Home is more than four walls and roof. Home is a door opening to you, your family, your pets, your lifestyle, your neighborhood, your community, your city. It’s all encompassing on so many levels.
House of the Dragon
Designing in traditional style Chinese motifs…
Since we are entering the Year of the Dragon and I honor my Asian roots, I thought doing a piece on Asian inspired home decor would be inspiring. First off, although I do have an affinity for Chinoiserie in home styling and quite like it, it is technically not Asian, but European-created. Ah, yes the seduction of the exotic has always been a muse of sorts. I can definitely appreciate that style of wallpaper down a staircase or dragon themed decorative pillows. Truthfully, the motifs themselves are really quiet poetic, but there is a bit of difference when we are talking about the lens in which these two styles are seen through. The western viewpoint captures the romanticism of Chinese landscapes and art, while I feel the traditional Chinese aesthetics delves more into the philosophy and beliefs of the Chinese culture.
Chinese design incorporates the need for balance and tranquility within the home. It uses natural textures and minimalism to enhance the character of the home. You’ll see a lot of intricate woodwork and lacquered furniture. Bold colors like deep reds and blacks are common in traditional Chinese design denoting good luck and sophistication respectively. Chinese decor is warm, but also functional, reflective of the art of Feng Shui. This all accompanied by Chinese art and figurines placed about the home accurately—Budai is everywhere.
Some elements you’ll find in this aesthetic are porcelain vases, decorative screens, intricately adorned chests and cabinetry, and of course Oriental rugs. Fun Fact: Shoppers used to bring their dogs to determine if the rugs were genuine. If the dog detected blood, they would know it was the real deal. Oriental rugs are woven by hand, often incorporating the weavers blood.
Designing an Oriental style home can showcase a bold and inviting space, but one that is also with purpose and practicality. It signifies elegance and suggests strength, peace, and harmony. Adding softer touches with Chinese floral motifs like lotuses, cherry blossoms, and orchids adds to the balance of this aesthetic and can calm any dragon.
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Seeing Red
The color red can be tantalizing, energetic, and inviting and shades of it in your home can prove to be a stand out choice…
Ah the color red, when I think of it in cinematic terms, the red room in Twin Peaks comes to mind and The Shining’s geometric rug. Not the most positive use of the color, but I did find Amelie’s bedroom dreamy as well as the grandeur of Downton Abbey’s grand room to the bewitching vibe I was looking for. It’s that time of year where I spotlight the color of the year trends, but unfortunately this years choice has left a bland taste in my mouth. Sorry Pantone but Peach Fuzz doesn’t do it for me. The remainder of 2024 color trends of the year are leaving me with lukewarm feels as I don’t tend to favor too many of the cool tones they’ve chosen this year. This is the year to feel emboldened!
I have always gravitated towards the color red and is the only pop of color I give leeway to in my wardrobe, however, I don’t see it enough in interiors. Reds can invoke warmth and energy in a living space not to mention what it can do when creating a lush bedroom dreamscape. In Asian cultures, red symbolizes good fortune and happiness, perfect in celebrating the Year of the Dragon. It also draws an audience to a focal point within a space. You want to be where it is.
I’m talking about deep warm reds for interiors, for example my staircase wall will be full of drama this year as I coat it with Benjamin Moore’s Flamenco. You have to be careful with reds which makes it all the more exciting to coat you with my dear. It’s a strong color, not for the weak. It says “LOOK. AT. ME.” with danger, desire, and mystery. You have to be confident to use such pigment, but once you yield to it, you won’t regret it.
Entryways
Red in an entryway says, “Greetings, come inside, let me show you more.” It' is a perfect lead in exuding confidence and interest.
Living/Sitting Rooms
I’m a fan of an “conversational” space and how I love thee Victorian aesthetic. I am destined to owned a velvet chaise lounge. Nothing says, “Spill the very juice tea” like a vermillion velvet loveseat. Now, I’m talking a lot of vintage here, but red has its place in the modern decor world as well. Artwork in particular comes to mind, thinking Rothko and Rauschenberg prints or red accent furniture. Red also pairs well with natural materials making it an ease to mix and match with. Finding Oriental rugs dominated by the color is a nice option to tie a room together. Pairing shades of oranges, yellows, and blues with the strength of red can create a relaxing atmosphere.
The Kitchen
Finding pops of ruby in a kitchen through appliances and cabinet backgrounds will bring any kitchen to life. Making tapas was never so vibrant!
The Bedroom
This is a “duh” color for this room. Since red stimulates conversation and invokes passion, it’s a desired choice. You may not want to go too deep with red walls, but you will still feel flushed by adding velvet curtains and linens for a dramatic effect, how Moulin Rouge of you!
