Home is more than four walls and roof. Home is a door opening to you, your family, your pets, your lifestyle, your neighborhood, your community, your city. It’s all encompassing on so many levels.
House of the Dragon
Designing in traditional style Chinese motifs…
Since we are entering the Year of the Dragon and I honor my Asian roots, I thought doing a piece on Asian inspired home decor would be inspiring. First off, although I do have an affinity for Chinoiserie in home styling and quite like it, it is technically not Asian, but European-created. Ah, yes the seduction of the exotic has always been a muse of sorts. I can definitely appreciate that style of wallpaper down a staircase or dragon themed decorative pillows. Truthfully, the motifs themselves are really quiet poetic, but there is a bit of difference when we are talking about the lens in which these two styles are seen through. The western viewpoint captures the romanticism of Chinese landscapes and art, while I feel the traditional Chinese aesthetics delves more into the philosophy and beliefs of the Chinese culture.
Chinese design incorporates the need for balance and tranquility within the home. It uses natural textures and minimalism to enhance the character of the home. You’ll see a lot of intricate woodwork and lacquered furniture. Bold colors like deep reds and blacks are common in traditional Chinese design denoting good luck and sophistication respectively. Chinese decor is warm, but also functional, reflective of the art of Feng Shui. This all accompanied by Chinese art and figurines placed about the home accurately—Budai is everywhere.
Some elements you’ll find in this aesthetic are porcelain vases, decorative screens, intricately adorned chests and cabinetry, and of course Oriental rugs. Fun Fact: Shoppers used to bring their dogs to determine if the rugs were genuine. If the dog detected blood, they would know it was the real deal. Oriental rugs are woven by hand, often incorporating the weavers blood.
Designing an Oriental style home can showcase a bold and inviting space, but one that is also with purpose and practicality. It signifies elegance and suggests strength, peace, and harmony. Adding softer touches with Chinese floral motifs like lotuses, cherry blossoms, and orchids adds to the balance of this aesthetic and can calm any dragon.
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Where the Magic Happens
Enjoy these bedroom ideas to inspire and arouse your sacred slumber chambers.
I love my bedroom. I spent a majority of my childhood sharing a bedroom with my younger brother, and although his sleepwalking adventures were fascinating and our bunk bed shenanigans were delightful, moving from a three bedroom childhood home to a two bedroom apartment deemed challenging. As I progressed into teendom and the wearing out of every Cure tape I had, my mother ended up on a couch while my brother settled into his own space. Twas hard times back then.
As an adult, I long for the day of having all matching furniture, an accent wall, and room for a chaise lounge and ensuite bathroom to call my own. Let’s not forget a walk-in closet that i can actually see my clothes and shoes in. Sigh, bedrooms are for dreaming right?
I think we can all agree that the intimacy a bedroom can provide is also the intimacy it can provoke. It is February people! But seriously, bedrooms should be a place of relaxation, fantasy, a place to be pensive and quiet, and provide you with your own private sanctuary. Here are some bedroom ideas for you to sleep on:
Textured Accent Walls
We’ve stared at four walls for quite some time now and the bedroom is no different. Creating a textured accent wall can add depth and really showcase that dreamy furniture of yours and it’s an easy DIY project! Make different patterns and be creative.
Pendant Lighting
Lighting in a bedroom is everything! I love the look of hanging pendant lights and the variety of styles and shapes is aplenty. My only qualm about this one is if you are anything like me and want to switch your bed elsewhere in six months, moving lighting around can be difficult. The look is stunning though!
Wallpaper Accented Walls
When you want to be able to change up your background, go with easily interchangeable wallpaper to create a dramatic effect.
Upholstered and Shapely Headboards
Bespoke headboards are making a comeback and in gorgeous colors and textures. Headboards in general are making their way back into the scene with cool shapes and bold patterns that make spotlighting your restful slumber unique and expressive. They are also easy to DIY your own creations.
Painted and Textured Furniture
Bring pops of color into the bedroom with muted, colorful or textured furniture. We are still seeing deep rich woods, but color adds some pizzazz to your space.
