other than First Friday, you took a walk downtown? We both agreed that we would like to see more contribution to a vibrant and stroll-worthy downtown area.

Ok, I’m not here to get into my plans for a better RVA. I’m here to tell you all about this local business owner, a woman after my own heart in that an idea can hit you smack dab in the face and poof, you’re a business owner. First of all, it takes a lot to be inspired enough to start your own business and secondly, it takes a lot to get people who want to push you to do so. This Charlottesville native did it —twice. You might know her from her hospitality role at Quirk Hotel or you could know her from working as a former wedding planner with the Empress of bossdom, Christine Greenberg at The Hive Wedding Collective. I happened to discover Noelle’s wares after visiting Urban Set Bride. The nicely presented kit was notably unique and I immediately thought, “Ooooo closing gifts!”

Noelle is a friendly individual and it’s easy to pick up on her hospitality traits. I like walking into an establishment and feeling invited, comfortable. Blue Sage and Gifted do just that, it has that homey feeling. It was fortunate Noelle landed the historical storefront which houses her two realms, complete with ironically already painted blue walls when she moved in. It is a pretty space and lends itself to having to try on gowns for a few hours.

Parent has lived in RVA for ten years and was a frequent visitor while her brother attended VCU in 2003. Back then, Richmond had a little more grit than it does now, but she found her niche here and eventually became a Richmonder herself. As we discuss the inspiration and successes of RVA’s local businesses, I tell her how amazing it is to see people I grew up with, now contributing to the growth of Richmond, and how she too is a part of that progress.

Noelle houses about 200 consignment and sample wedding dresses. Some still have tags on them (brides change their minds a lot) and some are the stuff dreams are made of. It is not surprise a majority of her samples come from Urban Set, you gotta love the sisterhood! Richmond lost it’s one and only bridal consignment shop before Noelle had an inkling she would take on that task. The nearest one was 2 hours away in Virginia Beach and vendors were getting tired of the inconvenient distance to deliver the samples. So voila, with a bonk on the head, Noelle decided to open Blue Sage to accommodate sample gown deliveries for Richmond.

The appointment only shop carries the most current styles and if you are seeking a dazzling dress at an affordable price point (25-45% off), then you definitely want to peruse her racks. Some of you may not know what exactly a Sample gown is, I can honestly tell you I had an idea but didn’t know 100% what that meant either! Sample gowns are the gowns that salons carry for try ons. They are never worn to an actual ceremony. Noelle says the consignment gowns are sometimes better because they come already bustled, hemmed, and are most affordable (starting at 40% off). I don’t know about you, but from the word engaged, the mark up on weddings is insane! Saving a few hundred on a dress to be worn for a most likely 1.5 (hello, reception wardrobe change), sounds pretty smart to me.

Not a bride? Not a problem. Parent also owns Gifted RVA, which was not intended to share the space with Blue Sage initially, but it turns out her space lends itself to showcasing her products. She had run Gifted through its online medium since its inception, so whether they stay put or not is still in the works. There’s an ease to fulfilling online rather that physical shopping. With usually a 48 hour window, you can have your gift kit delivered or available for pick up at prices starting at $35. Her kits consist of some of the coolest locally sourced products and would make any receiver flattered. A majority of her business comes from the corporate world which has grown exponentially since she started in 2017. They truly make great gifts and not only are you supporting all the locals, but you can also give back. Gifted has a special box just for giving back. It includes products from local Richmond Businesses who give back in their own way. In addition, for each give back box that is purchased, Gifted will give a care package to SafeHarbor to help support those who are struggling with homelessness and domestic abuse. How very Richmond!

Gifted’s gifts make for fantastic closing gifts, birthday and anniversary presents, and impressive client handouts. Some of the vendors she is currently using include, Grateful Heart Shop, Robin’s Egg Essentials, Lammar Marie's Gourmet Popcorn, and Storied Goods to name just a few. She concentrates on seasonal gift giving with September being the biggest birthday month and Holiday season causing space to be rented to complete the multitude of orders, so get in early! Impress your mom in May with a nice kit full of goodies. I’m a big fan of the Grateful Heartshop Richmond keychains and Swig Tumblers.