Photo by: Pars Sahin
Red courage
Working with reds in your home can be a hard choice. When we think of red, it gives us different connotations of meaning…alert, blood, sirens…vampires—it can be alarming or too kitschy in some instances, so choosing the right shade for you is important. Red can create a beautiful and lush space. We know that red is quite the popular color with exterior doors and why wouldn’t you want your home to stand out! Incidentally, red doors historically mean that your mortgage has been paid off, but I do believe today it’s more of an invitation than a brag. Don’t be afraid to use the shade, have fun with it, play with it, you won’t regret the results. Here are few more ideas to fire you up…
Livin' La Vida Verde
If you are looking to add some life into your spaces, but are prone to killing all things green…
I grew up with a mother whose green thumb would put Poison Ivy to shame. The woman can cultivate anything! You may think that plant is dead, but give it to my mom and she’ll whisper that thing right back to life and thensome. I, however, was not given such gifts. My plant magic consists of being able to keep a succulent alive half a year. I don’t know why, I just kill anything that hues green.
As I drooled over the past year’s dark cottage core/academia aesthetic styles, I pondered—can I too enjoy the benefits of plant life? I decided to do some research on helping me get started and if you too have a black thumb, maybe you will consider these leafy specimens.
Top 5 Favorite Plants for Your Home
The Snake Plant aka Mother-in-law’s tongue
I’ve seen these around before, but man, did this become a popular plant in recent times. This one will help remove toxins in the air and require a quite minimal maintenance program
Image Source: Plantz
Kentia Palm
Requiring little to no water and light, the Kentia is perfect to add some height (12-18 inches) to your space. They live a long time and are great at purifying the air.
My Favorite RVA Plant Houses
Sneed’s: They are friendly and helpful and have great classes, oh and don’t forget Cricket the kitty!
Cole’s Plants: Love this locally owned shop and has a great variety of houseplants made for home decorating.
Green Vibes RVA Pop Ups: Love what this lady does. It really does feel like walking into someone’s home and picking out what speaks to you.
Lavender Fields: Not only is a nice drive there, but I love ending my purchases with some Lavender Honey Ice Cream or Tea. They have a good variety of things here and it’s a nice place to visit.
Devil’s Ivy aka Pothos Ivy
This climber of a plant has been a staple in my mother’s home for decades. You barely have to glance at her and she thrives. She’s fun to decorate with as well, especially if you have a screen for her to adorn.
The Peace Lily
Just as it suggests, this low maintenance beauty curbs anxiety. I like that it’s a flowering plant to compliment your home decor as well.
Succulents
Yes, I know they’ve been trendy for a while now, but honestly these are my favorites. They just provide such versatile looks with color, shape, and texture. You can do so much with them and they don’t require much in return. Consider the Aloe plant and its medicinal properties.
Love You to Pieces
Furnishings that hold history or is a conversation piece can bring your home warmth and nostalgia.
As I child, I remember particular details of my home growing up—the green leather couch, the orange ashtray that my dad flicked his ashes in, the black leather bar, and large oval table that sat so many birthdays and family holiday meals. I can still remember the fur-like multi-colored rug that laid in my brother’s room, but nothing so memorable as the amount of times I brushed my tiny hands across my parent’s red velvet bedspread on their intricately wood carved bed.
My parents had this amazing bed set that had such great detail. Weirdly it reminded me of an old church with it’s three steepled design. It was a serious bedroom set, heavy and walnut. I cannot tell you how many times I’d run to their room, jump to lay on the bed just to watch my mom grab a purse from her armoire or to watch her dress for the day. My mom had impeccable style and LOTS of clothes and shoes (there may be a genetic connection here). I don’t know if it was the warmth of all the red that surrounded that room, but that bed brought me much comfort during a turbulent childhood. I remember I’d lie head at the foot to stare at the large wooden headboard while talking to my brother, listening to the rain on the metal pan my mom threw up on the roof so she could remember her home. Her childhood home in Panama was a metal roof in the jungle, and the sound of rain on it would calm her.
Fast forward to adulthood and I’m left with these nostalgic feelings, but have come up empty when thinking about my own furnishings. The only feeling I have is for the black Victorian framed mirror I got from my father. He gave it to me in my early twenties and it is the one piece i have held onto with each move. It has brought many a room together and it has brought me aesthetic joy, but it does not fulfill the comfort I felt from that wooden bed frame of my parents.
You may have a favorite chair or a favorite table. A piece that has history or sentimental value can make a house—a home. I love a good signature conversation starter. I had a friend who had a vintage toy chest she used as a coffee table. It had remnants of the original illustration on it. There wasn’t anything fancy about it, but every time I would visit her, I found myself investigating it with new findings of a carving or faded color I had not noticed before. My ex-in-laws were REALLY into mid century modern and there were two consecutive years of replica Wassily chairs given to us, but there was no comfort in them. It was the first thing people commented on, and although they have stayed with me through divorce and moves, they are so not the chairs you want to rest your weary bones in.
So, I’m wondering where my next beloved piece of furniture will materialize. I really want a good chair. I like a good chair I can cuddle up in and watch my stories from. Maybe even a modern recliner, one with a pocket for the remotes. Can you tell I’m getting to Senior status? I’m not hating on a good wingback recliner!
What’s your beloved piece currently? Is it decorative or is it functional? Is it one that has seen many places or is this a new piece? What makes it special to you? Feel free to comment below.
In the Dog House
It’s a doggy dog world out there, but I’m celebrating National Dog month sniffing out some great canine friendly home ideas.