Time to get to work and bring some magical refresh skills to your boudoir. Find your bedroom style, whether it’s moody and dark or light and bright. Visit estate sales and upcycled shops to find unique pieces you can refinish and make your own. Check out some local artists, and give your bedroom walls a little oomph. RVA has so many great woodworkers, artisans, and designers to make for a very comfortable and sacred place. Nighty, nighty!
Looking for Love in All the Right Places
Are you ready to fall in love?
She and I met when I was about 5 or 6 years old. She had an iron wrought gate surrounding her as though she wore a choker from the 1800s. Her color was pale blue and her two tiered porches wrapped around her waist as though she donned a lace trimmed ball gown. Her eyes were dark, but her lids came in a myriad of brocade colors and her steeples pointed to the heavens with such grace. She was a true beauty, and my dream for a long time.
I used to pass this house on my way home from school in my small hometown of Crowley, LA. I loved that majestic home, untouchable and hiding so many stories within its walls. It was the first home I ever can remember dying to live in. Fast forward 30 something years, and I’ve had a few crushes here in RVA, but none have drawn me in the way that gorgeous Victorian of my childhood did.
Falling in love with a home requires a true connection. When you are looking for the perfect match, there are some things to consider…
Attraction. What’s she wearing? Is it a ball grown or is it a little black dress? Does it wink at you when you drive by or does it tighten up when you approach it’s gates? We all have some sort of architecture we love whether it’s the warm coziness of a Bellevue bungalow or the stately Colonials adorning the near West End or the grandeur of Monument Avenue’s Classical Revivals. No matter what you love on the outside, that love at first site thing is real when it comes to house hunting. Her outsides are the first thing you see. You may be attracted to her country porch, her picturesque face, or you may be tempted with her manicured lawns and meticulous landscaping.
It’s What’s Inside that Counts. I’ve seen several unsuspecting homes. They don’t initially catch my eye as I’m driving up, but then I go inside and that’s where she gets me. Some people are attracted to flooring, some to unique details, and others to particular rooms. For me, I’m drawn to unique quarters like libraries and secret lounges. Yes, I know this is a higher expectation, but if I have to settle, I’ll settle for falling in love with a kitchen and/or bathroom. She could be a high class gal adorned with granite countertops and the most up to date appliances or she could have original floors and an antique vanity. I think a lot of people are looking for a home that meets a less cookie cutter image, something that feels more personal. You want the love of your life to stand out from the rest, no? Aesthetics aside, there’s something more important than looks…
That Warm and Fuzzy Feeling. It all comes down to how she makes you feel. When you open her door can you see a future? Do you feel warm or do you feel as though she might spit you out when you try to change her? I’ve had clients walk in and immediately walk right out because of an initial vibe. No matter how pretty she is, if she doesn’t give you the warm and fuzzies, it’s not for you. I don’t ever want to force my clients into falling in love with something they don’t want to marry. I encourage people to take in a home, walk around it, glide your hands down her banisters, lay in her tubs, lean on her counters, check out her surroundings, and visit her at night. Then ask yourself, Is she loving you back?
Not every home is going to be The One. You could find one that is Fun for Now, but not marriage material. The most important thing is not to be rash, but to take some time and get to know her, find out all you can about her, learn about her history and how she’s grown, and make sure she doesn’t have any baggage that’s going to come up later.
I pine for the day I can walk into a home and say, “This is my forever!”. Until then I’m still dating around, trying to find out which one is worth my investment. What about you? Have you fallen in love yet? Are you ready to make a commitment? I’d love to hear more Love Stories, feel free to leave a comment.
For the Love of Home Questionnaire
What was the first home you fell in love with and why?
See Above and also because I really love historic homes.
What was the first home you cohabited in? You know, your first love nest?
We’d been dating for well over 3 years and although he was at my house pretty much every day, we didn’t officially move in together until 2002. 3 S Vine. A small one bedroom apartment that I fell in love with because it was updated and the location was stellar. We ate at The Lighthouse a whole lot! The thing I loved about it the most was that we lived there alone — no roommates!What was the home that got away?