Whether it’s a beautiful wedding gown you are looking for or a gift that makes a statement or both, Noelle’s wares fulfill a shopper’s desire and supports not just her local business, but others as well. We can hope that others will join Blue Sage Bridal in holy commerce birthing bustling footsteps and future patronage. Now that’s a union worth striving for!

Blue Sage Bridal and Gifted RVA are located at 20 E Main St, Richmond, VA and for an appointment, click below.

Wine All About It!

My love affair with wine started in the 90s I believe. I decided in my early twenties, that Maddog 20/20 and Strawberry Boon’s Farm was probably not the most sophisticated of indulgences. Once you start working in reputable restaurants, it’s almost a given that learning about wine is better than standing in front of a table, eyes towards the sky wondering if you actually know which wine you carry is the driest. Not a good look.

I fell in love with Cabs initially then I discovered the dark seductions of Tempranillo, Grenache, and Malbec. It’s the one beverage I consistently drink throughout the year and if it’s good enough for Jesus to prefer it to water, then it can’t be so bad! I have had some luscious wines in RVA and it seems only right that I share these experiences with you. Here’s the thing with wine, you have to try different ones to find what’s going to satisfy your palate, any good server or bartender will steer you in the right direction. Celebrate with me on the 18th of February and toast to good times…genuwine times.

These places have some of the most delicious wine choices.

• Secco, wide range and ask about their “secret stash”

• Brenner Pass, I’m a huge fan of discovering Lagrein here and their Nebbiolo is divine, their house wines are also something to sniff at!

• Adarra, if you are a fan of big Spanish reds, this is your spot, love their varieties.

• Heritage, Pignataro Negroamaro and the Raina Grechetto Umbria for you “orange” wine drinkers!

• La Grotta, I mean Italian food and Wine is divine! Seriously, this wine list is impressive.

• Shagbark, Wine Director, Rodney Rosser knows his grapes. They have an excellent bottle selection and there’s something for everyone there.

If you are looking to do some sipping at home, my favorite place to get wine is at Once Upon A Vine in Northside. They know their stuff there and every recommendation I get there is great, not to mention affordable! Here are a few that Pete Gariazzo (Once Upon) recommends:

Rosé

• Atlantique Rosé

• Guilhem Rosé 

• Eulalie Rosé

  
  Sparkling

• Aubert et fils

• Moet Chandon Brut

• Monteliana Prosecco

Reds

• Fableist Cabernet

• Mascarelli Montepulciano 

• Leese Fitch Pinot Noir (one of my faves)

Whites

• Federalist Chardonnay 

• Matua Sauvignon Blanc 

• Ca'lunghetta Pinot Grigio

Enjoy! Don’t forget to drink local and cap off your day today with a nice glass or two. Who needs the glass, it already comes in one!

How Do I Love Thee, Let Me Consume the Ways…

I had a rule when I was in the dating game—never eat on the first date. People questioned this, but the truth is, in my opinion, eating with someone is an intimate act. It is one of vulnerability and surrendering of the senses. It’s also awkward at times sitting with a stranger while chewing politely the meal that may, or may not be paid for, interviewing for the position of Executive Companion. I think there’s different levels of dining experiences depending on where you are in the relationship. I mean think about it, are you at the point where you can snag a bite from your partners plate or are you staying away from handheld foods? And, although we hope our partners are excellent cooks in the kitchen, we have been quite favored to have some of the best restaurants in the country.

Finding places for romantic dinners is easy in a place so saturated by delicious meals. So, no matter what “base” you’re at, you can find savory morsels, romantic settings, and casual comforts. Here are a few of my favorites because let’s face it, the date could bomb, but at least your stomach will be happy

First Base

“Wait, what’s a nice place like you doing in a girl like this?”

• Don’t Look Back
  Whatcha Doin’?

• Little Nickel
  A little for you and a little for me.

• Helen’s
  Slow and low that is the tempo.

• 8 1/2 at Scuffletown Park
  Getting to know you, getting to know all about you.

• La Bodega
  I’ve got the flavor, spice and everything nice.

Third Base

“I love you as certain dark things are loved, secretly, between the shadow and the soul.”

• Dutch & Company
  Intimate and savory.

• Adarra
  Authentically Impressive.

• Mama Zu
  Consistently Confident.

• Stella’s
  Stay for a while goodness.

• Bistro Bobette
  Lovely and Warm.