Dog people are a distinct breed. They love their canine companions hard and I do believe that people with dogs consider them to be an actual member of the family. I’ve actually seen people treat their furbabies better than their partners! I love dogs, but I do not have one. So until my future “Rook” comes to live with us, I have to start thinking of how to incorporate its space in our home.
Dogs are also high maintenance and I plan on having a large dog. There are two things that I know I don’t want in my cohabitation — dog hair everywhere and a crate awaiting a stubbed toe. I think it is a smart idea to have a separate space for your furry friends, especially when you are training them. I say this, but as soon as I get a dog that beast is going to be my bedtime cuddle buddy!
Creating space for you and the kids is one thing, but creating space for your dogs can be challenging, especially if you have more than one or other animals. I have found some great DIY ideas that will accommodate this and also help keep your home clean.
Crate Space
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve stubbed my toe on a dog crate or how much it takes from the size of a room. There is a solution! Find a spot in the house that is quiet and comfortable for them while they spend time in doggy jail.
There’s No Place Like Home
Finding or creating a dog room in your home can be challenging. Space is key. Laundry and mudrooms are ideal spots for Spot, but being creative can be fun too. Here are some fantastic indoor dog rooms for your best buddy.
Time to Chow Chow Down
You can have these custom built into your islands or kitchen cabinetry or you can have a reserved space for them to chow down.
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Red Rover Come on Over
You have dogs. Your friends have dogs. Your dogs want to play with those dogs. Having a nice outdoor space is great for dogs to be able to get their energy spent and give you some time to relax. Think about fencing you and your guests in and giving the dogs freedom to roam. Consider side yards and small designated spaces for them to enjoy the fresh air.
Fetch Fido!
People that love their dogs, love buying toys for their dogs Dogs have a lot of accessories, from leashes to collars to, sometimes, fancy transport, I’m talking to you Yorkie fans out there. You want a great way to store those things? Have a look at these ideas.
So Groomy!
Grooming your furry loved one can get pricey, but you can convert a great area in your home for in-house grooming. Once again laundry and mudrooms are the best spots for creating this space.
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At Home with Dad
Happy Father’s Day! Check out these cool tips and ideas for starting over again in a space you and your kids will enjoy.
This one is going out to all the single Dads out there. Starting over is never easy for anyone, but most single dads are also creating new living spaces to balance out being single again as well as accommodating those weekly visits with the kids. We’ve gotten pretty used to seeing inviting decor from women with a room for the dudes, ie. the basement game lounge or the garage tinker zone, but what are we seeing in their new solo environments?
Lucifer (Fox)
From musician to geeky to sporty, dads run the gambit. Guys tend to have more monochrome color schemes and sharper edges. Creating your dad space can be fun and you can still create an inviting space for your guests and your offspring. Here are a few ideas for those special dads:
Chordially Invited
Musician Dads, I know a ton of them. Guitar strings strewn about and maybe a buried drumstick in the couch, you can show your love of music while harmoniously classing it up.
Hanging musical instruments nicely on a wall (NOT ALL Walls)
Add some framed art by displaying your fave artists or instruments
Frame your band posters/flyers
Use non functioning instruments as shelving alternatives
Add a record listening station
Create a music room so you and the kids can have “rehearsal”
Use warm tones and relaxed furniture
Create microphone lamps
Mid-century modern seems to attract these types
Son of A Geek
You know them. They have 100 Star Wars figurines mounted on a wall or a life size replica of Iron Man’s suit. Remember neatly displayed versus vomitfest of collectables.
Curio Cabinets are great for Vader, Skywalker, and Solo to hang out
Maybe keep all the “toys” nicely shelved and displayed in one room but keep signature pieces out for conversation starters
Frame old comic books
A gaming area of course (uncluttered)
Use Lego for decor
Keep collectables neatly displayed
Get geeky wallpaper for the half bath (think Star Wars Toille)
Smart home equipped
Have fun with videogamed themed color palettes
Display old gaming systems
Room Ideas from Modsy
My Dad is Old World
The intellectual father has more reserved, but stylish tastes. Think Harry Potter vibes…
Card Catalogs for Furnishings
A Reading Nook for those bedtime stories
Have an ongoing Chess area - intellectual and design savvy.
Rich leather and velvet furniture
Dark Academia looks
Taxidermy
Maps and Globe Decor
Candles and Lanterns
Antiques including apothecary bottles, medical equipment, an old microscope perhaps
Chemistry flasks as vases
Framed schemas and patents of engineering feats
Ephemera everywhere (typewriters, cameras, bike parts)
GOAL!
We cannot dismiss our favorite sports fans, but you don’t want your living space to be or smell like an old locker room. Sports dad should be able to display their love of the game with these winning ideas.
Find sports memorabilia that you can put in shadow boxes
Framed Jerseys
Barware is a great way to root for your team in a more subtle way (Wooden coasters, team engraved glasses, etc)
Hanging skateboards with cool art makes an eye catching display
Vintage sports equipment make for balanced decorating
Use your team’s colors throughout
Trophy cases
Create a “game” room for you and the kids to play and watch your favorite matches/games
A large flat screen TV
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Just Going to Powder My, Er Wig?