I have house regret. There was this beautiful house in the near West End that my friend lived in. When she moved away they put it on the market and I wished I could have bought that lovely house on Kensington.What is the decor you are crushing on currently?
I’m really digging vintage style wallpaper. I think seeing shows and film influence my style choices. Ever since I watched Sharp Objects, I want all of that! I am also digging the Art Deco style that has made a comeback. The colors in particular, I just love moody, lush colors.What is your home breakup story? The home you miss the most or the home that brought you nothing but heartache?
It’s not necessarily a “home” in terms of the construct you live in, but the home I miss the most is New York, funny, it the home which has brought me the most heartache as well. I do miss it’s vibe though!What is your favorite place you LOVE to be in at your house and why?
Our bedroom. I love how dark it is and yet how bright I can make it. I also love our front porch which makes for a great way to get to know your neighbors.Was or is there a neighborhood you LOVE the most?
Yes, this one. Ginter Park and Brookland Park has been my favorite place to live in RVA. I love it so much! Its walkability, its business owners, its friendly neighbors and the homes are incredible and historic.What is your favorite piece of furniture?
Right now it’s the album holder which was custom built by Tom Brickman. In the future I hope it is velvet chaise I hope to attain.
My Cousin Vintage
Vintage is the new trend for 2021 and I couldn’t love it more! From vintage cameras to art deco mirrors to jade glass vases, giving your home a new luck can cure any lock down.
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WHAT YOU SAID
• Vintage Fabrics for pillows, curtains, etc.
• Taxidermy
• Fenton Hobnail Glass
• Bar Carts
• Hat Boxes
• Pie Safe
• Black & White Photos
• Bar Carts
• Postcards
• Vintage Ads/Magazine Cover Art
• Old Radios, Cameras, Typewriters, Gramophones
• Crochet
I like the sleekness of modern things. The design itself is quite attractive, but to me it lacks depth. It’s like your cousin who wears a Japanese designer whose cuts are as sharp as a chef’s knife, while you prefer the texture, richness and tradition of Chanel. Don’t get me wrong, I love modern design, but preferably not in my home. I’m more of a Refined Industrial gal, I love textures and richness in a room, but I also love traditional pieces that have a history. I’ve always had a love of vintage, even as a child I recall an affinity for homes that had a timeless appeal. Vintage is my go to when I want to start a conversation. The nice thing about vintage decor is that it can incorporate different eras. Some people will continue to love their mid-century credenzas while others will venture to find a Victorian style vanity. I sometimes think I was born in the wrong era.
It is predicted that 2021 will highlight vintage home decor and I couldn’t be more thrilled. Oh to find an oil rain lamp or 1950’s bar cart. We are seeing a revival of art deco styles with peacock plumage and gold trimmings, but because Covid has changed our living spaces, you’re going to find more neutral and earth tones as well as deep moody hues. You can compliment those styles with some really nifty finds around town. I was actually shocked at how many of these local shops there were to accommodate such tastes. What a nice discovery!
So, while we are still cozied up at home, perhaps 2021 will get you motivated to restyle your living and working spaces. A good refresh will change the entire mood of your abode which will lead to inspiration, freshness, and motivation. Items like old typewriters, vintage farm tools, art deco style mirrors, or antique trunks bring a cool nostalgia to any room.
If you are looking for more architectural pieces to add to your home, look no further than Caravati's Inc or Governor's Architectural Antiques. You’ll find unique, historic and detailed fixins from clawfoot tubs to newel posts to ironworks. I have found some beautiful ornate woodwork at these places, including beautiful mantles to transform any den/living room.
Sometimes you can find these things in thrift stores or estate sales, but here are a few vintage vendors here in Richmond to check out:
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68 Home Studio
BRICK ALLEY CO
MIDCENTRIC
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Quarantine Chronicles: Make Room for Mommy
Moms deserve some peace and quiet, and these days they are probably needing it for their sanity. Check out these great ideas for mom sanctuaries.