Second Base

”Put your hand on a hot stove for a minute and it seems like an hour. Sit with a pretty girl for an hour, and it seems like a minute.”

• Cafe Rustika
  Cozy Comforts.

• Nota Bene
  Notably Amorous.

• Secco
  Keeping it light.

• Maple & Pine
  Open and Airy.

• Kuba Kuba
  Energetically Vibrant.

Homerun

"Death cannot stop true love. All it can do is delay it for a while."

• Brenner Pass
  Modern Love.

• Longoven
  Sensory Perception.

• L’Opossum
  Tantalizing Perfection.

• Lemaire
  Faithful Companion.

• La Grotta
  Old World Romance.

---

Best Places to Meet People

Tinder not working for you? The hive emptying out on Bumble? Sometimes you just want to meet people organically. These are my favorite picks for such casual encounters.

• Cask Cafe. Why? Because the bar lends itself to communal conversation and it’s easy to listen without a bunch of loud noise. If things really kick off, you can escape to the back room and have some privacy (it’s not as sexy as it sounds.)

• Lemaire at Happy Hour. Why? Because you get to meet travelers from different places and who knows, some hot single celeb may be looking for someone just like you! I mean what better scenery to meet someone.

• Quirk Rooftop. Why? Cause it’s pretty and the outdoors is good for you.

• Chop Suey or Libraries. Why? Because what a person reads is a good indication that 1. they are literate and 2. Books are a good for conversation

• Lowes. Why? Because who doesn’t want a handy person around? I have tons of things to fix!

• Penny Lane or Rosie’s on Game Day or a Kicker’s Game. Why? Because people who watch sports tend to be passionate.

• Steady Sounds or Plan 9. Why? Because music is everything. We’re actually quite attracted to those who love the same sonics as we do.

• VMFA or Any Museum. Why? Because they enjoy beauty and get things that are beneath the layers.

• Grocery Stores. Stay out of frozen foods and get into the produce section.

---

Interactive Dates

Sometimes you need some action in your action. RVA has some fun places for dates you should try out.

Hotel Greene
Signature Cocktails. Wes Anderson-esque setting. Indoor putt putt. What’s not to love!

River City Roll
Good Bites. Nice loungy vibe. Great for “striking” up conversation!

Bingo
Decent Craft Brews. A nice patio. Video Games Galore.

Goochland Drive-In
Still cool and what’s more date like than a drive in movie.

TopGolf or Drive Shack
Nothing says first date like the hitting of balls.

Join the Pinball Collective
High score all day long!

Tang and Biscuit
Group Date! Shuffleboard and Board Games.

Hollywood Cemetery. It’s actually quite romantic with the overlook of the river and the spirits of history. A very nice walk or bike ride indeed.

Colonial Shooting Range
You’d be surprised what a great date this can be.

Karaoke at Lakeside Tavern
Divey and sure to create a memorable moment, sing it loud and proud.

---

Love Potions

If you’re like me and don’t want to eat on a first date, a good way to get to know someone is to just hang out and have a drink. These places are good for conversation and provide a nice space and good libations. I like a good bar for a first date. Sitting at the bar with a good bartender helps as well, they tend to facilitate conversation and can set a mood. Neighborhood bars are my favorite choices and remember, it doesn’t always have to be an alcoholic bar to be fun.

The Jasper
It’s dark in a good way. The bartenders will impress your date. You can take a walk down Carytown after.

Ninja Kombucha
Cute, neighborhood setting and it’s good for ya!

Union Market
A nice way to sit outside and enjoy each other’s company and plan for your life together in sought after Church Hill.

The Tottering TeaCup
So quaint and a nice hot cup of tea will put you both at ease.

Fuzzy Cactus
It’s fun with great music and affordable drinks and you can play pool!

Heritage
Very nice cocktail menu and a smaller bar and if you’re feeling confident, you can share an app.

---

The Morning After

Looks like it’s breakfast for two! You like them, you really, really like them. Not ready to say goodbye? Enjoy a nice brunch/breakfast together at these fine establishments and set your next date!

Perly’s
Unique and always delicious.

Brunch
The name says it all.

Bamboo
For that lazy kinda morning.

Joe’s Inn
To soak up all the alcohol with!

Moore Cafe
When you gotta be to work on time.