Check out these fresh powder room ideas…Your half-bath will never look the same!
Before the phrase “powder my nose” came into fashion, “powder my wig” was the historical origin. Powder rooms were for privately dowsing talcum on the wigs of the wealthy. Then it wasn’t until makeup became mainstream that more popular term came to use. Today, they are your guests respite from game day, your friend’s pause from Rosé sipping, or a quick once over before leaving the house.
The powder room. Small in size, conveniently located, and you’ll never have to show your guest the variety of toiletries you keep on your vanity or the pile of laundry on your bed. Half baths are not just real estate selling points or a convenient pit stop during your event, these little hidden accommodations can be the highlight of your home. Don’t flush that creativity, powder rooms are made to stand out!
Adding Some Texture and Contrast
You can add some texture by installing wainscoting, battened, or bead board. You can do it easily, and pairing it with contrasting colored or wallpapered walls make for a great effect.
Get Dramatic
I like going into a powder room that has some effect. Whether it’s a moody color or fun wallpaper, your half bath can be a tiny retreat worth Covid handwashing time.
Sinks and Features
You don’t have to have traditional white all the time. From texture to color, you can adorn your powder room with cool patterns, modern features in various finishes, and choose from a variety of styles when it comes to sinks and / or toilets. Don’t flush your creativity away!
Take A Seat
Artwork can definitely bring some cool to your powder room. Entertain your guests with some fun potty mouthed humor or class it up with some vintage botanical artwork. Leave encouraging messages for your friends or show off your bathroom fixture schemas.
Let’s See Them Hands
In the age of Covid, we all want our guests to be hygienically aware, so whether you choose a one towel hang or a basket full, make sure you have plenty of absorbent ones on hand. Apparently, Turkish is the best. Hand towels are a prefect way to pop some color in there.
Urinate and Look Great!
Mirrors are great solutions to giving your powder room some illusioned space. They are also a great accessory, because let’s be honest, we use it half the time to freshen up before a good makeout session, a one last look before leaving for the office, or to make sure there’s nothing in our teeth after dinner. Let’s not forget about lighting, from sconces to pendants, lighting your half bath can bring out it’s style and leave you and your guests feeling their best!
Equip Your Half-Bath
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve been to a party and found myself in my host’s powder room and needed the following things: safety pin, mouthwash, tampon, a bandaid…having your powder room equipped for your guests is not just a nice gesture, but also will allow you to do more hosting with less interruption. Make sure they are on display. Some guests might find it invasive snooping in drawers and cabinets. Here are few things to consider when getting supplies:
An Unscented or pleasant scented lotion (Coconut, Lavender and Shea are the best choices)
An Antibacterial Soap (my favorite is Mrs. Meyer’s Clean Day Liquid Hand Soap)
Bandaids
Floss
Mouthwash with small cups
Tampons/Sanitary Napkins (guys this will win you points)
Brush/Comb
Reading Material (Some Examples)
Plenty of Toilet Paper
A container of Safety Pins
Tide To Go Stain Remover (All those wine spills)
Wet Wipes
Deodorant
Scissors
Odor Control (Poo-Pourri Toilet Spray is one of my faves)
Bobbi Pins
Lint Brush
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Sugar and spice and everything daughter
September 25th marks #NationalDaughtersDay and what better way to celebrate than give them some room!
written by: Jo Ann L. Breaux
My step-daughter has been watching fashion shows with me since she was 3 years old. The question, “Jo, can we watch more Chanel?” never made me so proud. She’s 8 now, and her sense of fashion and style have grown into finding identity in her room. Her dad built her a loft bed this past Christmas adorning her very own initial in it. She has her very own reading nook underneath and a place for her dolls. Every daughter’s bedroom is a special place. It’s where she gets to relax, to get dressed up, to imagine and play, to cry over heartbreaks, and to hold her keepsakes. It’s her sanctuary.
These days decor has changed for little girls, pink is no longer a dominant color and nor is the princess palace themed room. Don’t get me wrong, there are still a LOT of princesses out there, but there are a lot more options when it comes to the progression of nursery to teen hideout. I personally am a huge fan of the dark academia themed rooms, but hey all ladies are not the same. My girl’s room has gone from My Little Pony to Mermaids to her current obsession with stars and Harry Potter (I too wanted Gary Oldman to look over me while I slept). It will be interesting to see where her bedroom goes from here, but I’m praying for posters of her music idols and fashion themed decor. There are a ton of YouTube videos for DIY projects to recreate their sleeping quarters and finding cool second furniture and decor is a fun thing you can do with her.
So, in celebration of #NationalDaughtersDay (September 25th), here are some cool ideas to decorate your daughters’ bedrooms.
Wallpaper
I’m really digging wallpaper in general, but these are perfect for creating drama and fun in her room. Tapestries are excellent options due to how easily interchangeable they are. (click photos more info)
Paint Colors
We all know pink can be a dominant girl color, but adding contrast with it can create a less mundane princess pad or try something different with these paint trends.