I’m sure during this time you mothers out there are just needing a space to call your own. Well, this is the time to start dreaming! I chose these very cool mom spaces where you can retreat, no matter your lifestyle. The way men need their sports rooms, man caves, and music studios, we women need our zen dens, libation havens, and creativity quarters.
Just like men, women have a variety of interests when it comes to how they want to spend their time. I think the whole point in finding your mom lair is to separate from all things work, unless work is how you relax? Additionally, a place just for you. These sanctuaries can be a room in your house, a detached shed or greenhouse, a gazebo a or you can even convert your garage into your own private Momville.
My dream space would include the following:
Journals
A mini fridge
Crossword and Jigsaw Puzzles
Some artwork of my choosing
A lock on the door
Books to read
A record player station
My favorite whiskey and wine
A nice comfortable place to lay or sit
Great mood lighting
Some things to consider in having your mom haven are shelves, a built-in desk, nice lighting and maybe a window, some plants, cushions and a lot of them, and electricity. Moms deserve some peace and quiet sometimes and making space for that is part of self-care, and let’s be frank —sanity. The most important part is to have all those things that bring you comfort and peace in a small getaway.
Check out these cool spaces for inspiration!
Quarantine Chronicles: Fist City Fashion
Our RVA is full of talented people, but since staying at home has lead me back to my passion for fashion, I thought you all might want to get to know these local fashion stars.
You’re probably wondering, why the hell would she write about Fashion as a real estate agent? I have a few reasons:
Fashion as an art form can influence not just what you wear, but how you decorate a space. Do you seriously doubt that Boho fashion has not inspired mixed printed rugs and furniture in a home or that animal print has never seen its way into a living room (have you talked to Carole Baskin?).
It’s important to lift our community, no matter the industry. We celebrate our RVA!
I’ve been binging the hell out of Making the Cut and streaming Fashion Week Runway shows, truth!
My favorite toy growing up with Tomy Toys Fashion Plates. I spent hours mixing and matching plates with adding cool patterns to my creations. I had been doodling dress designs all my life. With a mother just as obsessed with fashion and design, it was no surprise that my path would lead me to…Real Estate! Sometimes you win some and sometimes your dreams turn into something entirely different.
So, while I get a boost to my creativity during this time, I thought it would be appropriate to give some of our very own, home-grown talent the spotlight. Maybe while we are all living this quiet life, it might inspire some of you to think of your own designs you’d want to have made for your personal collection.
Photo by LadyJRVA
Cate Latham of Van Herten Outerwear
What I love about Cate? Not only did she do costume design for Richmond Ballet, but she has also designed for GWAR and teaches at VCU where she graduated in Fashion Design. Her utilitarian chic brings simplicity, well constructed and comfortable pieces to the forefront and her leatherwork designs would give any tradesman legit respect. I adore Cate and her designs so much, she’s designing my wedding gown!
Ron and Lisa Rider of Rider Boot Co.
Wallets, Boots, and Bags, Oh My! What Ron and Lisa Rider create is magical. Exquisite constructions and design work, Lisa has created a bag series of late that is fashionably gorgeous. I cannot say enough about this husband-wife duo. Their custom boot designs are equally hot and I can’t wait to add some to my wardrobe. While you’re internet shopping during this time, defnitely check out their unique wares.
Michael Ames of X Of Pentacles
Michael and I share an unknown bond of tragedy, but we both rose to the occasion out of the ashes. Michael’s brand, X of Pentacles is the ONLY brand in Virginia to offer REAL Bespoke suiting, and one of the few in the entire USA. His scarf and pocket square designs are fun, vibrant and cool. They make me want to revive Rizzo’s style for the 21st century. Beautiful Italian, vintage tailored suits custom-made for that guy who wants to show off a little something different.
Mateo Ascencio Silvan of M.A.S.
This kid. I mean, with his Latino flair and the fact that his initials literally mean more in Spanish, how can you not know he was meant for great things. Still in high school at George Wythe, this young designer has me appreciating not only my culture, but loving his entire take-on-the-world spirit. His designs are fun, vibrant, and I’m looking forward to his future endeavors. If only I had one of him to design my prom dress,