Decor
No daughter’s bedroom would be complete without those little personal touches. From rugs to bed canopies to cool mirrors and wall art, creating a space that’s all her own will give her the confidence, privacy, and ability for her to be creative.
What a Girl Needs
Every daughter’s room should have these essentials. These will give her utility, identity, and self-care needs to make her space her very own haven from the outside world. Don’t forget to add a record player/good speakers for her listening pleasure.
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I think having daughters is a bit more of a challenge than sons. The best gift you can give your daughter is support and understanding. If she’s confident and knows herself, she will do great things in the world. Cherish your daughters, they are special creatures and spend time with them. Need some ideas?
Pinkies Up
Jefferson (make your reservation NOW)
Make Me Pretty
Spa-Tacular (6+ years)
Renewal (grown daughters need love too!)
Take your pre-teen to learn how to apply and do her makeup right by booking an appointment at Ulta or visit one of the counters at the mall
Go Girl!
Get your Katniss on with an Archery Lesson
We all want ponies! Take her on a ride at Greenwood Stables
Take a hike! Virginia is full of amazing hiking trails. Pocahontas is always near and dear.
Take her fishing!
Go Rollerskating or take a bike ride on the Capital Trail
A Date to Create
Make Dinner by taking an online cooking class (all ages)
Get a Reading with a local Tarot Reader or for a more mature and highly fun reading check out Madame Adam (18+ activity)
Take a Shine Dance Fitness Class at Dogtown (all ages)
Take them to the VMFA but give them clues to find things in art
Have some fun with plants and visit PlantHouse (21+ activity)
Rock Out
Get tickets now to see The Killers
Take her record shopping, talk about your favorite songs growing up
Design your very own band shirts
Write a song together
Girls Just Want to Have Fun
Here’s some prime advice, sometimes daughters just want to talk. This is a prime opportunity for you to listen. Make it a teachable moment and one that is encouraging. Talk to her about school, boys, dating, girls, bullies, dreams. Take some time out of your busy lives to visit with your grown up daughters. Take her out to lunch or a movie. Enjoy your day together and vibe on all that love!
Arriba, Arriba!
Transforming your high rise balconies into a comfortable oasis can easily be done and is a nice DIY project for the summer!
One of the things I love about the architecture here in RVA is it’s balconies. I love a good balcony and there’s nothing like sipping coffee or having a glass of vino from it as you overlook your domain. Many of the Fan apartments I lived in during my residences in Richmond have come donning balconies. Many of them left significant memories of hangs with friends, late night romances, and a proper setting for reads and contemplations.
I used to put a chair out there and maybe some makeshift table to collect ashtrays, bottles, and accouterments fit for a college student. I haven’t had a balcony since my days on Avondale in Bellevue, the only thing I miss about that rental. The balcony now resides on my wish list of things I’d like when purchasing a home, especially one that my Queen’s Quarters leads to.
RVA is seeing a boost in its Condo living in the city and most of these units do come with their elevated lookouts. The balconies seen in our neighborhood’s Revival, Colonial and Edwardian styled homes tend to be an easier space to decorate just by sheer size. It would be equivalent to decorating your deck or patio, but our city dwellers have a smaller platform to work with. Not to worry, one can turn these into cozy lifted oases fit for Juliet herself. However, although our city dwellers have a smaller space to work with, there are many options for creating a unique and comfortable space to look down upon.
FLOORING
Flooring tiles and rugs can create beautiful textures and colors for your balcony flooring and can range from super affordable and interchangeable to super luxe and very expensive. tiles are great for mixing and matching and rugs give an added comfy feel to your outdoors. Check out these cool floorings to bedeck your box.
IKEA: RUNNEN
OVERSTOCK
GRANADA TILE: SERENGETI
RUGGABLE
WAYFAIR: MISHA
FAB HABITAT
You can coze up any balcony on a budget! Check out this cute and affordable makeover.
LIGHTING
Hopefully your balcony is equipped with some electricity, but if not there are some nice LED options. Lighting is a nice addition to your balcony space, it creates the mood and ambience up there. Do you want a party platform or a romantic rendezvous? You have a few options for the ultimate elevated experience. Places like Walmart and Target have solar powered lanterns/lighting which are decorative and affordable. There is always the string light option and I will say there has been a few that are a bit different than the plain ole bulbs of yore. I personally love a combination of candles and decorative lanterns. You might also want to think about making lighting interchangeable perhaps to satisfy your holiday expressions.
PRIVACY
“I always feel like, somebody’s watching me…” Rockwell said it best. I have to say this is my favorite addition to any balcony. We have all been there. You get up, you want to do a nice long stretch and take in the outside air and you don’t want to get dressed doing it or perhaps you are trying to have cuddle time with your mate, but don’t Mr. Jones next door all up in your biz. Curtains are romantic flowing in the wind, but if you want to find something a bit more substantial there are a variety of attachable screens that will tend to not just your privacy, but also your sun intake. If you are looking for something that will add to your balcony decor, try looking for vintage wooden screens at your local thrift shop and paint them with reckless abandon. Here are few ideas you can find just using that good ole google search.
FURNITURE
Depending on how big or small your balcony is will determine how much furniture and what types will provide a comfortable setting. I love the removable and foldable tables/bars you can utilize for eating al fresco. I am also in love with the cool and cozy balcony swings or maybe you prefer a full on hammock up there. Create a raised oasis by adding small tables with lanterns/candles, vertical planters to make your space green and alive, wall niches for succulents or books, or add some art for fun. One of my favorite balcony makeovers it the transformation into an outdoor theater idea. Make a nice sit in movie area, perfect for bingeing and cuddling watching your favorite flicks. An outdoor heater or fire bowl can bring warmth even on those crispy, Fall evenings. YouTube has DIY projects galore from tool-free furniture to high rise pergolas, there’s plenty to explore.
You’d be surprised how beautiful and creative you can make this small or large outdoor space. Decor options are endless. From vertical planters to palette furniture with cushions of modern, vintage, or sleek designs. You can adorn with cozy chairs and bistro tables, add a small cocktail/tea station, or a swing. It’s truly an elevated blank canvas for the taking. Need some inspiration? Check out my Pinterest board for other ideas!
National Homeowners Month
We all wish for the American Dream of homeownership, celebrate National Homeowners Month with starting your very own wishlist!
My dad is laying on the couch, a Kent King hanging from his mouth, green beanie on, newspaper in hand, football on the television while my mom’s sewing machine hums from my pink and white bedroom, altering clothes for the local department store. My brother and I just completed shooting hoops and climbing trees in the backyard and now we crave the Little Debbies! Our orange and white cat Tommy lays spread out on the orange and green kitchen floor waiting to be fed. The scenes from my childhood home varied over time. From crawfish littering the red patio out back while my aunts and uncles, Schlitz cans in hand, scuffled to Zydeco tunes, to the soundtrack from “A Star is Born” filling the house up on a Saturday morning, to the first time I watched in awe from our sun soaked living room, MTV’s first airing, that house held so many good, and not so good memories. And maybe a ghost a two. I remember that house in all its details like it was yesterday.
Owning a home brings with it the feel of the ultimate achievement. Home is where we find comfort and protection. It’s the place where we can put our feet up and dance naked. It’s the setting for birthdays, new beginnings and hopeful endings. It is our blank canvas and the expression of ourselves where we invite others to be a part of. There is nothing like coming home from a hectic day, taking off the work clothes, and sitting on the back patio, beverage in hand. Home is an extension of ourselves. I think that is why it is supremely satisfying to own one.
This month is Homeowners Month, and we want nothing more than to help you to obtain this goal. We have great lenders who will work to find you the best lending options. We have a dedicated and efficient team who will guide you through the entire process and we will all start with one thing—a dream. Your dream. Start putting that wishlist together because even though you think you can’t afford a home to call your own, ask yourself, where are you now? Are you paying $1200-2000 of someone else’s mortgage? Just sayin’. Start putting that plan in place because you CAN do it!
This month ask yourself some questions: If you already own a home, is it the one you really want? Have your needs changed? Do you even like it anymore after Covid? Are you crushing on your neighbors or has Mr. Jones’ dog driven you mad? Did you change jobs? Did your kids just graduate? Are you sick of mowing your lawn? Can you receive the long awaited guests you’ve been missing? Are you ready for a custom built fantasy? Are you NEVER going back to the office? Generational land becoming appealing to you? So many questions, so much pondering to do, but so many possibilities!
So, this month, think about what home means to you and where you want to be. We’re here if you need us! And yes, you can AirBNB the shed! You know what’s great for motivation, a vision. I too have a vision for Home Ownership, wanna see?
Time Will Tell
“Closing walls and ticking clocks, Gonna come back and take you home…” Clocks have adorned homes for ages and the sound of ticking meditates the home…
It was tall, dark and handsome. The solid oak had intricate designs lacing its body as though it told the story of its roots, and whispered the name of whatever forest embraced it once before. The ticks were distinct and gave me solitude in the large house I visited throughout my youth, but it was the pendulum which kept my gaze as I awaited the deep bellow of it’s chime.
I’ve always had an affinity for clocks and watches. The artistry which goes into the wood carvings or the details of a clock face fascinate me, but for me these ticking relics of old bring me the lull to the deepest of sleeps. There is something about a home that is completely silent except for the ticking of a clock. Time is but both a slave and a luxury. I yearn daily to have more of it but only to do the things in which I enjoy, like being lulled to sleep. Old World design has been showcasing its antiquities in home trends as of late and I could not dismiss its allure without mentioning clocks.
Before clocks were common, the words “clockwise” and “counterclockwise” used to be known as “sunwise” and “widdershins,” respectively. The contraction “o’clock,” on the other hand, comes from the 15th-century phrase “stroke of the clock” which refers to the medieval mechanical clocks. - Home Stratosphere
Grandfather Clocks
Named after Henry Clay Work’s diddy “My Grandfather’s Clock” in 1876, the Grandfather clock demands respect and is a stately piece in any home. I like seeing these statuesque time keepers adorning hallways and corners. I have found estate sales are a great way to obtain these and am a fan of the modern versions as well. Don’t want such a ticking tower taking over (say that 10 times real fast), you can always choose the Grandmother. Shorter and often times slimmer, these don’t take up as much room, but can be just as beautiful. It’s the chimes for me!
The Wall Clock
It was the highlight of my day to see the hand reach 3:45pm in high school. There’s something nostalgic about the round school clock in all it’s aesthetic minimalism, yet the significant punctuations they instilled. Nothing fancy, but fit nicely in home offices and kitchens. In addition, it is a great clock to teach time on, wait…they still teach kids what the “little hand” and the “big hand” do right? I however, love wall clocks in all their myriads of designs. From vinyl records to carved wood to molded metals, the more unique the better.
The Mantle Clock
These also remind me of a time of yore. I don’t love these as much. they remind me of being serious and lawyerly. I do prefer the more contemporary and baroque styled ones to put on a mantel or side table.
The Cuckoo Clock
I love good engineering and I love a good cuckoo clock. Our friends in Germany are well known for both of these talents, ask any avid car fan. These days it’s a novelty to have such a timepiece in a home, but these intricately designed clocks hailing from the Black Forest region of Germany, now has contemporary counterparts that fit nicely within modern decor. I love finding ones that have features like running water or dancing figures.
The Old School Twin Bell Clock
These are the best clocks to have on your nightstand. They tick real good and the alarm of the twin bells will make it hard to hit snooze. In my opinion, they are the VW Bugs of clocks.
No matter what your clock style, there is no denying the sound of time and what it can add to a home. It’s a comforting and peaceful antiquity from simpler times where we weren’t always powered by the dings and swooshes of alerts and messages our phones dole out daily.
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Looking for Love in All the Right Places
Are you ready to fall in love?
She and I met when I was about 5 or 6 years old. She had an iron wrought gate surrounding her as though she wore a choker from the 1800s. Her color was pale blue and her two tiered porches wrapped around her waist as though she donned a lace trimmed ball gown. Her eyes were dark, but her lids came in a myriad of brocade colors and her steeples pointed to the heavens with such grace. She was a true beauty, and my dream for a long time.
I used to pass this house on my way home from school in my small hometown of Crowley, LA. I loved that majestic home, untouchable and hiding so many stories within its walls. It was the first home I ever can remember dying to live in. Fast forward 30 something years, and I’ve had a few crushes here in RVA, but none have drawn me in the way that gorgeous Victorian of my childhood did.
Falling in love with a home requires a true connection. When you are looking for the perfect match, there are some things to consider…
Attraction. What’s she wearing? Is it a ball grown or is it a little black dress? Does it wink at you when you drive by or does it tighten up when you approach it’s gates? We all have some sort of architecture we love whether it’s the warm coziness of a Bellevue bungalow or the stately Colonials adorning the near West End or the grandeur of Monument Avenue’s Classical Revivals. No matter what you love on the outside, that love at first site thing is real when it comes to house hunting. Her outsides are the first thing you see. You may be attracted to her country porch, her picturesque face, or you may be tempted with her manicured lawns and meticulous landscaping.
It’s What’s Inside that Counts. I’ve seen several unsuspecting homes. They don’t initially catch my eye as I’m driving up, but then I go inside and that’s where she gets me. Some people are attracted to flooring, some to unique details, and others to particular rooms. For me, I’m drawn to unique quarters like libraries and secret lounges. Yes, I know this is a higher expectation, but if I have to settle, I’ll settle for falling in love with a kitchen and/or bathroom. She could be a high class gal adorned with granite countertops and the most up to date appliances or she could have original floors and an antique vanity. I think a lot of people are looking for a home that meets a less cookie cutter image, something that feels more personal. You want the love of your life to stand out from the rest, no? Aesthetics aside, there’s something more important than looks…
That Warm and Fuzzy Feeling. It all comes down to how she makes you feel. When you open her door can you see a future? Do you feel warm or do you feel as though she might spit you out when you try to change her? I’ve had clients walk in and immediately walk right out because of an initial vibe. No matter how pretty she is, if she doesn’t give you the warm and fuzzies, it’s not for you. I don’t ever want to force my clients into falling in love with something they don’t want to marry. I encourage people to take in a home, walk around it, glide your hands down her banisters, lay in her tubs, lean on her counters, check out her surroundings, and visit her at night. Then ask yourself, Is she loving you back?
Not every home is going to be The One. You could find one that is Fun for Now, but not marriage material. The most important thing is not to be rash, but to take some time and get to know her, find out all you can about her, learn about her history and how she’s grown, and make sure she doesn’t have any baggage that’s going to come up later.
I pine for the day I can walk into a home and say, “This is my forever!”. Until then I’m still dating around, trying to find out which one is worth my investment. What about you? Have you fallen in love yet? Are you ready to make a commitment? I’d love to hear more Love Stories, feel free to leave a comment.
For the Love of Home Questionnaire
What was the first home you fell in love with and why?
See Above and also because I really love historic homes.
What was the first home you cohabited in? You know, your first love nest?
We’d been dating for well over 3 years and although he was at my house pretty much every day, we didn’t officially move in together until 2002. 3 S Vine. A small one bedroom apartment that I fell in love with because it was updated and the location was stellar. We ate at The Lighthouse a whole lot! The thing I loved about it the most was that we lived there alone — no roommates!What was the home that got away?
I have house regret. There was this beautiful house in the near West End that my friend lived in. When she moved away they put it on the market and I wished I could have bought that lovely house on Kensington.What is the decor you are crushing on currently?
I’m really digging vintage style wallpaper. I think seeing shows and film influence my style choices. Ever since I watched Sharp Objects, I want all of that! I am also digging the Art Deco style that has made a comeback. The colors in particular, I just love moody, lush colors.What is your home breakup story? The home you miss the most or the home that brought you nothing but heartache?
It’s not necessarily a “home” in terms of the construct you live in, but the home I miss the most is New York, funny, it the home which has brought me the most heartache as well. I do miss it’s vibe though!What is your favorite place you LOVE to be in at your house and why?
Our bedroom. I love how dark it is and yet how bright I can make it. I also love our front porch which makes for a great way to get to know your neighbors.Was or is there a neighborhood you LOVE the most?
Yes, this one. Ginter Park and Brookland Park has been my favorite place to live in RVA. I love it so much! Its walkability, its business owners, its friendly neighbors and the homes are incredible and historic.What is your favorite piece of furniture?
Right now it’s the album holder which was custom built by Tom Brickman. In the future I hope it is velvet chaise I hope to attain.
House Style: Homes on the Screen
I watch a lot of movies and TV and I do love a good setting especially one where a home is also a character. Here are some picks of my favorite homes from motion picture. There are so many I love!
Sweet Home Alabama’s Historic Plantation Home
I am an avid, if not professional binge watcher of streaming television and movies. From Outlander to Buffy to recently, Dollface, my love of stories is fervid. It is true, my first true love is books, but sometimes I find it difficult to picture the intended setting of some authors. Just as I discover music through motion picture, I also easily discover dream home scenarios and ideas. It got me thinking, what my favorite houses and home decor from TV and movies. Here is what I came up with.
The Sharp Objects | Crellin House
I absolutely loved this house from the first shot of Amy Adams driving up to the gates of the Crellin House and down the winding driveway. I’ve always have had an affinity for Victorians. I don’t know if that comes from my deep southern upbringing or my pull to historical architecture. The features of Victorian’s are some of my favorites, turrets, wide wrap around porches made for cocktail sipping, and I’m a sucker for the ornate.
The other feature in the Crellin House I’m in love with is weirdly enough, the wallpaper. Featuring the Emerald vintage Chinoiserie in the foyer. The de Gournay covered walls make for an elegant welcome. All the rooms, from Adora’s distinctive Ivory, and soon to be revealing bedroom floor, to Alan’s album rich listening room adorned with beautiful built-ins, stained glass windows, and a decorative archway. All it need was a secret doorway. Even Amma’s room, drenched in pink and super sweet would tantalize a teenage girl.
The Preaker Manor as it appears on Sharp Objects.Photo by Anne Marie Fox/HBO
Sharp Objects | Crellin House Entrance Foyer | Courtesy of John Paino and HBO
Sharp Objects | Crellin House Listening Room Foyer | Courtesy of John Paino and HBO
Moonrise Kingdom | Summer’s End
The lighthouse Bill Murray and fam inhabit is a wet dream of a home. The Conanicut Point Lighthouse featured in Wes Anderson’s film Moonrise Kingdom is located on the Narragansett Bay in New England and my absolutely favorite room in the vacation house was the children’s attic playroom donning records and and hidden cubbies. The home so retro, yet warm and inviting. I loved the very large foyer and in true Wes Anderson style the color pallet did not disappoint. Kris Moran is one of my most inspired designers. Having created the Wes Anderson effect, she creates these whimsical homes telling their own story.
Sex in the City | Charlotte’s Park Avenue Apartment
Having been no stranger to New York living, space is always an issue when the desire to live in the big city arises. Charlotte’s apartment was the epitome of elegance and sophistication. I loved the deep rich wood walls and chevron lined floors. The cream and white accents added a nice contrast and of course the sprinkle of antique furniture throughout was well suited for the one bedroom apartment . If one could afford such luxuries in a upper east side abode, this would definitely be of great desire.
Sex Education | The Milburn House
This picturesque Scandinavian style chalet is ideal for a village presence. I love how this house is nestled in a valley with beautiful forest surroundings. I love the set design as well. It’s cozy, eclectic, and lived in with picturesque outdoor areas around the home.
The Waterford House | Handmaid’s Tale
If there was ever a house I’d love to live in, it would be the brick Victorian from Handmaid’s Tale. This fine home equipped with greenhouse and carriage house is a rich morsel of musty books and lush rooms. From chandeliers to elongated windows, every detail fits my aesthetic desires. I’m a huge fan of the conservatory-like kitchen with it’s huge windows and skylight. I’d find every creek and clop of the hardwood floors comforting and timeless. Fred’s office alone is any literate’s or writer’s sanctuary.
